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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 4) i've done all of that, and i hate having to switch between familys, they normaly do it all on their own, i give all of my sims family oriented trait, the 5 kids lifestyle, and fertility treatment but it doesn't work. I like what you said though about a lot of people in the town. That may be it because they're tons of people in my town lol. So thanks for your help:D
(Rating: 5) thanks! I've never heard of buckle though. What state do you live in?
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 4) I am 5"6 and 170 pounds. I have big everythirng (boobs, butt, and waist etc.)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 2) You didn't read the question carefully. He is not seeing other girls.
(Rating: 5) thanks she asked me to hangout today and i said i couldn't and then on facebook she asked me to hang out with her tomorrow, because she's leaving on Friday morning, and i said sorry i can't because i am busy. so yeah i am just going to stop hanging out with her because i am never happy or myself when i am around her, and i know i can't change her, but at the same time i am not letting her control me anymore.
(Rating: 5) thanks its all i could think about and had 10 nightmares about the world ending just within 6 months or something!
(Rating: 5) :) thanks
(Rating: 4) Thank you...but I think I juss want everybody to be friends
(Rating: 5) thanks! that was very helpful
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! That was very helpful! No you didn't write too much at all. I honestly get tired of the really short answers lol. I've also been reading a book by Alicia Silverstone called The Kind Diet. I like it alot. It's packed with info. :)
(Rating: 5) thanks haha thats pretty funny. the natural way takes FOREVER. but i guess ill just have to wait. thanks again :)
(Rating: 1) not gonna starve myself. SORRY.
(Rating: 5) i will do that :) thank you
(Rating: 5) hahah Thanks! :)
(Rating: 5) Yeah thank you for helping me out. I just wanted to make sure you know, i Have seen alot america as a matter of fact. i mainly live in socal, but i was in florida for a year, NY for a fews months, Texas for a few months, Georgia, and Maryland. So yes, i have seen alot of it, maybe a little too much. The ONLY thing i can say, is that people on the east coast are a little bit nicer because they live in a smaller community thats not so hugely poluated, (like CA) and people actually notice you there where as in CA, nobody know who you are, and dont care. Also i wanted to clear up that i wasnt just in forgeign contries for only a week, i stayed in Thailand for over 4 months, and my words stay as is. I've stayed in Canada for almost a year because i was visiting family there for quite some time, and i guess i can say, i like it in Canada the most, maybe even better than the UK. I wanted to thank you because you gave me the best response! The others just yelled at me and called me stupid, which i apologized in my question beforehand lol :) But thank you! You helped me :)
(Rating: 2) you are very rude. When I wrote that I was 12 years old and scared out of my mind. I had an infection from the hot tub and it was causing swelling down there. I was in tremendous pain and all you could see fit to do is make fun of me. I am older now and I hope you are much nicer person than you used to be. :-(
(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much! You can never know how much you helped me! I have come back to the site to help other people like you have helped me.
(Rating: 5) hahha yeah i got it, they like loving but they don't really like to be held, that's kind of what i want to do though is hold it and kind of comfort it for long periods of time. So i guess i'll just have to wait on a dog :P
(Rating: 4) i dont eat junk food ever! im the healthiest girl ever but no diets workk
(Rating: 4) thanks, thats not the case but thanks for putting something in.
(Rating: 5) Yeah, good point. I think you can be attracted to people without the touching and kissing too. He did say he dumped her for me, but who knows.. Thanks for the advice :)
(Rating: 3) Thanks for trying :] I also like the idea of a peace sign :]
(Rating: 5) Thanks that was just the answer I was hoping for :)
(Rating: 5) haha, thankyou!
(Rating: 3) Rating bumped to a 3 by an L2 ----People! Humans kill for the sheer fun of it. Just because they drink blood doesn't make them evil. Yeah, its killing a life, but so is eating a hamburger. It's like saying humans are evil for eating meat!
(Rating: 4) thank you for that, and the only reason why i blame him is because of the mean terrible things hes done to her in the past. i have focused on my other friends more. and the sad thing is is that ive tried talking to her about this and she wont respond... even like really meaningful messages i leave her she wont respond back to, so idk what to do. but thank you so much.
(Rating: 4) Yeah i totally understand, but the only thing is i didnt promise ha. We had numerous discussions about it & i kept telling her how wrong it was that she would offer to be her ex boyfriends brother first time also. So i told her i didn't want any part of it. & then when she broke up with him, she said she was going to tell him the truth eventually. But i do understand where your coming from. (:
(Rating: 3) You aren't even trying to understand how it FEELS to have your every move mimicked. It's different to get your sense of style from some random picture on the internet or from tv. She imitates me directly. She talks like me, dresses like me, has the same friends as me. This has been going on for like 3 years. But she wasn't at all like that before I met her, and she openly admits she has changed. This is usually just a typical teenage response, but in all seriousness, you don't understand. And you aren't trying to either.
(Rating: 5) thank u i think he said he didnt even know her name and w.e but it is hard that was great advice im still not totally sure but at least i have some advice on what to do :]
(Rating: 5) thankyou (:
(Rating: 5) thX.
(Rating: 5) i dont have a computer lol.. mobile internet. as well as me having virgin mobile, so all he does is text me a code - no info exchange whatsoever :) i do have clothes, (from when richass dad was in the picture,) thank good, and food, but not a roof for long.. and its not like ive been lazy.. ive been looking for a job everywhere, and FINNALLY freakin found one, thank god :) but i have to help pay bills n stuff now, so yea. plus theres no payfones in the middle of the countryside..haha. i know what i was doing was pretty bad, and i feel bad about doing it, but hey, like you said, do what you gotta do right? thank you so much, everyone else just basically called me a whore lol..which im not. you really helped, though. thank you!! :)
(Rating: 5) Ive never actually been to Ontario. I live in BC, so. It's nice here :]. Alberta has a really good mall, west ed. Not sure what Ontario has. Canada's wonderland, maybe?
