Question Posted Wednesday January 16 2008, 3:48 pm
ok i am gay and well my manager is bi and he said that he liked me.. i really dont like him in a sexaul way but he also calls me and texts me "i miss you" and " i want you" he always makes me laugh, the biggest problem is that i can be a flirt.. besides stop being a flirt what should i do?
masterclinic answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 6:29 pm: Next time you see him let him no that your not interested in having a relationship with him i think he will understand. If he asks why just tell him the truth. Best of luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
AngelofMercy answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 5:18 pm: My brother has this problem at work, he is a habitual flirter, and with that, comes more problems with sexual harassment. I would suggest you tell your manager that you really like your job and don't want to do anything that will jeopardize your position at work, or set a bad example for others. Offer that you are very flattered by his affection, but at this time, it would not be a good idea to get involved in any way at this time. I hope I've helped, good luck!! [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:21 pm: Just tell him you like him only as a friend.
Nothing more. You know his actions could be
considered sexual harassment.
Its really never a good idea to get involved
with a superior at work. If things don't work
out your job is suddenly in jeopardy. Just
politely tell him that you'd really appreciate
it if it would stop the messages. It may
be taken the wrong way by other employees
and get you in trouble. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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