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well i like this guy...and i guess he sorta likes me... like a little bit... i want him to like me enough to go out with me...how do i do that? how do i tell him i like him? how do i get him to like me moore!! i need hellpp!!

JUST BE YOURSELF!

Thats really all, you dont want him to like you for someone that your not, because then he isnt really liking you, he's liking the girl that you are pretending to be. any guy who goes with you, should like you for the great girl that you are, not for someone you are pretending to be. if he doesnt like you for you, then tougH! his loss; not yours! remember that!

Hope This Helps!

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kay..i have had a crush on john for a couple of months. then on monday, he asked me out!! i was so happy!! everyone was talking about it!! i know that he smokes weed and pot,( he told me b/4 we were going out) but i still like him..... and when he gets drug tested for his athletics, if he fails it, everyone will think i am desperate. but i really like him.
i will rate HIGH

talk to him about it, like if you dont like it, i mean if he is a good guy, but i wouldnt go out with someone who does drugs, its to dangerous, like when he is on them, and he may get you into them, and then make u do stuff that you dont wanna do!

dump him! and tell him why
even if he says that he wont make u do aything he cant control himself when he is on them!

ANy other questions? leave a post on my page, and i'll get back to you!

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What do you do if you think someone is really annoying and she is at your house all the time..she thinks that i am her friend but im not..what should i do?

say you have homework,or that you are only allowed to talk on the phone for 30minutes or your grounded. and tell your parents that you dont like her so that whens he calls they can say taht your busy. and tell her that you cant talk or your gonna get in trouble!!!

ANy other questions? leave a post on my page, and i'll get back to you!

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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much

-roxy-

no I totally agree with you! some of my friends arnt virgins! (im a freshman) and like a tun of people do too much stuff, and thats what alot of people want, and if they cant get that they'll take anything that they can get, and i dont like that. i dont think that you should do anything unles your dating, and have been for a while.
and as for sex, thats OUT OF THE QUESTION until marage in my book!

ANy other questions? leave a post on my page, and i'll get back to you!

yah, so i agree!

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hey i am a girl and i am totally freaking over my braces i am going to be getting i don't know what colors to get and all of my friends tell me it hurts when they tighten them does it really hurt?
i need some good advice quick o yeah tell some colors 2 (I AM A GIRL) thanks i rate high .

yeah,it does hurt, but uit is so worth it! your teeth look so good when they are done! and yah it hurts. but make sure that you brush you teeth alot or else you'll have spots, and when you first get them on it tastes funny, and you cant eat solid foods. I took advil, and it was easier, but i mean i couldnt chew gum.

Sorry that they hurt but, it worth it!!

GOOD LUCK!


ohh! and for colors, pick your fav! or 2 that go good together, but make sure that they will match your clothes! they'll be there for a while


ANy other questions? leave a post on my page, and i'll get back to you!

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two guys at school like me and i like them ones funny and nice and the other is cute and nice! who shoud i choose?

wow, i dont know, i hate things like that because you dont want to hurt the other one, i dont exactly know what to tell you, go with which one is nicer to you!!!

GOOD LUCK!

if you want anymore adice leave a post on my page, and i'll get back to you!

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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???

it shouldnt matter, because i mean if he likes you and you like him, and you should care what other people think!!!!!!!!!

CONGRATS! THAT YOU LIKE EACHOTHER AND YOU ARE TOGHETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



GOOD LUCK!

any more questions? leave a post on my page and i'll get back to you!

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So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!

Well, being popular is "like, she is like so like wierd like! Like did you like see like her like clothes like!" well when i hear the "popular clique" its like gossip, but beind friends with everyone is a great idea! just make sure that you dont leave anyone behind! just tell her that she is still you bestfriend, but you want to have other friends too! and tell her that you want other people to know that your nice and that your there for them!!!!

GOOD LUCK!

If you need more help post on my page and I'll get back to you!

Hope this helps!

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Okay I am a female an I am 15 yrs old. I have always been rather skinny but I moved over a yr ago and since I moved I have gained a few pounds. I am still rather skinny, but now I have hips and I dont like it. I am about 5'6-5'7 and I way about 130lbs. My stomach is flat, and I have long legs, its just my hips. I am not comfortable with my body right now.I try and do sit ups and I walk and run alot but it doesnt seem to be helping much. I am really pretty, but I just want to lose a few pounds to feel better about myself. What is a good way to lose my hips and a few pounds? Does anyone kno of a good diet I could go on that does not involve too many calories. What do I do to lose weight?

