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Gender: Male
Location: THE ATX
Occupation: sports
Age: 17
AIM: xdavidjx007x
Member Since: June 22, 2006
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Last Update: August 29, 2006
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Do you find girls more attractive if they are blonde or brunette? And what do your friends mostly like? I'm really not sure if I want to go blonde or use my natural color (brown) so your help would be great.

Also, I think you are verry good looking.

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Im not to picky if i like the person then little things like hair color dont get to me. and i would hope it was the same way with. if you want to you can IM on AIM at xdavidjx007x.


15/m I'd like advice from someone who has a sixpack and who worked for one, not a skinnypack. Well I used to have a six pack from just doing situps, but then I stopped and now you could call it a "undefined six pack." What are some good work out's to get one. And I'd like more of an answer than just, "Do sit-ups." If you say that, then at least say how long and for how long. Or maybe say what you did to get a sixpack. K gracias... (link)
their is really only one way to get a sixpack and that is with sit-up. you can always do what i do. when i do sit-up i get some weights and put them on my cheast so it makes my abs even stronger and i try to keep this up cause it works pretty damn good. so get some wights and put then on your chest. good luck


Can you see yourself with someone right now? If so, what is she like? (link)
the girl i wunna be with would have a nice body one that she wouldent be afraid to show, fun/funny understanding, kinda bosse, playfull, and one that wouldent mind picking a fight with me in a store, and we would have to have a lot of stuff in commin. What about you? o and yes im can


When you have a girlfriend do you get jealous easily? If she went out with other guys would that be a problem? (link)
yea i really do get jealous alot but i dont let the girl know that because it could be a big turn off. And if i do i never show it cause that could cause a fight


Do guys like to go out with bigger girls? (link)
yea sure i guess it all depends one what they like


What's the average length of a man's penis? Is there such thing as a 12 incher? (link)
the average is about 6 and yes their are 12 inchers


What are blue balls? And how does a guy get them? (link)
you get it when a girl/guy plays with your dick but you almost cum but dont


Why is it a turn off when a girl doesn't shave? (link)
because of the way it feels when rubbed up agianst it


My girlfriend and I just got together a few days ago. Her ex-boyfriend took her on extravegant dates. What kind of "cute" dates can I take her on that won't remind her of her ex but will get kudos from her friends. (link)
the best dates are always remebered my how much fun they where. If you could take her on a canno i bet that would be fun or maybe even a bowling ally. When you date some one you dont always have to be romantic or make out, so just think of something fun


So this guy and I hung out and to me things were going great. He's a total stud and real sweet. :] He started cracking sex jokes and stuff like that. I can deal with that for a little but he kept going. Was there something, I was supposed to say back? Where does this leave me? (link)
Basicly you can talk about sex with any one. If your at someones house for the first time and you dont want any aqward silance the only way to stop it is to talk but if you dont have anything to talk about sex is the best thing because so much can be said about it. My guess is hes just a little nurvise.


What do you look for in a girl? Sexually and Phyiscally? (link)
Phyiscally i want them to be some what good, like if we go swiming she will look good in a swim suit. Any girl will know with a good body confdance is always their. But Sexually i atleast want them to be open with sex like we dont have to do it but if we talked about it then she wont be grossed out.
What do you look for in a guy?



Hey there,
I like this kid. Hes on my swim team, only 2 years older than me, my friends older brother, and his best friend has already hooked up with me. We're good friends. We get along all right and we flirt a bit. he gives me rides to practice and we go out to eat afterwards all the time with friends and his sister. I want to make some sort of move but I dont know what. What kind of move would you want a girl who you're interested in to pull on you? (link)
i would say try to hold his hand but when a girl does that to me that i am not dateing then i freake me out. you should try to kiss him but only when yall are alone. or put him in the spot so he has to try. what you do is ask him to help you do something then give him the stair so he knows whats uo (i promiss it will work)but if it dosnt work you try to give him a little kiss not a big on just one thats will say hi.like i said befor dont do it in front of people cause if you miss you will feel stupid. Tell me what happens.


well hey everyone... im 15/f i&& i have big problem!!! my mom, dad, brother && even people at my school think im really annoying... && immature!!! && its summer and i want to change && become mature && a better person!! but how? (link)
all you need is to change your style to a more mature one. and get some self control. like when you feel the need to say something stupid or try to be funny DONT. it will help i am the same way i promiss


I'm 19 years old and I started dating a 25 year old man. When we had sex for the first time, he suddenly said he had to go to pee. When he came back he didn't feel like having sex anymore.
Is it really possible that a man can feel an urge to urinate while making love? I'm afraid it was just an exuse because something was not ok. Please help me.
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sounds like or maybe he couldent get it up


well...im female, and 15 years old.

i'm not very popular, but i wouldnt say im a geek either.

