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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m

hit puberty, then come back.

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What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone?

you bottle it up like everyone else does. then you become depressed and start taking medications. you become a freak and people start talking bad things about you. you grow up with split personalities and your children will be very pale and gothic.
i hope you take this as a "GET OVER IT"

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I think i might make a good lawyer because im persusive and it seems interesting. What do law schools require you to have? Do you need to be advanced in math? Im not the best in math..so im just wondering. is there anyone out there who can tell me about law school and i know its a lot of money..but would i be able to get scholorships?

take your happy ass down to oz and get a brain.

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i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do?

rule number one: dont use so many goddamn periods when you type.
rule number two: never tell your parents where your really going. and never tell them who your really on the phone with
get my drift

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i used to be good at basketball until certain circumstances in my life forced me to give it up for a long period of time.

i'm in love with it again; but unfortunately i am badly out of practice. still decent, but not great.

is it possible (please look at the age*) for me to improve, and regain my old skill? obviously i am going to practice- but will simply practicing do it?

i understand that this is all very general, but please just tell me what you know.

also, any general tips on how to get better at basketball (exercises, etc) would be very much appreciated.

*sixteen/female

thanks in advance.

i just want to quote you on "is it possible (please look at the age*) for me to improve, and regain my old skill?" then you said that your 16. I REPEAT 16. its not like youre 80. you can do anything you want right now. im sorry but i cant believe you asked that question, its almost like you think that once youve tried something, that unless you stick with it youll never be able to do it again because youll grow incapable from age. i hope that i interpreted your question very wrong.

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I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model

Thanx

your policy is stupid. i dont want to come off as an asshole, but your policy is so stupid that i cant even express my thoughts on it. so the answer to your question is drop your policy and pretend it never exsisted. why should you hold out on love because your friends are in highschool. meaning theyre going to like A LOT of people.

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I have to do a speech and presentation in English on Tuesday. I am really nervous and hate looking at people, and if I look at my friends I just laugh. However, I can't get anything higher than a B if I don't have 'audience awareness' and I have to get all A's. So does anyone have any tips on how to be less nervous or how I can have more 'audience awareness' or even how to stop myself laughing at the funny parts of my presentation?
Thanks!!

pretend your the only one in the room. or pretend your the president, so even if you mess up it wont matter cause your the president and everyone will still love you anyway. (just dont pretend your bush) also, just remember, no matter how nervous you are, almost every single one of the other people giving presentations..theyre just as nervous as you. just dont sweat it, its not a big deal everyone has to do it. about your laughing problem, you probably just do it because your nervous, but if thats not the case then think of something really really sad right before you either do the presentation or just that funny part. thats what i always do when i have to stop laughing real fast.

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ok well i liked this kid, we'll call him fred, :P well, anyway my friend, we'll call her megan, was always up on him when i liked him. well i stopped liking him and she laid off. and the other day she told me she likes him, so i went up and told him cuz she asked me to, and hes like, yeh thats cool, but i like you again. and i was like woh ok? so i was hanging around him alot and stuff, and then today "megan" was like, i cant believe ur nosing around my guy. and i was like, WOAH OK FIRST OF ALL, and i told her what she'd been doing, and she was like, well atleast he liked me! and i was like, ok no he didnt, and he likes me. and she was like, yeah right i doubt it, so i went up to him and askedh im and he said yeh and now shes all pissed at me, and its not my fault.

that is the most immature story ive ever heard. "i was like she was like" "he said she said" you must be in middle school.

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im totally falling for my bestfriend. i liked him at the beginning of the year, and because of that we became the good friends we are now. we do everything together. Like EVERYTHING. and now, im falling for him again. hes just, hes perfect.

congradulations, did you have a question?

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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!!

this is your cue to tell us your age. you cant ask a question like this and expect help without giving your age. see if your 9, then theres probably a reason your parents dont want you to have a boyfriend and theres no way around it, but if your like 16, then its something you need to sit down and talk to your parents about. otherwise threaten to beat your brother to a pulp and if he doesnt believe you, then do it.

