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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?
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do you really love him? you may just love the idea of him. loving someone is a big step so you might want to take it a little slower than that. it kinda sounds like yall are just saying it to say it..
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whoa hun..thats way to fast to be telling eachother you love them..thats just crazy. if you keep on going at that rate your most likely going to get hurt way worse in the end. =[
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well it seems like you dont actuallu LOVE each other if you have only been going out for a day. but when you get more into the relationship then you well actually start meaning it
xOx ash-
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Hey,
As a teenage couple you are expected to voice the way you feel for one another to each other and your peers. However their are different types of love. Weather you really do love the person, weather you lust for them, or weather you are having more of a friendship with them rather than a relationship it is a form of love.
Cheers.
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Probably just saying it.
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I saw this quote online...
"They say hate is such a strong word. So is love, but people just throw it around like it's nothing."
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Although I don't know either of you, I would guess you are just saying it. You like each other, but it is more of infatuation as of now.
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I don't think one or two days is long enough to be feelin' the love. Try just hugging him for a week. The next week maybe a kiss on the cheek. Then after you have accomplished the kissing and hugging start saying "I love you." Or this could be a explanation for "Love at first sight." I don't know you personaly so I won't be able to tell you which one it is. You should figure it out on your own! Good luck!
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yeah..it sounds like your just saying it...i mean after one day ? i can understand if your saying this to each other after a monthh or something..but one day seems too soon.
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Uhh lets think about that, you said it, he said it. Yep, you are saying it to each other.
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Does seem a bit soon!
You have liked him forever but were you friends? I mean did you hang out before now? If so you may love each other as friends would.
Forever kind of love takes a little while. People do just throw the word around a lot. Makes it mean less I think.
If it really bothers you, just talk to him about it. He probably likes you soo much and just can't think of anything bigger than "like" to call it!
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if you have to ask you cant honestly mean it
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Your probably saying this cuz you feel you have to so he doesnt feel stupid.. dont make yourself think you love somebody if you honestly dont feel that way yet.. ask this guy if he's truthful.. i mean you dont want him saying this to you then you break up in a couple weeks then you try to use that as an excuse for him to have to be with you.. you should ask him how he honestly feels talk about it and tell him how you feel.. ♥ Dez
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well if you`ve known eachother forever... lol. then it could be love. but i am thinking you both are just saying it. that phrase gets tossed around a lot. <33
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holla chickiee
well personally people in my town and in my grade usually right when they start going out they go into their aim profiles and put i love you "boysname" i alwyas do that too. i think your just saying it. my best friend abbey and her boyfriend luke were going out for more than 2 years before they said it and they really meant it. you could just be saying it but you know when you really mean it.
xoxo
Catieeroseee
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I hate it when people do this.
Girls AND guys will be dating for a day, and already say "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH" blah blah blah.
Do you love him? Are you IN love with him? If not, then you shouldn't be saying it to eachother yet. Only say I love you if you MEAN IT. Most adult couples will say it after a few MONTHS of dating.
Sure, you can say I love you and not mean it, but that's horrible. You can say I love you and just have it mean "I love you as a person, as my friend". Which, at this point is what you two SHOULD mean by it.
Until you feel you are truely inlove with him, and TRUST ME you will know when you are in love with him, you shouldn't be saying I love you to him.
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, we didn't start saying it until we were together for about a month and a half. I felt it LONG before that, but I wanted to be sure that I loved him, and I wanted to be sure that he loved me.
Love, is confusing at a young age. It's hard to tell the difference between love and infatuation. What you're feeling right now is most likely the infatuation, which is so simmilar to love.. However, infatuation is more like an obsession. Love runs deep, from your heads to your toes, through your fingertips...
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you've only been together for a few days... thats not sincere... its just like something he feels obligated to say cause ur his girlfriend.
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If you've only been going out for a day or two..
I'm not quite sure if you are just saying to say it. It is quite possible that you both just like how it sounds to say it to one another.
Believe me honey, my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me the second I said yes.
And I said it back.
It leaves you wondering if you/he really means it. Talk to him about it. Make sure that it's the real deal.
-Good Luck and God Bless.
--Hope it Helps.
Hailie
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Umm, you might want to ask him if he really means it. You probably know if you REALLY love him, but make sure it isnt just infatuation. Saying I love you is a really big thing so be sure that he means his feelings and isnt just saying it.
Hope it Helps!
<333,
Melanie
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How the hell are we supposed to know that?
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