Q: ok...i am dating this guy ...have been dating for ...7 months now and i like him....i am really young and so is he...i am 14 and he is 16..... he dont live in my town but he comes to see me and my dad and my brother every weekend..... he gets very mad and upset when he cant c me when he wants ... hold me or touch me ..... well i like him ...and i really dont want to hurt him and i dont want to lose him.......but he is wanting to run away and try to make it on our own........ hes family is very welthy so he has the money to run away .... and he is saving up ..... i dont want to run away .... i want to finish school and make a something of myself... not having to lean on him for everything...i want him to finish school and to make something of hiself 2!..... but i dont want to hurt him by saying i dont want to run off with him... what can i tell him ? ........... ps..... plz dont tell me that i am to young to b dating or anything like that ..cuz that isnt really helping me at all!!!

Q: Alright, damn this is a long but interesting story. Ok, there are these two people who i have known for like 9 years now (I'm 17), and they have both completely changed from when i like first met em in like second grade. One is a boy another is a girl. The guy has been my best friend ever since who knows when, and the girl is my neighbor that i have known forever. Anyways, they both have real personality disorders, and ususally go around screwing up their relationships, and they are so full of themselves that they dont give a damn about anyone else, even though they say they care about their friends, a lot. Anyways, the guy i think has a Borderline Personality Disorder (go look it up), and the girl is just crazy in the same way but a bit different. Over the years as they have been maturing, they have been developing these disorders, and yeah no good has been comin out of em. The girl goes around talking to every single guy she can get a hold of, (and pulling out bullshit about how she says she loves em when she really doesnt, she gets bored after like a week with someone, and her boyfriends are random people that she finds outa no where) while the guy goes up to a girl and expresses his love, and if they dont love him he threatens to kill himself and stupid shit. Now its sophmore and junior year, and these two are together now, kind of half ass. The guy expresses his love for her, while she acts like she likes him but she really doesnt like him that way. Then guy asks her out, and she gets surprised about it and says she doesnt like him like that. Of course, then the guy threatens to kill himself for her love. They get in fights, and they bitch, and make up OVER AND OVER!! IT IS OLD, AND IT NEEDS TO STOP! I am sick and tired of them screwing up everyone's lives because of them two, (THEY DO THIS SHIT TO EVERYONE) i gotta find a way to make em stop being retarded but i dont know how.

Q: are there significant meanings in the way a guys honds your hands.. like if he always wants to have interlacing fingers ...doesn that mean something ?

and is there amy sites that cant tell you the meanings of this stuff...like he always kisses my neck..what does that mean ?

thanks !!

by the way im 16 female
thanks
ill rate for good answers!

Q: Hey everyone. Just a heads up, this might be somewhat long! Ok, well me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) started going out on 10/12/04. Well, on 8/11/05 he broke up with me. Didn't give me reasons, out of the blue, and i said w/e and went on with my life. I had feeligns for him still and we stopeed talking. He went out with this girl named Linden, i got mad and went with a boy named Tyler, and both couples broke up in about a month. Well, near the end of October, me and my ex-boyfriend started getting cool again and we became more of friends with benefits. Suddenly, my 1st friend decided to stab me in the back and go and flirt with him and make out with him in my face, so me and my ex stopped talking again. Well, then we started talking again around the end of December and go real good again, friends with benefits and all that stuff, then a second friend did the same thing pretty much the first one did. Now shes telling me, he never liked me, he wants to get with her, and we broke upa while ago so get over him, and yea... so now i dont talk 2 her and my ex is mad at me for not talking to her. Well, i guess my question is, what should i say to him or how should i handle this situation? it really is none of his business, but i still have strong feelings for him. The second question i have is that I get mad when he flirts with other girls, and he gets mad at me when i flirt with other guys. So, that means he still has feelings for me to right?!? Some of this may be obvious to you, but my ex doesnt like to share feelings, thats why i am not sure. thanks a lot, 1 for answering, and 2 for reading it all!!!

Q: I'M SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!! She ditched me this weekend, saying she was going to go to a party to get "messed up" and by her saying messed up I was thinking... drinking. You know, because she wouldn't ever smoke! Well today I went to her MySpace, and I saw pictures, so I was watching them, and I saw pictures of her and her little sister SMOKING WEED!! I WAS LIKE DUDE, WTF! She wouldn't have done that if she was with me! BUT NOOOOOO, she just HAD to go to that stupid fucking party! Another thing that makes me sooo mad is that she didn't even have the nerve to talk to me, and tell me that she was planning to go to the party, and she had all week! She didn't tell me until Friday night, when I had plans on going to her house. So she basically left me to go get high.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!
She's already dtole guys from me, and now shes smoking weed?!?

Please, Please, Please help me out!!!

-Thank you so much!-

Q: Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.

Q: My brother's room is a fire hazard. Literally. There are papers spralled across the place and CDs everywhere. I can never find anything on his dresser and I've lost all hope to find any of my computer CDs.

