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my summer vacation is europe for a month and it has already been 2 weeks. a bunch of people would kill to go to europe for a month but me... i would rather be home.

i am so homesick right now i cant even describe it. I dont get to go anywhere because all of my relatives are busy with work and school etc. and i came here only with my siblings and they are always with their other friends and they dont want to include me with their plans.

my question is what should i do. I feel like im wasting my summer by sitting at their home on the computer and watching movies all day long. i am still very jetlagged so i go to sleep way early in the morning and i wake up in the evening. so i can really do anything during the day and i cant do anything at night because everyone is sleeping and ill make noise. please help??

oh and the last week im going to be in a country where there is beaches and im going with my dad and siblings (brothers) and i think it will be a little akward because the only thing we will do is go to the beach for about a week. what will i do?? i want to go shopping but they are all guys and they will never take me. i need some fun in my life!

Out of interest, what are the two countries? I live in Europe, and I've been to most European countries so maybe I could help more?

Europe is a good place for shopping. No one will care if you go on your own, since a lot of people do it too.

Also, if you go to the beach, tan, make new friends etc.

Also just experience the culture. Go for walks, look around, explore.

Don't waste it.
Europe is great :D

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okay so i saw this scene in a movie where the girl chugged like a huge bottle of volka or something and she was drunk like asap, like right when she finished..does that actually happen in real life? like right after you chug something your drunk right away or does it take time and how much time?

like i dont plan on doing this im just wondering because i know i have to do a project on drinking this coming year and this was a question i had, thankss.

Well you wouldn't get drunk straight away, depending on the drink, it would hit you some time afterwards.
And downing half a bottle of vodka is fucking hard to do :P
If it was Vodka, and you downed like half a bottle of it, it would probably take you maybe 5-10 minutes until it hit you...but you wouldn't be completely drunk then. You'd get worse.

The other day I had 5 shots of vodka, and I couldn't feel it until like half an hour.

So basically, she wouldn't be drunk straight after downing it. It'd take time to get to her. And when it did, it'd take her some time, and then she'd be really drunk.


Btw, out of curiosity, what movie was that? :P

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what are some preppy nice colorful backgrounds for myspace? can anyone give me pics or a website? Thanks

www.photobucket.com

Type in search whatever you want such as 'myspace background, hearts, purple, yellow, flower' whatever.

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I wanna get my lip pierced on the bottem right side, anyhoo, does it hurt? How long does it take to heal? Thanks everyone!

Pain depends on a person. Mine didn't hurt.
My friend said that hers hurt a lot.
It depends on your pain tolerance level.
We can't answer this for you.
It can take up to a month to heal.
If you clean it properly, don't play with it, wash your hands before you touch it, then it will heal faster.
If you don't clean it, play with it, touch it with dirty hands, then it will get infected, and will take longer to heal.

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Is there any way to stop the kids or teens from going to school in Sims 2?

Basically, when the schoolbus turns up, cancel the action to get on the school bus, or turn off free will.


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My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!?

Sorry, I don't know when you posted this, but I've been on holiday for a week..so sorry for the late response.

Well I think you should approach the situation slowly. You may get the urge to kiss her, but I don't suggest doing that if you don't like her in that way, and you want to maintain your relationship.

I don't know how close you two are, if you're close, she might not mind, but if you're not that close, then that could make things very awkward.

Be careful with this, it can't ruin a friendship.

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Okay i am going into high school next year and my friends are starting to drink and smoke. i cont want to but i know i will not be invited anywhere if i don't. i know this seems like simple, say no, but the only way to keep my friends is to drink or lose them. i know it seems like these friends suck, and they do but i cant change groups. like idk, but idk i don't want to. i just don't want to sink to that level. if you are a teen, you know what this is. you cant just be like "no I'm not drinking" I'm only 13. I'm turning 14 soon but...what do i do?

I drank when I was 13, but only at concerts :P
It's easy to say no. Just say ''I'm not into drinking''.
But if your friends are the type that will ditch you cause you don't drink, then drink one or two drinks, and take a long time to drink them, they honestly won't notice. If they're not looking, you can pour it somewhere if you really don't want to drink it.
As for smoking, that's something you really shouldn't do just cause they are. You can get really addicted, and your parents will probably find out, unless they're smokers...it might take them longer, but they would find out too.
You can fake smoke (i.e not inhaling) but just tell them that you have a history of cancer in your family. People generally don't fuck around with that.

Be careful, and try to find other friends that don't make you do things you're not interested in.

I mean, I go drinking with groups of friends (I'm almost 16) but there's some of my friends that don't drink, and it's fine. They'll drink coke or whatever, and no one has a problem with it.
We've all learned to drink at a responsible level. :)

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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places

You're only 14, and you've whored around in two weeks.
Nice.
Yes you are a slut.
You'll go back to school, most probably a few people will know what you've done, and the stories will spread, and you'll be a slut.
Guys may/will approach you, but they will be hoping to get in your pants.
You're gonna find it really hard to have a proper relationship in the next couple of years.
You've kind of fucked up things for yourself.

What's the point? Was it really worth it?
What if your parents find out from all the stories that might go around, then they will loose all respect for you, as will your friends and people in your school.

