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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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advice
is your first kiss the first time you make out or the first time a guy kisses you on the cheeks or lips or something?
Technically, it's your first kiss on the lips. Most people refer it to being the first time they've made out. I'm sure, in a few years their first "kiss" will be refered to as the first time they had sex.
Anyway, you can go by either the first peck on the lips, or the first time you've made out.
ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
Okay first of all... Shut up. You aren't fat. I'm sick of hearing about girls that are like I'm 5'___ and negative 64 pounds am I fat?!??!?!?!?!!?!?
NO GOD DAMNIT YOU AREN'T FAT! You are UNDERWEIGHT!!!!!!
According to this site you are an 18.2.http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
This is what your BMI is. And, in order to fall under the normal range, you need to be 18.6-24.9. So, if anything you are skinny as all hell and that's NOT healthy.
And you feeling guilty after you eat is because you are convinced you are fat. STOP FREAKING THINKING YOU'RE FAT!!
I want you right now to go to the closest convienent store, buy all the candy, food, drinks you can find and eat it all. Then, you'll gain about 10 pounds and be at a normal weight.
Stop feeling guilty, there is NOTHING wrong with food. Food= Good. Food = you being ALIVE Food= YUMMY Food = EAT MORE OF IT!
Sorry for being so harsh. But, it's the truth. You're not fat, get over it.
hey
well basically ive got a best boy mate. i think he might be gay?
there has been several hints, we were talking about will and grace and the characters in it and i said i love will hes is so fit and he was yeah he is.
and the other day he wouldnt answer me on msn then he said he was watching porn and i said ok then and he said i like willys (OMFG)
he walks kinda campish and he squeeks when a leaf or something falls on him.
i have asked him a few times in the past and we talk about sex alot and i said can i sleep round .. i was joking of course and he was like erm.. no so i dont know if he his or not
o yeah this morning he asked to borrow my mirror :| yeah....
so i think he might be gay but i feel if i ask him i might offend him.
all GOOD help will be rated 5's
thanks in advance xx
Well, here is what you have to do. First off, he sounds JUST like my friend David (who is gay).
Anyway, hang out with him one day at a mall and if you see a guy even remotely goodlooking, be sure to point it out to him. Say OMG that guy is SO hot! See what his responce is.
Also, point out a few girls that you think are pretty and say [insert best friend's name here] she's so pretty! I could see you with a girl like that.
If you go into a clothing store, and you see a shirt you like, rant and rave about how cute of an outfit it would be on you. See what his response is then.
After a while, go get a bite to eat and then you should say, [insert best guy friend's name here], look, I really don't mean to offend you in ANYWAY, but we've been friends for a while and I know you very well. You know you can tell me anything, ask me anything, etc, and I hope I can do the same for you. But, I have a question for you. Again, I don't mean to offend you... but I've been noticing how you act around me alot, and just how you act in general.. It's making me believe you might be gay, unless you are just metorsexual (straight men that act like gay men). You don't have to answer me, I'm just curious.
If you two are close enough friends, then he should tell you. However, if he DOES admit to it and he's not ready to come out yet you MUST give him your word you will not say anything or you could potentially end your friendship with him.
He does sound gay to me. He acts just like my best friend David. JUST like him!
Best of luck to you!
What is Mental Abuse?
When someone is abusing you, and it affects you mentally.
Someone can say things to you, like calling you stupid, a whore, asshole, horrible person... Anything that will really hurt you. If they do it so much, it starts to get to you mentally. That would be mental abuse.
I am 13 and I think Im to old for trick or treating any ideas on what to do during halloween?
Too old for trick or treating??? THAT'S CRAZY TALK! I'm 16, I still go trick or treating. My friends that have jobs and can buy their own damn candy go trick or treating.
But, if you think it's not COOL to be going trick or treating.. Then why don't you and a few friends hang out at someone's house, watch scary movies pop up some pop corn and get a big bag of candy and be crazy awesome kids. I know I'll be trick or treating though!
i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.
Well, it says it in the name. BIRTH CONTROL. It helps prevent unwanted pregnancies. Birth control DOES NOT work 100% of the time, however it is very reliable. Depending on the brand you take, it could be 96-99.9% effective. So the likelyhood of you becoming pregnant isn't that big. Your chances are small, but I advise you to be much more careful next time if you don't want to have minature versions of you or your boyfriend running around in th near future.
I'm an Aethiest. I strongly believe that there is no god. I respect other people's religions, and I don't try to convert people or anything. Now, I've been in scouting for years. Lots of years. From a Tiger Cub Scout in 1st grade to a First Class scout now (I'm kind of slow with scouting). Anyway, the requirement for every class that says to live the Scout Oath and Scout Law in your every day life is now being enforced. My parents made me describe each part of the Law and Oath in great depth. When we reached Brave and Clean, I was starting to slip up. And then we reached Reverent.
