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boy troubles
i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?
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well if he broke up with you he did it for a reason. Theres nothing really you can do to get him back or you could just tell him how you feel and hopefully he will respond to that
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hmm....you should go out wiht an older guy in the grade above you and rub it in his face if u ask me
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Well, he does what most people do, he's on the rebound, and he goes to the first person that he can find, its normal, and you're just 13, and i know how bad this stuff can hurt! it brings a tun of tears! and you cant stand to see his face or her face or their names! and you ahve violent feelings! its all normal.it was the same for me! He'll come around! and he'll see that it was his mistake that he left you! and that your a great girl! and its mean to go with someone that he knows u dont like, but maybe he didnt know what else to do, and maybe he is really hurt too, and that was all he could think of to do, because maybe hes mad with you and hurt too. I know thats confusing, but I hope you know what I mean!
Just be yourself, and stick with your girls! and whenever the time presents its self, cry! just grab a pillow, curl up in bed, and cry, but make sure that you dont blame it on yourself, and take deep breaths, it helps, and for me, i take a shower, it usually helps! and I turn on the radio while im in the shower, and i put it on my FAV station! and sing! :)
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Well I had a boyfriend and he said he'll ask me out back later so then days later he started going out with this other girl. I kno how you feel but I think the BEST idea is to get over him. Move on, if you attempted to go back out with him and it didn't work then just get over him and go on.
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well... heres how it is.... you can try to get back at him all you want.... but your still gunna like him theres no way around it.... so u can either try to get him mad and have him hate you.... or just let it be let him know how you feel and let things work themselves out
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I'm sorry, but you are obviously jealous of this other girl and you just need to get over it. You are only 13. There will be so many more boys in your life that it's not even funny. Get over it, it is a nothing relationship. You probably couldn't even call it a relationship. This might be harsh advice, but it's the truth. Don't get catty with the girl or your ex just because you are jealous.Don't even bother with getting back at him. It's useless because he probably won't even care. Once again, I'm sorry if this is mean, but you need to hear it.
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getting back at him is an immature thing to do. i know it sucks to be broken up with.. i've been in a few long-term relationships and i've gotten my heart broken in every one. you should move on.. because crawling back to him isn't gonna do ya any good! just at least act like ur happy for them... still keep in touch with him, but find someone else.. maybe that will make him realize what he missed? good luck! :o)
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Simple asnwer, don't get back at him. If he sees you try to get back at him, he will be satisfied that you are upset over the breakup. Best thing you can do is leave it be and go on with your life like nothing happened. It's hard, but not impossible.
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