Question Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 4:35 pm
well there is this really hot guy and he likes me but he has a gf since last december and i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him and i want to break them up or shouldnt I????????????? HELP!!
EvilCheshire answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:52 pm: If he likes you then let him be the main source of the drama. He needs to break it off with his girlfriend if he likes another girl.
I wouldn't be the one to ever interfer with someone's relationship, to me, that's just asking for trouble.
Question. Seeing that he has been with this girl since December and is now is digging you does it make you weary at all that if you guys do end up dating that he could do the same thing to you? [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
essentiallovex answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:31 pm: Do not try to break them up.
You may like him, but he won't like you as much if you try so hard to get with him.
You're being kind of stalkerish, and you need to chill out for alittle.
I mean, if he wanted to date you, he would be dating you.
He has a girlfriend, sorry.
Just wait, and see how things go.
Relax, and take things how they come. [ essentiallovex's advice column | Ask essentiallovex A Question ]
my2cents answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:21 pm: If you can break them up and wind up with him you will find out he is no real prize. One of the things you will learn in life is how you get a man is how you will lose that man. If he can be stolen away from her, he can be stolen from you!!!If he really likes you, as you say he does, and he is a man worth wasting your time on, he will be man enough to dump her so that he can be with you.If he doesnt do that, then it means 1 of 2 things. Either he doesnt like you enough for you to waste your time on him, or he just isn't a good guy for you. He's more interested in playing you both than choosing. Your heart is not a plaything, your heart is not a toy, but if you want it broken just give it to a boy!! Careful who you give it to girl. [ my2cents's advice column | Ask my2cents A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:09 pm: I don't think you should try and break them up. Let their relaship run its course. If he breaks up with her and gets with you he'll probably still be thinking about her. [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:08 pm: First of all, it's HORRIBLE to even think about breaking two people up that have been together for that amount of time. If you know for a fact that he likes you, and you like him, just let him break up with his girfriend on his own time. Them breaking up should NOT include you. Wait it out, wait until he breaks it off with her, or she breaks it off with him. Once that happens then you two can go on and live happily ever after. The end. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
BecauseYouLivex3 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:08 pm: Thats selfish to break them up. And are you sure that he likes you like that ? If your sure than you still shouldn't even break them up. You could be ruining him, if you get her to dump him. You just will have to wait until they break up. I understand you don't want to wait. Ive been in your situation before. But you can't break them up. It's so mean to do that. Because if he didn't and liked you more than her im sure he would have dumped her and asked you out. Just wait for your turn. And he may not even like you anymore. So don't even try to break them up because thats mean and if he found out he could hate you for that. Well I hope I helped <3 [ BecauseYouLivex3's advice column | Ask BecauseYouLivex3 A Question ]
GDROB answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:00 pm: Breaking them up is selfish and will backfire on you so fast your head will spin and hit the floor. Instead do what wise people do in this situation. Watch and learn and see what does not work in their relationship. Find a way to be his friend and get things out of him naturally. When/if they break up he may just come looking for you. [ GDROB's advice column | Ask GDROB A Question ]
LittlePip answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:00 pm: How would you like it if you had a really nice boy and this stupid little girl tried to break you up because she was jealous?
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