Boy Scouts expects everyone to believe in some sort of god, and be straight. Gays and Aethiests have been kicked out in the past. And since Boy Scouts is a private thing, government can't interfere. People have tried to sue and lost the case. Now, I want to keep scouting. I love being a Boy Scout. Plus, it'll look good on my job application forms when I'm old enough that it won't be against child labor laws. =P So my options are:
a) Quit scouting (I don't want to. Really.)
b) Believe in a god (I'm not going to change my beliefs because of this. It's not in human nature.
c) Lie about my religion (Also against the Scout Oath. Not good.)
So obviously, I'm screwed. What should I do? It's putting so much pressure on me...
Wow, you are in QUITE a pickle there buddy.
If I were you, even though it's going to be hard would be to quit scouting. If someone is FORCING you to believe in some sort of God, or religion then you should leave. Lying about a religion is just a dumb thing to do, regardless of the situation.
I'm not an expert on girlscouts or boyscouts, so I don't know HOW good everything will look, but it seems as though you've been there for a LONG enough time, where even if you left now, it would still look JUST as good on your work applications and even college resumes.
This is something you're really going to have to think about. What is weighing more heavily in your life? Scouting or your non belief in God?
What I would do, is come up with a list of pros and cons for each option. (Sounds silly, but hey it does work!) Make a chart, head it with Quit Scouting, Believing in a God, and Lying abour religion. Under each heading, write a good thing that will happen, and a bad thing that will happen.
Hopefully, everything will work out for you. I don't think you should force yourself, or have anyone force you into a religion. Again, if I were you I would quit. I am agnostic.. But I hate when people try to push religion on me. I wouldn't lie about having a religion either.
So, try what I told you and I hope everything works out for the best. Best of luck to you.
OKay, I worry easy so bear with a silly question.
Can a guy get an STD from Fingering a girl? Or from having a girl give him just a handjob?
I guess it COULD happen, however it's highly unlikely.
You know, I've always wondered the same thing. Say for instance, a woman with herpes was fingered.. Would then the person that fingered her have herpes on their fingers?
I mean, you can get herpes on your mouth, penis and vagina... Why not your fingers?
I highly doubt it can happen, so really there is nothing to worry about.
This one girl invited me to her birthday party I dont want to be mean and say no because that'll be men does anybody know any good excuses and PLEASE HURRY.
Tell her you have to visit family in another state.
Or, that you're grounded.
Works all the time for me =) cause I actually have family out of state.
Okay I'm just interested to know what people are up to and how they feel about it so this is like a little sex survey that I hope a lot of people respond to even if they aren't sexually active. I will rate high!
1. male or female?
2. age?
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual?
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? If so how much?
5. have you had sex? why?
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?
7. ever been kissed?
8. given or received hand jobs?
9. blow jobs?
10. anal sex?
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?
13. how many relationships have you been in?
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren't dating?
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? If so what and why?
17. have you ever cheated on someone?
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?
19. what do you think love is?
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing?
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?
22. what is your greatest fantasy?
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex?
25. any other information you'd like to share?
Thanks a TON! Did I mention I would rate high?
:-D
1) Female
2) 16
3) Heterosexual
4) No drugs, no drinking, no smoking
5) Yes, because my boyfriend and I wanted to take our relationship to the next level and we felt we were ready to take it there.
6) Not that often. Probably once every two months, it's too much of a risk at my young age.
7) Of course
8) No comment
9) No comment
10) Of course not
11) Your ass is an EXIT not an entrance
12) One
13) About 2 or 3 REAL ones
14) One and one
15) Nope
16) I regret having my hand FORCED down my ex's pants in the movie theater.
17) Absolutley NOT. Never have, never will
18) Of course, having sex is a special bond. You become emotionally attatched and it should only be shared between two people who are in love.
19) Love is the most amazing feeling in the world, love is the greatest.. EVER. Love is feeling your heart beat faster and your stomach churn and your head spin and you get weak in the knees when you hear/see that person. Looking in their eyes makes all your pain, problems, etc. go away instantly.
20) Ever been caught in what way? My parents walked in on me and my boyfriend making out.. Nothing too serious though.
21) No where crazy, bedroom and bathroom.
22) Being with my boyfriend for the rest of my life and marrying him and having his children.
23) (By the way, you have no number 23) Eyes, amazing personality, great sense of humor, faithfulness.
24) Nope, none at all
25) I've kissed another girl. It was fun, I don't see anything wrong with it. We were just having fun and goofing around.
Whats that song that goes "123 blah blah blah I really wanna make you mine" Its by a guy. Whats it called and who sings it?
Does it go... Now it's 123 take your hand and come with me because you look so fine that I really wanna make you mine!
That one? If so, then it's called Are you gonna be my girl by Jet.
I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far
Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit
Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning..
-Cutest/Loudest sneeze
-Most likely to stay in [insert name of your town here]
-Most likely to get out of [insert your town here]
-Most likely to become a brain surgeon
-Most likely to move to foreign country
-Most likely to become famous
-Cutest couple(s)
-Most dramatic
-Quietest
-Loudest
Those are a few I could think of.
okay so i just started proactive for my face, and does anyone know if it acutally works and how long
It works for some people. It didn't work at all for me. I used it for two months straight, and my skin just got worse from it.