Just watch what you eat, you sound like you look fine! and i think maybe becuase you moved you were sad, and thats howsome you gained a few pounds! you sound like your doing great! working out! but dont expect instant results! you may just have a curvy body! BE PROUD OF YOUR CURVES!!
BEYONCE IS!!! REMEMBER! even if you dont like her,if you love yourself, it makes it easier for others to as well!!!

GOOD LUCK!

If you need more help post on my page and I'll get back to you!

Hope this helps!

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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-

no, just relax! and make sure that its in all the way, i was scared too! but just relax!!! thats all i can say! if your tense it wont work!! it doesnt hurt unless its in wrong! ask your mom! and look at the pic that comes in the box, it has directions!!

GOOD LUCK!

If you need more help post on my page and I'll get back to you!

Hope this helps!

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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help!

Uh, is it full, because sometimes they may not be full, and then since its dry inside and the tampon is dry, maybe thats why! use a smaller absorbancy! and wear a maxi with it! dont change it as often {having the maxi on will help if it leaks. just dont leave it in over 8hours!

GOOD LUCK!

If you need more help post on my page and I'll get back to you!

Hope this helps!

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I went out with this guy (we'll call him Tim) for a few weeks but then we broke up. Now, a year later, Tim is one of my best friends. He tells me anything and always comes to me when he needs advice about his new girlfriend (we'll call her Callie). The problem is that Callie hates me! The reason why is because before Tim dated Callie, Callie had another boyfriend (we'll call him Connor). Connor dumped Callie because he thought I was hot and wanted to ask me out (which he never did). Tim said Callie hates me because she's mad that her ex boyfriend dumped her for me. I don't want her to hate me because she seems like a cool person and I don't like it when people hate me! And I know for sure that Tim is telling the truth about her hating me because he is so sweet! Please help thanks! I'll rate ya! ps. I'm 13/f

The talk to her, because I have/have had the same problem!!! she hates you for things that didnt happen! and, she shouldnt me mad at you! she should be mad at her boyfriend for dumping her FOR you! you didnt make him break up with her for you or anything! Girls are soo silly! well, just talk to her! and to me, it looks like you girls could be really good friends!

GOOD LUCK!

If you need more help post on my page and I'll get back to you!

Hope this helps!

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me and this guy (that i like) always talk online (he goes to my school) but we never talk at school...actually i think he avoids me at school...he doesnt have a girlfriend and we seem to get along...whats up with him?

Well, maybe he is scared, did you say that you like him and did he say that he likes yoU?

well, maybe he just is nervous, i mean if your younger, maybe he has never had a girlfriend before?

Hope this helps, just look from his point of view!

And Maybe he think that you dont want him to talk to you, maybe smile at him for a week when u see him then wave the next, then maybe say hey the next, just take it slow. :)

If you want more help, post on my page! and I'll get back to ya!

GOOD LUCK!

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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?

Well, You should show her that note, and have a note that you write with it, and the write that you want to be friends with her, and that you want things to work out, and that you want to be friends forever just like she wanted!

GOOD LUCK!

leave a question on my page if you want any more help!

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i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?


Well, he does what most people do, he's on the rebound, and he goes to the first person that he can find, its normal, and you're just 13, and i know how bad this stuff can hurt! it brings a tun of tears! and you cant stand to see his face or her face or their names! and you ahve violent feelings! its all normal.it was the same for me! He'll come around! and he'll see that it was his mistake that he left you! and that your a great girl! and its mean to go with someone that he knows u dont like, but maybe he didnt know what else to do, and maybe he is really hurt too, and that was all he could think of to do, because maybe hes mad with you and hurt too. I know thats confusing, but I hope you know what I mean!

Just be yourself, and stick with your girls! and whenever the time presents its self, cry! just grab a pillow, curl up in bed, and cry, but make sure that you dont blame it on yourself, and take deep breaths, it helps, and for me, i take a shower, it usually helps! and I turn on the radio while im in the shower, and i put it on my FAV station! and sing! :)

GOOD LUCK!

ask me more questions on my page if you need more advice!

Hope this Helps!

