about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

okay well i really like this kid whos in 11th grade..and im in 9th..whatever thats besides the point. we talk on the phone and stuff and he seems really nice & everythingg. but then everyone is like don't get involved with him, stop talking to him now and stuff but like i dont want to. if the rumors are true..i'd rather find out myself bc i know rumors aren't always true..what should i do

Do what makes you happy. If you like this guy & his personality, keep talking to him. Rumors aren't necessarily always true, and if they are, then learn it for yourself. Life is about finding everything out for yourself, and not letting anyone help. If you make a mistake, you make a mistake.

And don't listen to these kids. They seem like the type that'll be like "I told you so, I told you so!" once something bad happens. Not that it will, but if something did happen.

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what is dry humping?

Having sex with your clothes on.

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i LOVE Monster (the energy drink) and I drink it all the time. just yesterday my mom said she was concerned about it because she heard it stunts your growth, so now i can't drink it anymore. is this true? thank you SO MUCH!!!!!

If you drink them a lot, there is a possibility because a lot of caffeine [sp?] isn't good for you. I would suggest drinking them every once in a while, like once or twice a week.

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do whateverlife layouts (or any other myspace layout) work on advicenators? thanks!

I don't think so, but you could always get the background images used in those layouts & put them in here. It might work, it might not. I've never tried it. If it doesn't work, make your own by choosing colors from here:

http://www.webmonkey.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/

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I am goin to my friend's sweet sixteen at a country club. What would be better to wear:
1) a sundress
2) a skirt with a top

i don't really want to go all out. i want to look hot, cute, you know. Any other suggestions will help!

I think the sundress sounds cute. =)

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Does anyone know of any clinics in upstate NY
where an underaged girl could go to get birth control? And how much (if you know) would it cost approx.?

Try Planned Parenthood. I've never been there, but I'm sure they don't charge you for it. If they do, it'll be a small fee. Look them up in the phone book & call them.

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im 14/f
For the past month me and my best friend have had a very f***ed up friendship. I told him how i didnt know if i was a virgin because when i was lil i had a very bad past (long story dont want to get into) One day he asked me if i could send him pictures of me naked. he convinced me because i trusted him and he told me he wanted me and i was having a big effect on him and no one has ever said that to me before especially not a guy i really REALLY want. Anyway the next day he IMed me and said the only reason he asked was to see if id actually do it. he made me feel so cheap and yet i still talk to him every frickin day! and every day he makes me feel cheaper.last night we were talking and i was like the most sexual thing he ever did was make out with a girl almost a year ago and he said so what atleast i know im a virgin. and he knew how big of a sore spot that is for me and he threw it in my face! it was such a low blow. anyway how do i stop talking to a guy whos my best friend bc he keeps scaring me heart and im not sure how much more of this abuse i can take even if its just emotional. it hurts so bad that im tempted to hurt myself but i cant not talk to him. im addicted to him. what should i do?

sorry it was so long.

In order to break an addiction, no matter what it may be, you need to cut off the source of it. So, drop this guy. Do whatever it takes for you to get rid of him. Change your email, delete/block him from your MySpace if you've got one, change your numbers, or block his number, block him or delete him off your buddylists, whatever it takes. Avoid him at school & do whatever it takes not to talk to this guy. He's a pervert, and he's a jerk. You've done the first step in realizing that this friendship wasn't a good one, and now it's up to you to end it. With that people below me said, your friends don't make you feel this way, whether they realize it or not. You need to find new friends, and you need to get some counseling. You've had a rough past, and you need to get help for it. I wish you the best of luck.

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on this web can you be friends with each other or can you at least chat?

You can be friends with each other, but you cannot chat on the columns to each other because it will result you in a ban. If you would like to chat, there's a chat that you can find under 'Get Advice.' It's the last link labeled 'Chat Room.' Click that & choose the one you think you would like to use. If you don't wanna use that type of chat, go on your column & click "Ask A Question" to get your ID. It'll be the last few numbers there. When you get those numbers, put them after the equal sign in this link:

http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=

Then click submit/go on your searchlinkbar & that'll be your forum. Good luck, and enjoy the site.

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15/f

im still in love with my ex bf. im the one who broke up with him but its only because i was having major issues w/ myself that i wish not to state here. we started hanging out again about 3 months after we broke it off & things were going good until my "problems" came back & i was so confused 7 i said a lot of things i didnt mean. & we stopped talking. then a month later he asks me to his prom & i accept. so then im thinking he wants to get back together so i kind of ask him about it. then he goes into things like i kept jerking him around & hes not really ready for a relationship again yet he kissed me. i told him i cant go to prom cuz that would be too awkward. but i screwed things up with the things i said to him but i cant get him out of my mind. what should i doo????

-Coree

Apologize for the things you said. Tell him you didn't mean them, but you need some time to yourself so you can get your life back on track.

In that time, cut boys short. Friends too if that's what it takes. Make everything about you. I'm not saying to become a self-centered bitch, but you need time for yourself. You need you-time. Focus on school & making yourself happy. Once you can have a clear mind & you're happy with the way things are going, bring those people back into your life.

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ok im getting bored of the songs i have what are some good new songs???

Song on the left, band on the right. =)

Thnks Fr Th Mmrs -- Fall Out Boy.
False Pretense -- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Anna Molly -- Incubus.
The Curse Of Curves -- Cute Is What We Aim For.
Not Good Enough For The Truth In Cliche -- Escape The Fate.
Famous Last Words -- My Chemical Romance.

