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okay, well i like this guy but he doesnt like me i dont even think he likes me as a friend i dont know why i mean i talk to him on the bus and all but thats it. and i overheard him say he doesnt like me but i have liked this guy for a really long time. im 14 and have never had a boyfriend or even danced with a guy i know its pathetic...so could someone please help me because im at the end of 8th grade and i really want a boyfriend or just someone to like me back and i seem really pathetic..i know but idk what to do please help me...

--desperate for love

babe.. wait till highschool.. you'll meet so many more amazing guys!! forget about this one... you cant change his feelings for you. just stop talking to him and he'll regret loosing you! so wait till highschool and you'll meet so many more amazing guys and you'll be happy you waited! i promise!

michelle♥

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female,16....Hi im elena and i was woundering, My friend and i were in the park one day and we ended up making out.. The next day at school he didn't talk to me or even look at me.. He told his cousin that he liked me and he liked what happend but he wont talk to me. IS there something wrong or am i just freeking out?

Don't wait for him to talk to you go up to him and talk to him! maybe hes just waiting for you to make the move to talk to him. most guys do that. so try and talk to him. if he just walks away without saying anything. talk to his cousin or one of his friends to find out whats wrong! good luck.

michelle♥

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Does anyone know of a really good site that offers pre-made layouts for MYSPACE that you can insert with a code?Thanks!

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=2990515&Mytoken=20050505141812

^That is an amazing site for pre-made layouts!! Hope that helps! Sorry it was only one... :o/

michelle♥

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My friends Beth and Kristen,well there good friends we all are. But When ever i share a memory with beth on the phone[[we all call on 3way]] Kristen talks over me to share a memory i havent expreicened,Kristen makes it so people dont like me as well. So i dont like to hang with her anymore!!! she always gose "omg remember beth that time the yankees stink song?? lol!"..Im SOOO Ticked!!! can someone help so i just,not be that ticked? Really im an easy going person but i just cant stand it!

shes jelous of your relationships with all your friends! no joke! thats why she does that..but next time when your talking and sharing a memory..and she interupts you to share hers say "KRISTEN! CAN I TALK AT LEAST ONCE DURING THIS CONVERSATION?!" who cares if she gets mad at you shes not a good friend for what shes doing..just let it out to her..then shell step back and things will be normal!! if she doesnt step back then she doesnt deserve your friendship so dont talk to her again! good luck..

michelle♥

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Does anyone have a site where you can take a lot of fun quizes? Thanks!

a reeeally good one is:
http://www.zenhex.com/portal.php

that one has tones and tones of quizes you can take.theres also:

http://www.quizfarm.com
http://www.quizilla.com
http://www.youthink.com

those are some! have fun..sorry there wern't that many! :o]

michelle♥

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hav u got msn

yep i do! :o]

michelle♥

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what are some bands that aren't well known? like rock or metal bands. like how TBS used to be. but know a lot of people know who they are. know any good ones?thanks.

Some awsome bands are:

Velvet Revolver
Creedence Clearwater Revival
Death Cab for Cutie
Murderdolls
Breaking Benjamin
Crossfade
As I Lay Dying
Lamb of God
Fear Factory
Meshuggah
From Autumn To Ashes
God Forbid
Dashboard Confessionals
Tool
Operation Ivy
The Who
Drowning Pool
Stone Temple Pilots
Smashing Pumpkins
Something Corporate
The Bouncing Souls
Hot Hot Heat
Matchbox Romance
Fall Out Boy
Black Label Society
Pantera
Chevelle
Dead Kennidys
God Smack
Coheed and Cambria
Franz Ferdinand
Alice in Chains
The Clash
Sugarcult
Trapt
Sepultura

wow..thats alot haha have fun! you might have heard of some already but those are some pritty unknown bands!

michelle♥

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What are some lyrics for songs from THE USED, or sites i can go to to get them. ill rate a 5! thanks!!!!

oommggg i looooooove The Used

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my sister has just bought a guinnea pig and it has started to whine . A short while later it starts to purr. Why does it do this?

all guinea pigs whine..they sort of make a sqweeking noice? it either wants food, water, treats, or attention..or it could just be the kind that sqweeks all the time. my cuzin had one and it sqweeked non stop and the vet said it was normal..dont worry about it! its just how guinea pigs are!

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well ya see i want to get black streaks in my hair... idk how i should do it tho... my parents dont want me to say they wouldnt take me to get it done... so im gona do it without asking them...
my hair comes a TINY bit bellow my shoulders in the front...its layerd like crazy...and it gets longer in the back...and its naturally wavy and really thick... oh yea and i also have bangs down a tiny bit pasmy eyes... and its a bunch of different colors ( naturally)... mostly dirtly blonde, light brown... how should i get it done? should i go to a salon anyways? if i dont... what product should i use? also... if i do it myslef... how? also if i go to a salon... how much is it?
PS if it helps... i like the way Xtina Agularas hair looked when it had black streaks

my hair is probibly exactly how you want yours..and i have a picture of me on my column..its in black and white but my streeks are a dark/redish brown..i have a normal version of that picture if you want to see it to base how your going to do your hair. but really i think you should go to a salon to get it done. because the colors out of the box can turn your hair the WRONG color. for black it could make you have purple,dark blue, or even dark green hair! so i suggest u go get it done professionally. and xtina agulara had extentions ... she had them put in as "peek-a-boos" is what they call them in the hair styling business thing..i kno this cause i asked for that two and they said its hard to put in peek-a-boos with out extentions so i just got streeks! but dont lisen to the person under me itll look awsome..so tell your parents its your hair and they should let u do what you want with it! good luck with everything..if you need more help just ask me cause i know lots about what your wanting for your hair!

