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SOO TICKED My friends Beth and Kristen,well there good friends we all are. But When ever i share a memory with beth on the phone[[we all call on 3way]] Kristen talks over me to share a memory i havent expreicened,Kristen makes it so people dont like me as well. So i dont like to hang with her anymore!!! she always gose "omg remember beth that time the yankees stink song?? lol!"..Im SOOO Ticked!!! can someone help so i just,not be that ticked? Really im an easy going person but i just cant stand it!
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She sounds self-centered and obviously needs therapy.
Oh, and you need therapy to learn to become more assertive. ]
She probablly doesnt have as many other close friends as you and shes jelous. I think you should talk to both of them about this... calmy tho so they dont get mad at you! X0` ]
Calmly talk to her about it, tell her why it bothers you so much, even if it seems obvious to you. Talk to friends one on one like other people said. ]
Hmm, stop 3 waying. Or drop that friend, if she makes people hate you why are you her friend? Are you stupid? I think this could be. I foudn a clue watson! ]
Kristen is very rude, and she is self centered. I am surprised that anyone likes her. That kind of behavior gets old fast. I am not surprised that you are pissed. Just don't change and try to be like her to get more attention. It won't take long for people to see that Kristen always needs to be the center of attention. (This is due to how she is being raised. not enough attention at home, but that is not your problem.)
Your friend Beth will get tired of it too. Why not lay low, and when Beth asks you why you don't share 3 way calls anymore say. "Why bother, I can't get a word in because Kristen is so controlling" ONe thing I like to say to my son, because he has a tendency to get like that sometimes, so when he interupts a conversation I am having with someone else, we say. "I know Anthony, it is all about you, isn'it?" And we laugh and he realizes that he is being rude.
Hope this helped
Michele ]
shes jelous of your relationships with all your friends! no joke! thats why she does that..but next time when your talking and sharing a memory..and she interupts you to share hers say "KRISTEN! CAN I TALK AT LEAST ONCE DURING THIS CONVERSATION?!" who cares if she gets mad at you shes not a good friend for what shes doing..just let it out to her..then shell step back and things will be normal!! if she doesnt step back then she doesnt deserve your friendship so dont talk to her again! good luck..
michelle♥ ]
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