(Rating: 4) BUT BEST FREINDS SHOULD NOT GO FOR THEIR FRIRNES EX'S IF THAT FRIEND CARES ABOUT HIM AND HE CARES ABOUT ME TO. YOU NEVER DO THAT. THAT IS LIKE THE RULE OF FEMATISM.... I LOVE THE KID.... AND SHE IS JUST ASKING TO END OUR FRIENDSHIP..... Rating changed by L2 mod BAD ADVICE SORRY BUT BAD ADVICE
(Rating: 4) thanks for the advice even though its been 3 months already that she has been here i did that and it didn't work she is my shadow in and out of school
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the pointers, I'll keep that in mind :)
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!
(Rating: 5) thanks that helped =)
(Rating: 3) Rating changed by L2 mod.
(Rating: 5) thanks.
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! That really helped. But, where did you find your pageant coach?
(Rating: 5) kk thanks!
(Rating: 5) cooool. thanks. !
(Rating: 5) thankyou so much, like i really appreciate you taking the time to respond to my story thing :p.
(Rating: 5) thanks. i love abercrombie too. i guess ill just never buy anything ripped. and from now on ill just hang them up after the wash or take them to the cleaners. thanks.!!
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) haha, yeah, I'll take it. lol. Email me the stuff for it: Taintedvanityx@aol.com thankiess!!
(Rating: 5) thanks so much! i was like freaking out about it lol
(Rating: 5) thanks soo much<3
(Rating: 3) I am not rude to people even if I am busy. So I don't feel they should be rude to me. I really wasn't looking for an excuse for their behavior, I was hoping for some tips to make the situation more bearable. So you honestly didn't answer my question. I am also rating you down because you didn't use even one capital letter, not even "I".
(Rating: 5) haha i dont even know you but already i like you. yea i know just the thing that'll shut him up. =]
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks! ;-)
(Rating: 5) Thank you, my BMI is 17 (under weight) but I feel unhealthy, I'm not trying to define myself as a stereotyped emo (cutting/whining about how bad my life really isn't) because I've been shoved down to hell and pulled out with a sythe through my neck back and survived it all, I just want something that will define me, for who I am an outspoken funny smart hardworking strong young lady
(Rating: 5) THANKS SOO MUCH but do u no where to get it?? haha yeh i read seventeen<33 xx
(Rating: 5) thanks for your advice i'm no longer with my boyfriend or any of the other guys i'm single and loving it thanks you helped out a lot!!!! :D
(Rating: 5) Thank you! You are wonderful!
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) not rally what i was looking for but reading it back now it was worded a bit awkwardly. thanks though.
(Rating: 5) thanxxx that was wicked helpful
(Rating: 5) thankees!
(Rating: 5) Thanks! Your so ausome!
(Rating: 5) Thankss, I have naturly wavy hair but i always straighten it but all my friends say i should wear it curly.
(Rating: 5) perfect :)
(Rating: 5) he yells for me~every other family member died 8 this year
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks thats wat i thought of doing
(Rating: 4) only a couple people hate her like my whole group of friends like 10 people but like thank you!
(Rating: 1) Fuck you lady there's no need to be rude. I go to parties, what I meant by that was I don't like to get high or drunk okay? Please don't call me love, you don't know me..
(Rating: 5) THANKS SO MUCH :D that was great haha
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks, that was very helpful.
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thanks.
(Rating: 5) you were the only one that acctually gave advice on how i could do it. I appreiciate that, thanks a bunch -E
(Rating: 5) :) Thanks
(Rating: 4) yayaya. well...he slept with someone on the cruise. so w/e thanx
(Rating: 5) Thanks chic. :P Sorry bout ur breakup.
(Rating: 5) ah thnkx so much Ill have someone 3way him on the fone! thnkz so much!!!
(Rating: 3) I was looking for something a little more in depth, especially considering he is a violent guy. Thanks anyway.
(Rating: 5) Thanks :D
(Rating: 4) Thank you very much. That was a Good idea.
(Rating: 2) thanks....not
(Rating: 5) OMG YOU'RE AMAZING!
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) hahaha. okay thanks for the advice! =]
(Rating: 3) thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanx
(Rating: 4) Thankz for bein honest!
(Rating: 4) Yeah, so do I. I think they are fun but I don't exactly know if I should believe it because I don't want to read a horoscope and think that..'OMG that's what's going to happen to me in the future!' I'm the kind of person that likes to get surprised. Haha. But thanks for the advice!
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) Well, I guess I am pretty popular, I was trying to be modest. :) Well, there are like two popular groups, and Mackenzie is from a different one from mine. I didn't even notice I was popular until people said something like "Wow, you've changed a lot since last year!" and I would say "How so?" and they'd say "Well your like 50 times as popular!" and Id be like "Oh." yeah so that's kind of how i found out. But i know that hes not like using me so she has a friend, because she hung out with me along with all of her friends. And now, she hangs out with me at school, and my friends are all kewl with it, I asked them.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! Cause i was actually thinking about your advice, and what i was thinking about all night last night. (Well, for a while anyway) And i think that I kind of do like him. Just because i feel so much like myself around him! And now i just have to figure out if he likes me backkk. Cause well like we didn't hang out on weekends much everrr.. just like school and stuff. And I'm not like sisters practically with the girl who's party i was attt.. do you know like a subtle way i could like ask her to see if he likes me back? thanks!
(Rating: 5) Yeah, I'm going to wait. Thanks!
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SOO MUCH=] i absolutly love themm!!<33
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