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I have a serious problem. I am a twenty one year old grown woman who can't make friends. I am happy with my husband to be and I love myself my dog and my family. I am a full time college student but I stay off campus. I just don't make friends easily. Never have. We just sort of fell into each other. I have no friends besides my fiancee. Can anyone suggest some hints or advice that can put in the direction of making some life long friends?

go out and drink a lot..and smoke some weed.

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Hi,
I was just putting in some new clean bedding for my rabbit and I reached into the hay bag and a very sharp bit of hay got stuck in my hand, about 3mm in. I pulled it out and it bled. I've washed it and put a plaster on but I was wondering if I can catch any kind of infection from that? It's clean hay and I've had my tetanus jab. Should I put antiseptic cream on? And now or when it's healed a little?

ahahahaha! you got stuck with hay not a rusty sword. keep it washed, you can even slap a bandaid on it if your that worried.

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Okay! My problem is that my boyfriend and I have been dating about two months, well evertime we are together he talks about starting his own buisness in the oil field! Well I am really starting to get fustrated with him cause that is the only thing he ever wants to talk about! I know that he has to make his living, but we are dating and he should make time for me to right? What should I do about it? Please help me!

tell him. what else would you possibly do?

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hey guys, can you tell me a few things you like in a girl... and things you hate??? theres this great guy and i want to get his attention. Plz help!!!

they hate when you talk and love when you put out. thats all you need to know.

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My room always is smelly, I want to know some inexpensive ways to make it smell better.(I can't use candles and purfume son't work.) THANKS ALOT!!

bathe once a day, and wash your sheets once a week. dust your room down once a week and if you have animals wash your walls once a week, otherwise once a month. always keep your windows washed down, the top of your fan dusted and your floor vaccumed, not to mention the corners of your room where cobwebs tend to like hanging out. also, never leave dirty dishes on your dressers or dirty clothes in your floor, and never have crap piled under your bed or in your closet. once your room is like this, you can get a simple plug in air freshner and your room will smell wonderful all the time.

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Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
i rate 5's

tell your friends to mind their own damn buisness and stay out of yours. if theyre really your friends they wont want to screw it up for you, wich it appears they are. maybe theyre jealous. whip out some awsome kung fu and whoop em with him watching. hell think its cool

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i'm very very pissed and have a habit of doing things that are very very bad. How can i stop my self. I know getting pissed its and answer but its not mine other advice.

take some prozac and learn how to spell

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hi i have a friend that is WAyy to prideful of her backround. she like, bases her life on it. il use an example, say if she were spanish, shed make a sn that would be like spanishbaby or cutie spanishgirl and she has nicknames, real nicknames that are words in spanish like guapa or buena chichi chicana etc or some crap like that, and her whole family speaks it n shes always singing songs in it, and talking it to me. shel say something and then il be like what?? and shel say it in english, like "it means im so cool in spanish". and always wearing clothes that represent it, and rarely does she have friends that dont speak it. and her whole room is decorated in it, and she wears jewelry representing it, and shes always like "you cant speak it stupid" or she always like "oh shutup you cant even speak it" if i try to say a word, and shel just go up to random people and be like haha she cant read spanish. im not saying i dont like her i maen its just getting SO annoying, i wouldnt be so annoyed if maybe i spoke it too, but im just getting terribly sick of it. shes always talking it to people behind my back..laughing at me with another person, what do you think i should do?

dont be pissed off that she represents herself. but to solve your problem punch her in the face. i promise, shell back off.

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Okay.. well i went out with this one guy for a month and maybee a couple weeks... well i broke up with him becaz 5 months later i would be moving..i still like him alot at times but i also feel that i am friends with him, and thats about it. and he's getting ready to ask me out agian and i dont know if i should go out with him becaz im moving and everything. should i?

Hes getting ready to ask you out? Now I have the questions. Are there steps? Is there a 'preparing method'?

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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean?

It means hes a pussy. Or he has one. Maybe his testosterone level is decreasing.

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