The thing is today I went in there looking for something. Of course, I couldn't find it. He called to ask where my dad was, and while on the phone I asked where the CD I was looking for was. He didn't even know. How can I tell my brother he needs to clean up his room without letting him know I occasionally make stops in there? Also is there any way I can get him to let me make my stops in his room to try and find stuff?

Q: well the thing is ive told her this plenty of times.. all she says is yeah im sorry im gonna change. and i say you never do. its the same thing. i always tell her how hurt i am by this and sick of it. but she doesnt stop. i dont know what to do though! i've already tried talking to her and it doesnt make a difference.. i really have no clue what i should do though? do you have any ideas?

thank you so much for reading my question.

Q: are there any soaps/meds (non proscription) that can get rid of like blackheads on your forhead and cheeks? i know they make deep cleaning washes specificially for black heads but they seem to all be for black heads on your nose

Q: i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do..

Q: I wasn't sure which category to put this under, so here it is. I got my 2nd whole pearced around january 15th. its now january 27th. ( 2 weeks i think lol ) i got it pearced with these earring in which are not real gold. My ear have been getting 'gunk' on the back of them. My ear are very senstive. I really want to take them out and change them into earrings that will not irriate my ears. Also i got my cartlidge pearced around December 23rd..and i'd also like to change this one. Would it be safe for me to change my 2nd whole now, like take it out really quick and putting in another earring?

i'd LOVE any help or advice you gave me!

Q: please answer this question if you're good at that kind of stuff. . i really need this advice. . .

there's this girl in my class, and i think i'm in love with her. the thing is, i'm afraid if i tell her it will ruin our relationship that we already have. we've been great friends since the second grade, and i just realized i love her. i'm just afraid that if it doesn't work out, our relationship will be ruined for, like, ever. but seriously, i LOVE her. . .

i also need some advice on how to tell her i love her. . .that would be of great help. . .i will rate fives for serious answers. . .

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Q: ok well tonight I went to this party type thing not a big one but big enough...well there was this guy there and we started talking and he was helping me play pool and stuff and i dont know i thought we clicked...and i sorta started to like him but the problem is hes 19 and im 14 is that bad? Should I just stop before I get myself into trouble? Thanks

Q: So i was mastrabating yesterday and when i ejaculated there was a few drops of blood and the tip of the penis hurt so i thought it was just a cut. So today i mastrabated again and it happened again. is it just a cut, what is it

Q: Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex?

Q: If I take paracetamol today (for period pains) will it be safe to eat hash cookies tonight?

Q: Why do some people feel the need to stereotype? I find it very small minded, especially when people say:

*"emos" are suicidal
*"preps" are mean
*guys are horndogs
*girls are bitches when they get their periods
*teenagers are full of raging hormones and go through tons of mood swings
etc.

So why do some stereotype like that?

Q: ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks

Q: well there is this really hot guy and he likes me but he has a gf since last december and i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him and i want to break them up or shouldnt I????????????? HELP!!

Q: Hey all.
I have a spanish teacher, and he is saying, doing and drawing things that offend me.

We learned the body parts in spanish, and sometimes he makes us stretch. Well one time he said "no for estomoigo" (i am horrible at spelling, and that means stumach) and he would like rotate his hips. like in a circle.

then recently we learned things to do, like dance,(bailar) and sing (cantar)
and he would to the actions and then we would have to say what it is outloud, and in spanish. He would go, "me favorito" (my favorite) and start to "dance" and he would like do like humping type things it was so wierd. and like push his but out like fast but slow at the same time(if that makes sence)

And then, this is what totally offends me. he will draw people, and they will be having a conversation in spanish. He will usually draw a rap singer, (a male) and then a "curvy" female.
Usually Jenifer Lopez or Beyonce. He draws them with extreme curves.
like:
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that middle pard would be like the hips. and its gross. he will write, like "bootielicious" as the guys responce,or something like that, and he says it sometimes.

My friend said today that she liked to run (correr) in spanish! and he drew a picture of her, and he made her have really short shorts, and said that she had really short shorts! I understand it because of running and all, but thats gross!!

Also, today we had a fire drill, and the alarm things were going off, and he kept saying "attencion a me, attencion a me,
attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me" (that means, give me your attention) and he would not let us leave! he always wants us watching him, creepy. and then he always blows a whistle! its soo annoying and he did that today!
I dont think that has much to do with sexual harassment, but it is dangerous!

If you need to know more, ask!

He is a really good teacher, but he is young, and a lot of the other girls find him attractive, but i dont, because I find him offencive sometimes. I know he is a good teacher, and i want him to continue teaching, but I dont want him to do this stuff. is there anyway I can say something (not to him) to an adminestrator or someone, but not in a mean way, just to talk to him about what he does that Myself and some other girls find offencive?

Do you think that this is sexual harassment? am I totally over-reacting??

Please help!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

Thanks! any help is really appreciated!

-Kas-

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