Last summer, a friend of mine did the same things as you, and more, and when we got back to school, everyone knew, cause the guys had told, also teachers found out, and one of our teachers lectured her on being a slut.

Do you want that?

Whoring around at the age of 14 just shows immaturity.
Sorry to be harsh, but it's the truth.

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Can someone make me a MYSPACE layout almost exactly like this youtube one. Except, not like all big fonts and weird. Kind of compact and skinny. Thank you :) http://youtube.com/user/sarahsayshey

Oh and by the way, some of the modules are transparent- 61%

Tried to make this how you wanted. Might not be it?
I tired to get a preview, but the website didn't have one that worked, so just paste it on your myspace and see.
I used http://www.layoutgeneratormyspace.com/
Here's the html:



body {
background-color: rgb(255,255,255);
background-image: url(http://x15.xanga.com/1a3e314236c33192282457/q132072036.gif);
background-position: top left;
background-repeat: repeat;
background-attachment: fixed;
}
table, tr, td {
background-color: transparent;
border: 0px;
}
table table {
border: 0px;
}
table table table table{
border:0px;
}
table table table {
border-width: 0px;
border-color: rgb(102,102,102);
border-style: solid;
background-color: transparent;
}
table table table td {
background-color: rgb(97, 98, 98);
filter:alpha(opacity=61);
-moz-opacity:0.61;
opacity:0.61;
-khtml-opacity:0.61;
}
table table table table td {
filter:none;
}

body, div, span, td, p, .orangetext15, .whitetext12, .lightbluetext8, strong, b, u, .redtext, .redbtext, .btext, .text, .nametext, .blacktext10, .blacktext12 {
font-family: Verdana;
font-size: 11px;
color: rgb(255, 255, 255);
font-weight: normal;
font-style: normal;
text-decoration: none;
}
.nametext {
padding: 5px;
font-family: Arial;
font-size: 15px;
color: rgb(255, 255, 255);
font-weight: bold;
font-style: normal;
text-decoration: none;
display: block;
}
.whitetext12, .orangetext15 {
font-family: Arial;
font-size: 14px;
color: rgb(255, 255, 255);
font-weight: normal;
font-style: normal;
text-decoration: none;
}
a.navbar:link, a.navbar:active, a.navbar:visited, a.navbar:hover, a.man:link, a.man:active, a.man:visited, a.man:hover, a, a:link, a:active, a:visited, a:hover, a.navbar:link, a.navbar:active, a.navbar:visited, a.navbar:hover, a.text:link, a.text:active, a.text:visited, a.text:hover, a.searchlinksmall:link, a.searchlinksmall:active, a.searchlinksmall:visited, a.searchlinksmall:hover, a.redlink:link, a.redlink:active, a.redlink:visited, a.redlink:hover {
color: rgb(255, 255, 255);
font-weight: normal;
font-style: normal;
text-decoration: underline;
}
a.navbar:hover, a.man:hover, a:hover {
color: rgb(255, 255, 255);
font-weight: normal;
font-style: normal;
text-decoration: none;
}
.badge {
position: absolute;
left: 1px;
top: 1px;
}

Myspace Layout Generator by LayoutGeneratorMyspace.com

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ive been trying to find a playboy bunny tattoo or i think thats wat it is cuz u know its the sideways turned bunny head.
does ne one know wat im talking about?
pics wud be helpful

http://www.bmezine.com/tattoo/playboy.html
http://photobucket.com/images/playboy%20tattoo/

Hope this helps?

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Hi there! Ok, so a few months ago, when I was still in school, I got a brand new black 8g 3rd generation ipod for my birthday. My parents wouldn't buy it for me for my birthday unless I saved up half the money for it. So I payed for only half of it. Well, stupid me decided to take it to school on a field trip day, and stupid me left it in my backpack, in the locker room. Of course, it got stolen. I was, and still am upset because I had only saved up 100 dollars exactly, so I didn't have any money left. Obviously, my parents weren't so hapy about me getting it stolen and taking it to school in the first place. They still say "I told you so". Plus it wasn't my birthday anymore, so they wouldn't pay for half of the cost again. Basically, I need to make the money REALLY quick. I only have 52 dollars now, and I'm getting payed on saturday for babysitting my sisters. I'm going on a 20 hour road trip to florida in august sometime and I NEED my music O.o I will die without it. So yeah, the basics;

-I'm 14
-I HATE to baby sit ok? I really hate it so PLEASE don't suggest it.
-I can do yard work, but i'm not very good at it he he...Im not very "thorough" I guess?

and that's pretty much it. Also,I have volleyball camp coming up soon and I don't know about a job. I am really stuck, PLEASE help!

Ask your parents if you can do some work around the house, or see if you can walk dogs in the morning, when people don't feel like doing it.

I managed to make a lot of money by walking dogs at 6.30 am because other people couldn't be bothered to.

