Hm, I'm 14 and female, an artist, vegan, environmentalist, music obsessor, animal lover, attempted optimist, everyone's psychoanalyst, semi non-conformist, overthinker, idealist, believer, searcher of genuiness, I'm open minded, empathetic, and not quick to blame.
Website: deviantART
E-mail: opusthepenguin@care2.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA, USA
Age: 14
AIM: CelstialLooknGls
Member Since: April 6, 2005
Answers: 7
Last Update: May 18, 2005
Visitors: 901
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I don't have a lot of money and I have a cat that does not have a liscence or vet or anything. Everytime my cat sneezes it shoots diarhea all over the wall and it drips everwhere and she's even splurged on me before. help me. what do i do? (link)
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I think you should really take your cat to the vet, that's about all I can think of, unless you want to give her away. Make sure you give her to a no-kill shelter if you do give her to a shelter!
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hey im one of those people who really likes helping other people, you know helping them with problems whether serious or not. well some times i get overwhlemed by all of their problems and i become depressed too. and sometimes it feels like they start to expect SO much out of me and i cant do everything...then we get into a fight! what should i doooooo??? (link)
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That's good that you like to help, I'm like that too. You have to try not to get absorbed in someone's problems though. Just do all you can and if it's really serious recommend them to a therapist or someone who can help better than you, because you can only help so much. Don't obsess over helping people, take a day off every now and then and just do something fun to take your mind off things, or talk about happy things with the same people sometimes. It also helps to write about it and keep in touch with people you worry about, just let them know you care.
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My male friend (he has a girlfriend, i dont date) and i were really close for quite some time and then he told me that he liked me (for some time now) and then a few weeks later that he loved his girlfriend, the entire situation was aweful and i tried to stay away from it best i could, but now we arent as colse...actually now we are more of aquaintences than friends and im starting to doubt what our friendship was. what do i do? how do i know we werent just close because he like me? (link)
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Maybe he feels awkward about liking you. You should talk to him, on the phone if possible. Tell him you'd still like to be friends and maybe you'd like to do something as friends (but that you don't have romantic feelings for him). Say you're willing to start over.
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hey. ok im really shy and stuff...and tomorrow i have to present like a 2-3 minute thing in front of my class..but i always get REALLY nervous when i present stuff alone..like i forget what to say and i sweat and stuff, and not only does that make me look like a freak, but my grade gets low...what should i do?? plz help =( (link)
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Have note cards with you if you're allowed, and look at people's noses rather than eyes so that it looks like you're making eye contact but not. DO NOT PICTURE PEOPLE NAKED!! I don't know about you, but that would definitely distract and mentally scar me to picture my classmates naked. Also make sure you know exactly what you're going to say and know the material. Practice with friends/family also.
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My friends Beth and Kristen,well there good friends we all are. But When ever i share a memory with beth on the phone[[we all call on 3way]] Kristen talks over me to share a memory i havent expreicened,Kristen makes it so people dont like me as well. So i dont like to hang with her anymore!!! she always gose "omg remember beth that time the yankees stink song?? lol!"..Im SOOO Ticked!!! can someone help so i just,not be that ticked? Really im an easy going person but i just cant stand it! (link)
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Calmly talk to her about it, tell her why it bothers you so much, even if it seems obvious to you. Talk to friends one on one like other people said.
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okay, well i like this guy but he doesnt like me i dont even think he likes me as a friend i dont know why i mean i talk to him on the bus and all but thats it. and i overheard him say he doesnt like me but i have liked this guy for a really long time. im 14 and have never had a boyfriend or even danced with a guy i know its pathetic...so could someone please help me because im at the end of 8th grade and i really want a boyfriend or just someone to like me back and i seem really pathetic..i know but idk what to do please help me...
--desperate for love (link)
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I'm 14, in ninth grade, and in my fisrt relationship. It doesn't really matter how old you are, the right person will come along sooner or later. I used to feel like you, but now I realize that my boyfriend is just who I've been wanting all along, and I didn't know anyone before him like that. High school allows you to meet all kinds of people, you'll see. In the meantime enjoy being single! Haha. And when you do find someone, ask him instead of waiting for him to get it, guys are too slow sometimes! Don't be afraid of talking to guys with intentions of friendship, it helps to be friends with guys. And learn to love yourself without the approval of a guy.
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why is april 20th national pot day? kids got arrested at my school today and they had drug searches in the parking lot. i didn't know it was a "holiday" though until this past monday...what's so signifigant about the date? why is this national pot day? thanks! (link)
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April 20th=420=the stoner number=4:20 pm=the time a bunch of stoners thought was a good time to get high. :\ My former druggie math teacher let us do nothing yesterday, it was awesome.
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