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16/f
I need help ASAP.
I was talking to this guy for 3 months.
And it got kinda serious.
But he's like .. 3 yrs older than me.
So I knew it could never work.
But I very recently started dating my current boyfriend.
And when the kid i was talking to before found out, he flipped out.
Now he's on the phone saying "watch the news." He's had suicidal tendencies in the past and I know that's what he means.
And we're on the phone now and he's yelling at me. I don't think I could live with myself if he commited suicide because of me.
Advice on what to say/do?
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He, and only he, is responsible for his actions.
If he decides to do something stupid, it's his decision, and you bear no responsiblity for it.
If you're afraid he's going to kill himself right then, call the police.
None of this is your fault.
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If you know his name and house number, just look up the local police department. They can figure out exactly where he lives. Well, as long as you know his first and last name, anyhow.
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If you fear he has intentions of committing suicide, you need to call the police, explain the situation, and send them to do a welfare check on him.
This minute.
Don't be afraid not to, because being afraid to take such measures to insure his safety doesn't matter at this point. You have to do what you have to do.
Hopefully he doesn't do anything stupid, but if he does, don't blame yourself. You don't twist people's arms to do stupid things. It wouldn't be your fault in any way.
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It's not your falt if he hurts himself explain to him why it wouldent work out between the 2 of you. If it doesnt work out so well you should tell one of his friends, his parents, or even a counselor how he is feeling so he won't end up hurting himself. Best of luck
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