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I'm 21 years old, have had my share of different types of relationships so I enjoy answering love life questions. Whether it's about getting closer emotionally or physically don't hesitate to ask, hopefully I'll be able to help. I also love the medical field and will be a registered nurse soon. If you have any questions regarding a recent medical diagnosis (don't ask for one please, not a doctor) I can help you better understand it and the treatment as well

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What is a prominence?...can u explain to me how it is made and what it is made of? thanx i am doing a extra credit project and i appreciate it a lot!

large eruptions of luminous hydrogen gas that rise thousands of kilometers above the chromosphere according to dictionary.com

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I think I have a problem it is this girl I like a lot, and I think that eveyone that looks at her is trying to fu#$ her, and sometimes I think that. For instance a friend of mine was leaving today, he always leaves 4:30, but she was leaing alos, do not know if she left at 4:30 exactly but It crossed my mind that they were hooking up.. I think I need to fall back off of this chick...

Find out for sure if your friend is trying to hook up with her. Don't back off if there is no reason to. Best of luck

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I'm going out with this guy... Its been two days, and we haven't kissed outright... However, he likes to kiss my neck. He touches me in these little ways that turn me on, and I didn't even know I could feel like that. :) But still... is there anything weird about that?

Nope it's not weird.

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Hi there. So, I'm in a bit of a dilemma these days. I'm at a fork in the road where I have to make a decision that might change the rest of my life. Let me just get to it.

A few months ago I got to hang out with a friend of mine... we begun to really hang out a lot, go on trips together, and just have a great time in each other's company. I began to realize that she is an incredible person who I could actually see myself possibly settling with. Nothing physical happened, though, b/c she is getting out of a long-term relationship and wasn't ready emotionally to move on yet. We just enjoyed hanging out with each other (practically everyday for 2 months) but, didn't talk about moving forward b/c of reason mentioned above. She's not from the U.S. and has recently traveled back to her home country to take care of a few things but, plans on being back here in a few months...

On the job front, I've just been potentially been offered a position that would start in a few weeks. The thing is, the job goes until October and, once I'm there, there's no leaving, visitors, packages sent, or any other contact other than e-mail and an occasional phone call. Except for the 40 or so other folks I'd be working with, it's total isolation. This is what I believe to be a once in a lifetime opportunity and, I could use the money. Like I said, I'd have to stay there until October at the minimum.

So, do I forget about the job, go after this incredible woman and hope something comes of it or do I take the once in a lifetime job and hope that she's still available/interested when I get back?

Ii just read that I should include my age, as it might make a difference... I'm in my early 30's.

I don't know if you believe that there is one girl out there for you that is perfect for you and only you. I do if she is the one it wouldn't matter if you took the job. Best of luck hope i had a impact on your decision.

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my boyfriend has recently been avoiding me, he walks away when he sees me, and when i walk by him or he walks by me he never smiles anymore, it seems like hes almost glaring at me...what could this mean? is he nervous?does he hate me?
thanks:)

He could have heard a rumor about you that he didn't like so much, or he has something too hide. Ask him what's on his mind. Best of luck

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okay so im not fat but i wanna loose some weight but not alot

so how do i do it??

If you want to take it off your stomach you can do some ab work outs such as crunches, situps, leg lifts. start out doing 3 sets of each (25 of each 3 times) then just keep going up every other day in sets. Don't work out every day 3 times a week is good. Also eat healthy if you don't already fruit and salads. Running will also increase your weight loss. Best of luck

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I have a fever of 101 and I wanna get rid of it.. it's been close to three days with it...
Ive been taking ibuprofin but i've like stopped now since my fever keeps coming back. :(

You should take Tylenol and take cold showers always works for me it takes me about 2 or 3 days to get over them. Get well soon

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ok i am gay and well my manager is bi and he said that he liked me.. i really dont like him in a sexaul way but he also calls me and texts me "i miss you" and " i want you" he always makes me laugh, the biggest problem is that i can be a flirt.. besides stop being a flirt what should i do?

Next time you see him let him no that your not interested in having a relationship with him i think he will understand. If he asks why just tell him the truth. Best of luck

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16/f
I need help ASAP.
I was talking to this guy for 3 months.
And it got kinda serious.
But he's like .. 3 yrs older than me.
So I knew it could never work.
But I very recently started dating my current boyfriend.
And when the kid i was talking to before found out, he flipped out.

Now he's on the phone saying "watch the news." He's had suicidal tendencies in the past and I know that's what he means.

And we're on the phone now and he's yelling at me. I don't think I could live with myself if he commited suicide because of me.

Advice on what to say/do?

It's not your falt if he hurts himself explain to him why it wouldent work out between the 2 of you. If it doesnt work out so well you should tell one of his friends, his parents, or even a counselor how he is feeling so he won't end up hurting himself. Best of luck

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I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.

What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.

It's actually starting to hurt our relationship and I really don't want to lose him.