michelle♥

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i dont rele shop at hollister just abercombie my friend wants 2 pullover sweatshirts .. from there how much would that cost? thanks xo0x

hollister is veeerrryy expencive..they are a little more then abercrombie..two pullover sweatshirts would cost 80-90 $'s! unless they are having a sale! good luck!

michelle♥

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i HAVE MEDiUM LENGTH THiN STRAiGHT HAiR BUT iTS ALWAYS SO FRiZZY !! AND LiKE iN THE BACK iT GETS iNTO A LiL BALL OF HAiR THiNGY .. i DO TAKE A SHOWER .. SO0 MY HAiR IS WET WHEN THiS HAPPENS i DONT BLOW iT OUT B/C iT JUST MAKES MY THiN HAIR WEAKER AND ALSO COULD IT BE THAT I WEAR HOODED SWEATSHiRTS iS THERE ANY PRODUCTS YOU COULD ADViSE?? P.S i TRiED PANTEENE iT DOESNT RELE WORK FOR ME iDK THANKSS !!! i RATE HiGH XO0XO

take a shower in the morning then take a barrol brissle brush and blow dry your hair strait. it wont make it weaker trust me i blow dry AND straiten my hair EVERYDAY and its not dead or fried..i use garnier fructis long and strong so try that and see how it works it works awsome for me! but dont worry about ur hair getting weak from just blow drying it..i garontee if you use the garnier shampoo and conditioner i suggested and blow dry it that way your hair will show a differce! good luck!

michelle♥

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i'm auditioning for drill team officer, possibly head sergent and i need to choreograph to two songs. i need a song for a jazz routine and a prop routine (where u have a chair, ladder, cane, or some other prop incorperated into your dance) and i need help thinking of songs. i want the jazz routine to be very poppy and bouncy. kinda like cierra 1 2 step, but i don't want to use that song. but for the prop routine i still don't know what i want. suggestions for it are open. i rate high. i just want ideas and song titles, thanks for the oppinions.

well...

for one of them you could do "caught up" by usher! thats a good song for a routine..or you could do "hollaback girl" by gwen stefani! also the rap part of "oh" by ciara is good for a routine..then mix another song into it..or use the actual song! just get crative..also you could use oldies as your songs..thats what we did for cheer! hope i helped..

michelle♥

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im realy bored,i have nothing to do please help!
i have seen everthing on T.V a billion times and i have surfed the intire internet.Please help i rate 5s.Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

go shopping.
hang out with friends.
go see a movie.
eat! haha thats always intertaining.
rent movies.
invite a friend over.
call someone and talk to them.
answer peoples questions on here! lol
go for a walk or something..just be creative..sorry i didnt really help..im bored alot to :o[

michelle♥

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how do i get over a person i really really love ?

it'll take a while but you'll get over them soon! just go out with friends..go to partys or to the movies with other guys around! or if you are a guy then with other girls around! i know its hard trust me and it wont happen fast. but try not to think about them..you'll end up finding someone better sooner or later! good luck babe.

michelle♥

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how do i ask a friend if he likes me?...without ask him "do you like me"
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if you like him-
tell him how you feel about him. then he will most likely tell you how he feels about you.
if you dont like him-
just say, "who do you like?" and if he wont tell you that means it could be you! or say you heard from someone that he likes you then see what he says..
another option is you could ask one of his frineds! srry i didnt really help

michelle♥

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Sometimes, out of no where, i'll get dizzy, my head will feel weird, and i see these weird grey swirls. i cant see anything else. it goes away pretty quick, but its incredibly weird. does anyone know what this could be? thanks.

thats not normal!! you should go see a doctor like..as soon as possible..are you eating regularly? if you are definatly see a doctor..if not that could be why but i still think u should see a doctor!

michelle♥

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when u tan in a tanning bed should u use just regular lotion or stuff with bronzer in it because i wanna get tan fast but i dont wanna turn orange??

Just go to the tanning place and they should sell loition in a little pouch thingy there cheap! and work good. So ask the person working there what one they like best cause if they work there they will most likey tan there. So just ask what one they like best and try that one! Hope i helped.

michelle♥

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i want to dye my hair out of a box as opposed to getting it done professionally. is this a bad idea?

yea it is..only cause 50/50 % chance it wont be the color you want. so go get it professionally done. but if you dont want to...then good luck with the box! but i dont recomend it..at all.

michelle♥

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what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness???

some others are...

-tierd alot
-missed period
-sore breasts
-morning sickness (which doesnt ocure in everyone)
-cravings
-weight gain

hope i helped

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