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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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Hmm. Well, if a girl turned me down, the chances of me asking her out again are pretty damn slim. It's been two years and you flirt a lot? There's a chance he'll ask you out, but there's an even greater chance that he won't. Why don't you ask him out? It is, after all, your turn.
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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?
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False. If you stop eating you will die. Your body will decompose causing you to lose weight.
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i really like this guy and he is really hott and really sweet, but he is like my best friend!
we tell each other that we love eachother all the time, but we both tell everyone that and he doesnt know that i think i mean it.. we always right over who loves who more and i can tell him almost anything.. i dont know if he likes me or if he is just a big flirt.. i dont know what i should do!
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Let's break this down. You clearly trust this guy, if you didn't you wouldn't be able to tell him almost anything. You know he cares for you, he's like your best friend. So, you trust him and he's your best friend. Now, why would he flirt with you? There's only three reasons:
1. He just acts that way in general. This would only be the case if he were gay and knew nothing was meant from it.
2. He's messing with you. Which probably isn't the case, since we know he has your trust.
3. He has feelings for you that go beyond friendship. I'm willing to bet it's this one.
So, to sum up, he almost definitely has feelings for you. I would be skeptical had it not been for him being one of your best friends.
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I have a feeling that my two bestfriends talk about me behind my back. Should I approach them or waht? I'm very confuzed about what i should do. (link)
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If a "feeling" is all it is, don't approach them. No matter how suspicious they seem, remember you could be wrong. It could be all in your head. If you have proof (And by proof I don't mean someone telling you someone else said something. By proof I mean you literally see or hear them yourself), call them on it. Otherwise let it go.
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Ok one day I was skateboarding and I turned because my friend called me and the skateboard ran into something and I fell off. I was having pains in my knee after that(I landed on my hands and knees) so I went to the doctor and it turns out I tore ligameants in my knee and have to wear a knee brace for 1 month! I dont know what to do. I skateboard all the time and rollerblade(and play TONS of sports) but now I cant do any of the things I love for a whole month. I hate it. Any ideas on how I could play sports & skateboard again?
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Heh.
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I just got braces a few weeks ago and my ortho told me that I would get them tightened every 3 months. But when I talked to all my friends who have had braces, they all said that they got theirs tightened every month. So my question is, what is the normal amount of time that is supposed to be between getting ur braces tightened? Is it one month or 3 months? I really want my teeth to move fast because I hate my braces and I want them off ASAP, so if I tell my ortho to tighten them more often (once a month instead of once every 3 months) will my teeth move faster? I think that maybe my ortho said I would get them tightened once every three months so that i would have to wear my braces longer and then he would make more money. (we pay him every month I have my braces on) Sorry this was long and confusing. Please help i'll rate 5's! (link)
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The snow is really bad where I live and it's below zero with the wind chill. What are the basic factors that may lead a super intendant to call a snow day? thanx in advance (link)
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How well you can see outside and how slick the roads are. Each super is different, so it's hard telling.
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Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
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You have already given him a great gift. You gave him your time, there's nothing more valuable than that at this time. As for your parents, there's not much anyone can do. You can try to talk them through it and give them a chance to get anything out, but there's not really anything you can do to cheer them up. They're just coping in a different way. As for the jokes, I'm sure anyone who isn't pure evil would stop if they were completely aware, so make them aware of his condition. If they don't stop, tell someone about it. A teacher probably.
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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is? (link)
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There is no specific age.
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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do? (link)
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Yeah, that sounds like anxiety to me. Have you tried adjusting your surroundings to counter this? If you think you see something, sleep with a small light on, if you think you hear something, fall asleep with the TV or music on. I used to have the same problem. I sleep with the TV on.
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what is a lapdance? (not to administator: you can ask how to do a blowjob but you get banned for saying lapdance?) please inform me! (link)
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What the.... You honestly don't know? It's a dance...where you...are on...(long pause) A LAP. You shouldn't get...Wait, what? Inform you of why you get banned for saying lap dance? What? I'm not...understanding. You don't get band for asking a dumb question.
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i love this guy that is 18 and i am 13 he loves me too but my mom dont like him but she is judging him before she meets him jsut cuz his age!! she has forbidden me to talk to him how do i get her to understand???
help me please!!! FAST!!!
signed : *Love HURTz*
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Frankly, I don't blame her. Would you date someone 5 years younger than you? That would be 8.
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i was sitting in class and then all of a sudden this guy in back of me said crack kills and i had no idea what he was talking about so i was like "i don't do crack" and then they started laughing and it was about 5 days later that i realized it meant my buttcrack was showing. i feel like sugh a loser i don't know what to say and they make fun of me for it like everyday!! (link)
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I'm sorry to be the one to break this to you, but your ass was showing. Crack kills? He's referring to your butt crack. Be cautious of this from now on, make sure you were long enough shirts or high enough pants.
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My parent's are like, sexist. They won't let me hang out with boys. They think that I'm just going to go out and have sex with every boy I see. I tell them that all we're gonna do it hang out (which is true) but then they have to make up the excuss, "Honey we trust you, not the boys." Soo, what can I do to make them trust me? (link)
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You're parents aren't like, sexist, they're like, normal.
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ok i am an awesome bball player but i get nervous when boys come and watch me play.. im afraid they will laugh if i miss a sot or somthin....what should i do...help me and FAST (link)
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Just know that everyone misses, everyone has off days. They aren't perfect, they'd miss shots too. Even the best players miss. Just try to concentrate more on the basket than on whose watching.
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My friend has this bf that I hooked her up with.Me and him are cool ever sence they met and I liked him I still do but not as much.Well the other day she ad a dream about us to mking out and going behind her back.I would never do that but does that dream mean something. (link)
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No, but the fact that you're worried means something.
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This is a question to all advicenators: What makes you want to give advice to other people? (link)
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Most of the time I don't, but occasionally I'll see a good question and give my opinion.
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Your picture looks like a little red X to me.
That saddens me. (link)
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That's because there's no picture to display.
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what should u do when these two ppl like each other and one doesnt want 2 go out ???
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Absolutely nothing. If one doesn't want to date, then one doesn't date. Respect their choice.
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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.
1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard
2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)
3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.
Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long. (link)
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First, I'm sorry to say that there may not be anything you could possibly say to make her feel better. What could someone say to someone who may be losing a mother? I mean, nothing you say could possibly change the outcome of this situation. At the end of the day, she'll still have her mother's illness to depress her.
1) What could you say? I'm not so sure. Sometimes people with problems such as this aren't looking for advice, because they know that there's nothing they could possibly do to change the situation. What they are sometimes looking for is someone to talk to. Sometimes being a good listener is the best thing you can do. I wouldn't try to force her to talk about something like this. Like MSH said, she's at a fragile state right now. Anything you say could be misconstrued as something else. If she asks you for advice, try your best not to tell her what you think, try to show her by putting yourself in her shoes and telling her your thoughts, or the other way around. Remember, everyone sees everything differently, so make sure she knows your just trying to show her a point of view, not anything else.
2) I'm not going to add anything. I'm completely behind MSH on this one.
3) If you really want to help, just make sure she knows that your someone she can talk to at any time. She has your phone number, yes? As for the cutting, if you notice anything new, I would confront her about it. I know this goes against what I said before, but I would want to make her see what she's doing. If you don't notice anything I would never bring it up, but if you do, you may want to consider outside help. At least talk her through what self harm won't accomplish and the harm it may cause. But again, only if the situation presents itself.
Keep me updated as situations progress if you want. I'd like to here about it.
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