There isent anything wrong with you its that you dont get to spend enough time with him if you ask me once a week isent enough. If you cant change the time you spend with him find something new to do. Or hang out more with your friends keep yourself busy. Best of luck

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ok...so I am with this guy that I really do love but he has 2 big problems...his friends. When its just me and him together its great, but when we are around his friends they are always "cutting on me" and just being flat out jerks. My boyfriend tells them to stop but they don't listen and now him and his friends are fighting and I feel like its my fault. What should I do about all this??? Because I am trying to make it work but it just doesn't seem like they are willing to be nice to me. Plus I haven't done anything to them that would make them be mean towards me.

All guys are like that when one of there friends gets a new girl friend its like your taking away time that he use to spend with them. My advice is to not be with your bf when he is with his friends once in a while you should but not all the time. Im possitive in a couple of days they will notice and not be mean to you. Best of luck

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I'm in high school, 15/f, a freshmen and it seems like everyone in my school besides me drinks and does drugs. I will NEVER drink or do drugs because it ruins your life...but at lunch one day, my friends were all talking about how they went to one of my friends house, let's call her A, and how A's mom was home and they still got away with drinking vodlka and beer and getting crunk together. Only one of my friends had a sip of vodkla and nothing else at the party but all of the sudden I was sooo mad. The day before the party, my friend who only had a sip of vodlka [lets call her F] was like, to A, "yeah, I'll have a drink, and I'll get close to drunk." and A was like, "F! I am sooooo proud of you! You don't know how proud I am of you that you are going to get drunkk!" and I got sooo mad at that I just bursted out and said to A, "Why is that something to be proud of?!" and A was like, "Because F swore off everything remotley related to drinking and drugs, so I am sooo proud of her that she even said that right now." and I was like, "well, I'm not going to drink and I'm not doing drugs." and everyone at the lunch table just looked at me except for my other friend, lets call her S, agreed with me. Then I didn't go to A's party and Monday I heard some pretty bad stories like of the people getting drunk and how they got it all on video...it like made me mad.
I'm mad, and I thought higher of my friends and now they all think I'm a loser, except for F and S, because I don't want to drink and do drugs. What should I do? any comments will be greatly appreciated and thanks ot all of you who read all of that because I know it was confusing and long.

That is really good that you didt give into peer pressure keep it up. You should try and talk to your friends that got into drinking and, tell them what there getting themselves into. Most likely they wont pay attention to you until they get themselves into alot of trouble. When they come around try to help them even after all they did and said to you "everyone deserves a second chance". Best of luck

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trackk question....
everytime that i have to run over 3 miles i get like
diarrhea.. does that make any sence? lol
14/f

Its your eating habits you need to start eating healthyer if you want to get rid of your problem. Best of luck

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i'm normally a size 8.5 or 9 but i heard that ugg boots run big so i should get a size smaller but the only ones i can find are a size 9 other than ebay. if i am a size 9 and i get a size 9 will there be an big difference?

No there shouldent be a difference especially if you buy it from the same company as you normally do if you do buy it from a different company there can be a little difference nothing drastic. Best of luck finding your boots

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Ok, so, you know how when girls ejaculate, they like, well, almost like, pee a little? How do guys react to that? I wouldn't want to be doing anything and do that all over him and have him think it's gross.

O my bad i thought you meant pee on him. I know what you mean but guys still dont like it when you do it all over them. It's alright if you do it on him but not all over them.

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does anyone know where to get good best frined quotes or know any good ones??

I found this website of best friend quotes i think there pretty good. Best of luck finding the perfect one for you here it is...
http://www.quotegarden.com/best-friends.html

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this boy i know really believes in God. It's a good thing that suppose to make him a better person. HOwever, I feel he has so much hate inside of him. He is anti-social; doesn't consider others' feeling when he talks or make comments about others; he told me to "go to hell" when all i did was rush him to work.

I don't think we are friends anymore (we don't talk or txt or anything now). But I want to help him. what should I do?

I dont know anybody thats like that without something a problem most likely that is at his house he can have other sibling that arent so nice to him or at one time he could have had a bad experience being the "nice guy" i had the same problem but i couldent get myself to be like that and not care anymore about ppl. If you want to help him try to be friends with him even if he is anti-social and rude just one person can have a big impact on someones life for the better for the worse. Some ideas on getting to talk to him try to find a common interest im sure he has a friend or 2 that you can talk to about him. Best of luck if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask.

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okay, i play volleyball and my knees dont hurt unless my leg twist. but, my knee caps are misaligned. and i need a brace i can wear under a knee pad. does anyone know of a site or store i can get one. or if they know of one that i can get that willhelp my knee while protecting it from sliding/punding and whatever else.
thanks.

If there is a academy or a champs near you im sure they have a couple that you can choose from. Best of luck you can check there site now to see if there is any you like. http://www.academy.com/index.php?page=content&target=products/sports/volleyball/pads

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i've been dating this guy for a few months and he hasn't said "i love you" to me....when do you think he will? :/

17/f

Make sure that he knows that you love him he probably hasent said it yet because he doesn't want to freak you out. best of luck

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Ok what is something i can get my girlfriend for valintines day besides jewery or flower?

I think you should take her out for dinner too a nice restaurant and for a gift give her something like clothing or a card with a poem. Best of luck finding something

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