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ive never been popular at my school, ive never been asked out by any guy (im thin, and gorgeous) and ive always been average and i stutter everytime i talk and i dont no what to talk about and there always bored of me and i hate how i act different at school then i do at home

my question is

* can someone give me tips to flirt
* can someone tell me what to talk about so i can be a little bit more popullar

desperatee

Well, All I can say is:
BE YOURSELF!
I've answered like 4 questions today! and they are all about this kind of stuff! and I just dont seem to understand why you girls want to change so that you're popular or so that guys like you! just be yourself, and if they dont like you then TOUGH! thats their problem not yours, dont change for those jerks! be yourself, and i promice that you'll find someone when your older, view my other answers on my page! they should help you!

Ask me anyother questions is you need advice or help!!!

GOOD LUCK!

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ok I have this ex, and he has like 4 personalities, because one minuite he's really nice, next he's really horrible. So anyway I went out with him, it felt so good, but then he changed and started not to care then he was nice to me again, then he started calling me names and I really hate it. On thursday he said he's sick of all the argueing, but yesterday he started calling me a hoe, and a slag and like I don't know why,please help me I'm confused.

wow, he's young i take it, Guys are just wierd like that, and soon they'll be normal, until your a sophmore or maybe evena JUNIOR! {believe me babe} they guys are, well, BLAH! they are just perverted, and strange. Im a Freshman, but my boyfriend is a Junior, and we have been together for over 10months, and he si just the sweetest thing, and he cares about me, and he's also my best friend. and then all these guys that are freshmen like me, are really strange, and yah they're my friends, but they are perverted and they always want some, and they have wierd personalities like that. They are still trying to figure out who they are. and it was like that in 8th grade too! so dont worry! and keep your chin up!!! He's not the one for yoU! no guy should say that stuff to you, espically YOUR OWN BOYFRIEND! so just keep lookin for other guys, and in the mean time, stick with your girlies!

Hope this Helps!!
GOOD LUCK!

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ok so my friend alexia has a really popular twin sister who is named ashley. i hang out with alexia but i also sometimes hang out with ashley. and alexia and i decided last year in 7th grade that we wanted to be more social and popular in 8th grade. so far things are going well but she is more popular than i am because of her sister. i guess that is just a natural advantage. and alexia has got such style and lots of clothes (because her and her sister share clothes) and if you meet alexia then she will automattically be the leader of the group just because that is part of herself i guess. so anyways i want to be like her because like guys like her and guys dont really like me. what does she do to make everyone like her? well anyways i want to be like her but dont get me wrong i love me, myself, and i and who i am but still i want to be like her. what should i do. please help!!
-ARIELLE

well, Your still young, and trust me, everyone, including me, goes through that at one point in their life or another, and well, to say the least, it not worth it. I mean I have had an amazing boyfriend for over 10months, and I didnt have to change myself to get him to like me, he likes me for me. and you shouldnt have to change yourself to have friends or to have a guy like you, when your at that age, guys are wierd like that, but when you get older and your a sophmore or older, then the guys arnt that bad, but as for now, they're just wierd. Just be youself, and everything will be fine, and you'll be glad that you didnt change yourself for someone else, because then its not really real or really true, and if a guy likes you, then they really just like the girl that you are pretending you are, not the real awesome and amazing YOU! so just be yourself and everything will work out fine, eventually, just be paitent.

I hope that this helped!
GOOD LUCK!

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I'm sorry if this is a little long...

There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.

The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.

My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?

Thanks

wow, ive had problems like that before, well, its just this thing when they are together they are just gonna be like that, and they dont want anyone else, and they are probably gonna stay that way, i dont know what to tell you, because my reltaionship with my friends like that hit rock bottom, you could explain to both of them how you feel, and/ or go to a school councler, or have them go with you to a school councler, and then everyone can talk fair and express their own feelings

hope this helps!
good luck!

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I'm going to sign my teacher up to be on what not to wear. The thing is, on the sign up sheet, you have to fill out where they live, their day time phone number and adress. Obviously I have to find out that stuff without her knowing. Does anyone have any ideas of what I should do to get this information?

yah! ask a teacher that she talk to alot, talk to them! talk to your school principal, they may not give you the info, but they may nominate the teacher for you! because that info IS confidential, so just ask her friend type teachers or your counciler or principal

hope this works good luck!

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