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how long is to long?


Question Posted Thursday June 22 2006, 7:36 pm

im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait?

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ChosenSummerGirl answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:51 pm:
OMG don't worry.Atleast you can't get anyone preggers.

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AskNicolethtsme answered Monday June 26 2006, 2:17 pm:
Try to dress more sex appealing. I mean but there is nothing wrong with not haveing sex unless you really want to. I mean have you ever seen the 40 Year Old Virgin?

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lostinpraise answered Friday June 23 2006, 6:19 pm:
Not at all. I plan to wait until I'm married. If I never get married, I'll never have sex, because I know my virginity is precious enough to save for the one person I want to spend my life with. And I will only give it to them once we've made that commitment to each other, so I know it's safe. Yours is the same, its so precious, only give it to the one person you know will truly love you. I think marriage is the key. Stay strong and don't sleep with /anyone/ just for the sake of it.

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BLONDShorty answered Friday June 23 2006, 6:14 pm:
nah, 23 is not too long. i noe sum people who are older than you didn't hav sex till they were married. hope i helped xoxo

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LionTail411 answered Friday June 23 2006, 2:20 pm:
i dont thinks it too old you just hade to wate till you were ready and people your age still want to give it time get into a good relationship dont just do it to do it and remember you could always get pregnet so make sure you are respoible unuff to care for another life --- ALLEY n rate

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Melody answered Friday June 23 2006, 1:11 pm:
Have you ever seen the 40 Year Old Virgin? If not then I suggest you rent it. It will help you realize that you can never be to old to have sex. And when you say, & I quote, "No one wants to now." HECK NO! There is always someone out there willing to. So no worries.

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runawy_4evr answered Friday June 23 2006, 11:15 am:
Hey abstinence is the key. It's never too long to wait. You have to wait for that right person. And people respect that. Keep waiting for the person you will marry and share something special with.

runawy_4evr

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mayonnaise answered Friday June 23 2006, 10:55 am:
Nope.
It shows that you have morals and are waiting for the right person to come along. One day, a guy will see that and love for that. It shows that you aren't gonna go out and scew every guy that comes around. So, no, 23 isn't to long too wait. I just wish I had waited longer...

Have a great day! :]

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GraceFullFall answered Friday June 23 2006, 8:22 am:
No;;
I think that you should wait untill that special someone comes along. Alot of people make promises to themselves not to have sex tell there married but alot of people dont make that promise. I would wait Untill you know for sure its the right thing to do with the right person.


Hope i helped.

=]


GraceFullFall.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday June 23 2006, 5:06 am:
Nope;; I personally think its better to wait til the right person comes along..Don`t push yourslef into doing something if your not ready sweetie.. ♥Dez

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jumadel answered Friday June 23 2006, 2:18 am:
Hi, no it is'nt. Whats the rush, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

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clearlypink428 answered Friday June 23 2006, 12:11 am:
you could be eighty- three and still not ready for it. it all depends on if you as a person are ready for it- and any thing that might happen as a result.

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pOlKaDoTs2O1o answered Thursday June 22 2006, 11:52 pm:
WAIT until you are married- - find the right guy, do not do something foolish. hope the advice was good.

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adviceme3 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 10:45 pm:
Watch the movie "40 Year-Old-Virgin." I'm serious, it's not a joke. Although the movie is verry funny, it addresses the issue your talking about. Go watch it.

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MissAshleyXOXO answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:49 pm:
I don't think you waited too long. But now it seems like you want to do it just to do it (sorry if I'm wrong), and you should want to do it with someone you are really into and who is into you as well. It will be worth waiting for someone special. Just hang in there. It will happen for you.

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dave answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:35 pm:
umm im not gunna say no but i lost mine when i was 14 and now i kinda wish i dident lose it so soon cause now im more open with and not afraid to do it every chance i get, some times thats not a problem but when your 17 you run the risk of getting a gil pregant but you might wunna try to start a family so that would be a good thing, the best thing to do is not look for sex it will come to you.

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beachpeach answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:21 pm:
There is no time that is too long or too old to have sex. When the time is right, at any age, you will know. Sure, you could do it with anybody but then it will be nothing special and it will just be something you did when you were 23. My advice would be, wait until you are really in love with somebody and you could be 45 or you could be 23 but it will be better if you wait for love.

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MnB_AdviceNigga answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:17 pm:
Do you have a g/f or b/f?
Just ask them if they are ready to do it and eventually you'll get laid and alcohol helps drunk guys/girl will have sex with anybody.....=]

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kristen22 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 8:52 pm:
There's nothing wrong with the fact that your 23 and havent had sex yet. BTW to the person that said your like 23 which is like old! AHHH! I'm 23! that aint old!!! lol I have a question whatcha' mean by no one wants to now? are you just puttin yourself out there like hey come have sex with me im ready now! that will get you NO-where and fast. Try a internet dating website or start going to church, you can find a good man at church. I say you've waited this long, you should WAIT till it's with someone you LOVE so that it will mean that much more to you.

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hit_rockbottom answered Thursday June 22 2006, 8:52 pm:
no.when you think you really like a dude that you are dating invite into your house and just have some whine and befor you know it you will no longer be a virgin.{or however iots spelled.}

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tasuki answered Thursday June 22 2006, 8:41 pm:
Nope. You do it when you're ready. But what do you mean "nobody wants to"? Are you just asking strangers for casual sex? Don't do that! Get a relationship! Sex is something to be done with somebody that you love and trust, don't have sex just for the sake of having sex.

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JBella123 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 8:33 pm:
No 23 is a perfect time it is not 2 young and not 2 old.

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