i really dont feel like i have any friends. im sort of friends, or what you would call aquiantences (sp) with probably 15 people, but i dont actually feel like i have someone to be there for me when i need it.

school really sucks. nobdoy call tell though. i always act hyper and friendly but its beginning to get harder lately, just because.

i would like to know if other people feel like this...or if its just me. adivce would be nice too. sorry if i sound depressed or something. i dont think i am, just the place im in right now does not fit very well with my personality.

thanks for your time :)



ps.
please dont say join clubs or something to get new friends because my school is very small. i could name every single student in my grade. most of the upperclassman too. i know everyone...so yeah (link)
Their was a couple of times i felt that way about kids at my school. The thing that suprized me was when my brother left or iraq he called me in school to say bye. Not even 2 secands after he told me he was gunna leave i started to cry thinking i would never see him agian. But the thing is the people that i thought where only aquiantences helped me out. They told me it would be ok and and not to cry cause for someone like myself for me to cry is big cause my role in any group is the tough guy so for me to cry its something big. The point of the story is that you might think of them as aquiantences but if you just let them try to be your friend it would really help.


okay, so i'm 14/m, and she's 14/f, and i've known her for a really long time as a friend, and i've had a secret crush on her forever now.
so i said to her the other day, "hey, do you wanna go see a movie or something on friday" and she looks at me like i'm crazy. i've never really had a girlfriend before, and i think i totally f*cked up our relationship. she won't even talk to me anymore. anyone got some advice that could help? (link)
Dude me might ignore you because she feels the same way and you got her really confused about what she wants. Dont try to do anything, maybe call her once a day everyday ro show you really do care,but since yall are just friends the reason i said not to do anything is because sending flower or candy to her would just scare her. when you feel a close friend you like them you have to ease your way into it, like take her for walks or something intill shes ready for a movie.


I have been hanging out with this guy lately, and he acts like he likes me because he calls me everyday and he wants to come over everyday... and he flirts with me and stuff. He's also friends with one of my moms (younger) guy friends, Brian, and he's cool with my mom too through Brian. I know that sounds weird but it's not, he's 19 I'm 17. He also told Brian that he thinks I'm really pretty & hot and he wants to take it slow and he's not trying to put the moves on me. Which is weird, because he's not the type to "take it slow".. well he doesnt seem like it anyways, he seems more like a player but that might just be me judging him. Does it sound like he likes me? I want him to like me MORE though, how would I do that? I'll rate high for anyone who tries =) THANKS!!!! (link)
Well if you like this kid then you should repect what he does and when he does it. I would'nt try to make the first move because it might scare him or he'll like it i dont know what kinda guy he is. The best way to get some one to like you a lot more is to watch movies with him alone so yall have to coudle coudling will make and one fall in love. It will help i promiss.


im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait? (link)
umm im not gunna say no but i lost mine when i was 14 and now i kinda wish i dident lose it so soon cause now im more open with and not afraid to do it every chance i get, some times thats not a problem but when your 17 you run the risk of getting a gil pregant but you might wunna try to start a family so that would be a good thing, the best thing to do is not look for sex it will come to you.


im a heavy 15 year old, and i want to gett flatter abs before school starts in september. what could i do without trying to do a million crunches a night? thank you (link)
so you wunna lose weight but you dont wunna do a lot of sit ups, so what i would say to do. to lose weight you dont always have to wokr out but yea it helps, just to let you know you cant just lose weight and expect to have a 6 pack to geta 6 pack your still gunna need to do the situps a 6 pack is just like any other muscle you have to wokr it out to be tone and fit. But if you just lose the weight it will just be extera skin and even thoght your skinny the lose skin will still look gross. Being lazy and trying to lose the weight by diet isent gunna get you good results befor school. To be skinny you have to make a sacriface and that is puting your boby throught some challenges such as push ups, beleave me their not as bad as they seem.


Two weeks ago I got into a fight with a man that was a close friend of mine. The fight was over msn messanger. I told him I would never have an affair with a married man but that I still wanted to be his friend. Now he wants nothing to do with me and has even blocked me off his contact list. It hurts so bad because he had been a friend of mine for the last 4 years- I was beginning to think that he was hoping I would have an affair with him because he isnt happy in his marriage- I would only ever be intimate with him IF he left his wife. I can't believe what a jerk he is being- It's kind of stupid to end a four year friendship over that. Does anyone have any advice for how I can feel better? And don't you think he is being a jerk? (link)
Well to be truth full your not doing any thing wrong if this guy wanted to have and affair with you and you wont let it happen your a good person and and guy would wunna be with some one like that, As for the problem tyr your hardest to talk to him and when you do dont try to be all nice put him on the spot and ask him why he doesnt wunna be friends any more, then ask him if he doesnt like his wife that much get a divorce. If i was married i would never want my wife to cheat on me no matter how bad the relationship wa getting cheated on is probully the worst thing to do to someone




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