I'm not sure what type of music you're into, but those are some rock songs.

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Ok I'm a girl and I'm not sure if the places where I have hair is normal because all I know is that boys have hair on those places and It's kinda weird for girls to cuz I thought they just have hair on their head face legs arms and public hair:

neck (all over)
chest
back
ew..and butt crack? It itches so bad sometimes but I dont' want to be a boy and scratch it because it's gross..is it safe to wax there or something?

Is it safe to wax in any of those parts since the skin in those parts are sensitive and I have super senstive skin?

Thanks and can you tell me if you're a professional? Easy way to boost your rate by 1 thanks

Everyone has hair in those places. Some more than others. If it makes you uncomfortable, you can either shave the hair, or wax it. It's definitely safe to do so, and you have to let them know that you're sensitive when it comes to your skin. They'll probably take extra precautions. I'm not a professional, but I do know about waxing, haha.

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Friday afterschool (around 5:00) my dad had prayed a bug bomb in out kitchen and had left the cookie uncovered when he sprayed. I went home and ate 1 cookie that was the only one that was only semi-uncovered. Will I be okay or should I go see a doctor? I feel fine and everything but I would just like to make sure.

You feel fine now, but it could get dangerous sooner or later. Have your mom call Poison Control & ask if you're gonna be okay. If the lady/man on the other line isn't sure, make an appointment with your doctor.

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i turned in an application on tuesday of this week at an icecream place, and i havent heard anything back yet. how long does it normally take to hear back if they are interested. im sure they will ask for an interview and if so what types of questions will they ask and what types of answers should i have. if i dont hear back from them in a certain amount of time am i supposed to call them? and if i am what do i say to them if i do? thanks so much!

It could take about a week, week and a half for them to call you back. If you don't hear back from them, then you call them. When you call them, just say "Hello, I'm namehere and I applied at your shop about a week ago, and I was wondering if you guys have looked over my application yet?" And then they'll see that you're really interested, and they'll put your application at the top of the pile. If they offer you an interview, be sure to dress nice. Don't wear ripped up jeans, a hoodie & sneakers. Wear something nice. Don't wear something you'd wear to a funeral, but maybe something in between. Not too fancy, but not too casual either. When you get there for the interview, make sure you're on time, & when you meet them, shake their hand & tell them you're nice to meet them. Always smile, and give the best answers you can. They're gonna ask questions like "What made you interested in working here?" or "What skills & differences do you think you'll be able to bring to the company?" Stuff like that. Give them a whole hearted answer, but don't make it last forever. Sometimes your answers need to be short & to the point. Good luck. =)

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How do I get my parents to change their mind about something when they have already said they are not changing their mind no matter how I argue! Does anyone have any good tactics?
lol

When you ask & they say no, don't bug them about it anymore. The more you beg them to change their mind & let you do something, the more they're gonna say no. Just do something around the house, be more responsible & then ask again when you feel the time is right.

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Hi I'm 16 female and I am in my friends quince in two weeks and my dress fits, but is a little too snug in the mid section and I want to know if you have any suggestions as to what will help loose a litttle more in that area?

Run, do crunches, get rid of junk food, fast food & sweets. Get rid of sodas, & drink lots of water. Don't eat/exercise before bed either.

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what are some different bands that aren't really heard about that much? i like bands like brand new and manchester orchestra -but i'm not too picky. i like indie, screamo, expiremental, etc. (anything really) any others that not every body has heard every song by them yet? that'd be great!
ps. i've tried to look around and not really much luck.

Go on my MySpace & check out my music section. I have every band I listen to listed except for these two.

The Higher
and
The Fratellis.

My MySpace link: www.myspace.com/psshh_stfu

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what are some alternitive/pop/country/etc. songs about wanting someone to like you but they have a girrlfriend that they really like and you're erally good friends with this guy but that's all he sees you as.

something around that type of thing.
thanks.

Songs on the left, band on the right.

The Curse Of Curves by Cute Is What We Aim For.
Girlfriend by Avril Lavigne.

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there is this guy and he is older than me and i really like him.he is already going out with this other girl and i really want him back.how do i get him back?

You can't get him back. All you can do is tell him how you feel about him but if you try to break them up, you will be the bad guy, and the girl will most likely slaughter you. Leave them alone until they're done.

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okay so i recently got my first kiss at 15(i know kinda late right butt...) and i liked it and all but i'm not dating this boy and if my parents found out they would freak so how do i let this boy know i like him but to limit on the kisses till the coast is clear with the parents and all?????

Tell him how you feel about him, but also let him know that things need to cool down a bit until you can get it through to your parents & by them. If he feels the same about you, then have him come over & meet them if they're okay with the idea of it. Once they've met him & you're sure they like him, meet his parents & vice versa. Once everything is clear & smooth, go out. =) If he really likes you, he'll wait & he'll understand where you're coming from. Good luck.

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how do you get back in a group that has left you because you did something or they don't like you?

This is going to come off rude, but you're getting only the truth.

You can't. If they don't like you, then you can't change their opinions on you. They don't like you for a reason & they're not going to change their mind about you. Find new friends that do like you & do accept you. These people weren't really your friends & it's time you realize that and forget about them.

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