:)

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so while i was at six flags yesterday with friends, my stupid boyfriend decides to text me to tell me that he got into a fight and asked me to come over bc i was the only one he wanted to see. when i called him he was givin me all the details of this fight and i was flippin out. well today, it turns out he was just kidding. he apologized and said she shouldn't have done that [well duh], but i wanna get him back. since im a girl i cant very well say i got into a fight, but since i was at six flags all day im tryin to think of somethin that i could say happened out there, i just dont know what. i want it to be good, something that'll make his stomach drop for a minute like mine did, but i cant think of anything. any ideas?

ps- please dont say, oh i dont think you should do that, or that's not the mature thing to do. he was playin with me, so now its my turn. 0=]

Well you could tell him that you hung out with some older guys, they seemed cool, but then they tried to get you to go home with them.

I said something similar to my boyfriend once, long story, and he went insane.

:P

But yeah, getting back at him, might not end too well..so be careful.


And if you do say it, tell him tomorrow, not straight away.
Be like ''I wasn't sure if I should tell you this...''

Have fun, be careful :)

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How long does weed stay in your body? I need to know because last time I smoked was a few weeks ago and I'm going for a job interview soon and I also have an upcoming physical. Also, what can you do to get it out of your sytem? Thanks :]

Water and exercise doesn't do much.
It might make the amounts smaller, but it will be there for at least 30 days.
Sorry.
I suggest not smoking weed.

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I need some good break up music. ANY. Genre opf music is good, thank you!(:

This might sound stupid, but my friend who listens to pop and r&b and stuff, likes my metal music whenever she goes through a break-up.
Here are some songs I recommend:

Are you dead yet? by Children Of Bodom
I Want you Dead by Wednesday 13
Bad things by Wednesday 13
Obsession by Soil


These are good if you're slightly pissed off or angry, rather than sad :)

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Why do people cheat?

If you are someone who has ever cheated on a partner, why did you do it?

Not passing judgments here, I just want some insight.

I cheated once, and I still regret it.
The only reason I did it was cause he wasn't paying any attention to me, and whenever I suggested breaking up, he'd make an effort for a week or two.
It sounds stupid, but back then it seemed to make sense.

But I will never cheat again. I would hate to be cheated on, so it'd be hypocritical to cheat on others.

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how old do you have to be to get a hip piercing.?
bc i want that bad im 13/f
can you please tell me how old you have to be .
Thanks.

If you mean lip, it's usually 16 or 18.
Usually 16 with parental consent, 18 without. But it always depends on states.

If you're talking about hip surface piercing, then it's most likely 18 with parental consent, because it's quite a serious piercing.

Call some studios around you, and ask.
Some places even pierce people older than 12 (not for ears) if they have their parents with them.

Ask friends who have piercings for recommended studios :)

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Im am only 14 and i am sexually active.Last night when me and my boyfriend had sex,the condom came off in my body.When it finally came out,the condom was empty of sperm.Now we are both scared that I might be pregnent.What should I do?

Definitely agree with Pink something below me.
Don't wait.
There's a HUGE chance that you're pregnant...and waiting for a missed period or taking a pregnancy test is a waste of time.
Get to Planned Parenthood ASAP!
And good luck.
If you're too late, talk to your parent(s) and see what the best option is.
Don't keep it a secret, even if you plan on getting an abortion (if it's too late for the pills)
Talk to your mom or dad.

Good luck.

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I just can't get my dang earrings out! No matter if I do it the right way,I'm too scared and it sorta hurts when I do it. There is definetly something wrong with me. If anyone can help, please break a leg!

Maybe you could provide us with the type of earrings they are?
Then I could help?

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Hi, I am considering buying a Nintendo DS. I was wondering if any of the users here have one and would share what they like/don't like about it and the games they have with it.
Please give advice on whether to buy it or not and what games to buy/not buy if i do end up getting the DS.
That would be great.
Thanks a lot!

I personally don't have one, but I'm always playing my brothers, and the DS Lite is amazing.
They recently came out with more colors too :D

They have a huge selection of games for it, and you can play with others so that's great, and you also have more fun playing with others.

One of the most addicting games (for me) has been Animal Crossing Wild World.
You have to do a lot of stuff, but it gets really addicting. Hard to resist.

They also have guitar hero for it. It's obviously better on Play Station or Xbox, but for traveling it's fine on nintendo.

I really recommend it.

Also, it has a great battery life. My brother can spend 5hrs playing Pokemon, and then the light will go red.

And you can play gameboy games with it too, which is good if you have any games.

Have fun :D

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Everytime I look in the mirror, I see white stuff on the tip of my eyelashes and it's driving me crazy! I don' know what it is and it certainly isn't normal because i don't see anyone with white stuff at the tip of their eyelashes. And I doubt that it's dandruff.

Does anyone know?

If it's like the same size as your eyelashes, then it could be the ends of your eyelashes going white.
That happened to me.
They grew out though :)

If it looks like crumbs, I suggest brushing your eyelashes with a eyelash comb.
Also, if you use eyelash curlers, check that they are clean. In the future, clean them once a month or so.
Oh yeah, if this doesn't work, then have a shower, and close your eyes. Then gently pull your fingers over your eyelashes in a downward motion...
Hope that makes sense.

If nothing seems to improve, I suggest asking your doctor the next time you visit him/her.

Ask if you have any more questions.

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