If it does work for you, your skin should start clearing up in about a week or two.
But again, it works for SOME people. Which, they fail to advertise in their commercials.
what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant?
Positive effects would be a lighter period, not as much acne, your PMS symptoms aren't as bad.
It doesn't help you lose weight. If anything, you gain weight from it. It goes right to your boobs pretty much.
And being on birth control can ONLY be taken if you are NOT pregnant. If you THINK you are, then you shouldn't take it.
does birthcontrol help you to lose weight?
like my friend jus said he thinks im on birth control because im really skinny.
im not on birth control i was just wondering.
Actually, birth control makes alot of women gain weight.
Birth control can help with the following:
-Regulating your period
-PMS symptoms not as harsh (IE: Not as moody)
-Acne
-And of course, preventing an unwanted child.
I've never seen anyone lose weight while being on the pill. All my friends that have been on the pill will gain a few pounds. Most of it goes straight to your boobs though.
okay, well just recently i entered highschool. i love it every way. but the only problem is that my friends, my old ones from middle school. they bareally talk to me. we all used to hangout every single weekend. and now they are all interested about being popular and hanging out with the right croud. and it gets me really upset because they all hangout together and im home alone and they dont even ask me to hangout when they know im sitting home all alone. my best friend still even hangs out with them and i ask her to hangout and shes like i cant im sorry and this is an every weekend thing.
One thing you need to learn about highschool, and I learned this the HARD way. Highschool changes things.
Your best friends WILL turn into bitches. It's happened.
If they are making such an effort to exclude you from their plans, why not make the effort to make new friends? Lose a friend, gain a better one.
Highschool is going to have so many new experiences for you, there are so many new people there. Try to get to know someone from one of the other schools and start trying to find a new group of friends. That's what I had to do.
Even the most popular girls from my middle school are not friends anymore, they are friends with other 'popular' girls.
Just leave them alone, forget about them and move on. I know it's hard to just drop them as friends, but really think about it.. They pretty much did it to you.
my period is late by a week but i am on birth control am i pregnant?
Are you sexually active?
If you are, then you most definately can be pregnant, however it's not that likely. The pill is around 98% effective.
I would wait it out a few more days, and then take a pregnancy test and see what happens. Keep in mind that home pregnancy tests are NOT 100% accurate.
how can you keep a tan tan?
By tan tan, you mean a REAL tan? Not going to a tanning bed and fake baking?
Really, there is no way to KEEP it. You could maintain it by going to a tanning salon and sitting under a tanning bed for about 10-30 minutes, 3 times a week, or even once every two weeks, depending on how dark you want your tan to be.
But, once winter comes around the corner, those tan lines will fade.
So long sweet summer =(
Okay so the other night me and my boyfriend snuck out to meet at the park. We had sex but my quetsion is can I get pregnant from this... The first time we did it we used a condom and he came. Then the second time he came again in a new condom. The Thrid time he didnt come but he didnt use a condom. Is there enough sperm cells on his penis left from when he came in the other condoms enough to get me pregnant?? Im not sure.
Please be honest and I dont care tell me how stupid I am too for askin this.
Bye
Well, I bet if someone were to say "You stupid bitch, of course you can get pregnant, blah blah blah", You'd give them a 1. But that's besides the point.
Whenever you have sex, with or without a condom there is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS a chance that you can end up pregnant. It doesn't matter that he didn't use a condom but didn't cum. Ever heard of precum? Yeah, that stuff contains sperm too, not alot but it can be enough to get you pregnant.
This is what I do: Have sex, us a condom DO NOT LET HIM FINISH IN YOU, OR just don't have sex at all. Using a condom and not letting him cum in you lessens your chances GREATLY of becoming pregnant. And, not having sex is a no brainer.. No sex.. No sperm.. No baby!
So, yes it is very possible for you to be pregnant. I do hope you AREN'T pregnant, because you seem to be young. So, if you turn out NOT to be, I would be much more careful next time.
I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?
I hate it when people do this.
Girls AND guys will be dating for a day, and already say "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH" blah blah blah.
Do you love him? Are you IN love with him? If not, then you shouldn't be saying it to eachother yet. Only say I love you if you MEAN IT. Most adult couples will say it after a few MONTHS of dating.
Sure, you can say I love you and not mean it, but that's horrible. You can say I love you and just have it mean "I love you as a person, as my friend". Which, at this point is what you two SHOULD mean by it.
Until you feel you are truely inlove with him, and TRUST ME you will know when you are in love with him, you shouldn't be saying I love you to him.
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, we didn't start saying it until we were together for about a month and a half. I felt it LONG before that, but I wanted to be sure that I loved him, and I wanted to be sure that he loved me.
Love, is confusing at a young age. It's hard to tell the difference between love and infatuation. What you're feeling right now is most likely the infatuation, which is so simmilar to love.. However, infatuation is more like an obsession. Love runs deep, from your heads to your toes, through your fingertips...