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once again my "BEST" friend.
I'M SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!! She ditched me this weekend, saying she was going to go to a party to get "messed up" and by her saying messed up I was thinking... drinking. You know, because she wouldn't ever smoke! Well today I went to her MySpace, and I saw pictures, so I was watching them, and I saw pictures of her and her little sister SMOKING WEED!! I WAS LIKE DUDE, WTF! She wouldn't have done that if she was with me! BUT NOOOOOO, she just HAD to go to that stupid fucking party! Another thing that makes me sooo mad is that she didn't even have the nerve to talk to me, and tell me that she was planning to go to the party, and she had all week! She didn't tell me until Friday night, when I had plans on going to her house. So she basically left me to go get high.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!
She's already dtole guys from me, and now shes smoking weed?!?
Please, Please, Please help me out!!!
-Thank you so much!-
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I would say ditch the bitch. she obviously doesnt care about you or anyone else. she will just continue to ditch you if you let her. just talk to her and tell her that if she keeps smoking, then you dont want to be seen with her because it will geive you a bad rep. if you hang out with someone who smokes when you dont. w/e. thats all i know to tell you.
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Break away from her. I had a friend whome I thought would never smoke. He did, then he shared it with his seventh grade brother. It took me a while to really grasp it.
It will continue, and she'll hang out with her weed friends more than you, or completely
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Next time she wants to hang out, ditch her back. She's obviously the type who'd prefer to look cool and party, then to hang out with a true friend. So yeah, basically dump her, she's worth nothing, and there's probably no hope in changing her. Surround yourself with friends that matter and don't do stupid shit like this. I'm sorry IDK anything better to tell you.
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are you more upset that you got left or that she smoked pot...or that she smoked pot without you? maybe she didnt tell you because she knew you'd freak out? If you are best friends with someone you need to keep an open mind about her opinions and thoughts and feelings while expressing concern in a non threatening way. My advice would be to confront her and ask her in a nice way why she felt like she couldn't tell you she wanted to go to a party to smoke. Maybe she felt she couldn't tell you because you would judge her. Either way remember that she is an individual and entitled to her own decisions even if you don't agree with them. Good luck and let me know if it turns out ok
xoxoxo
supergirl
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I understand why your mad but you aren't likely to think if your smoking weed.Just talk to her and don't yell at her because then she won't tell you if she does it again.Tell her it's bad and stuff like that.GOOD LUCK ♥
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I understand why you are mad, but do you think that she didn't tell you for a good reason? She probablly didn't want you to smoke or she didn't want you to get mad at her for smoking. I don't know what was going on in her mind, but she is your best friend, so try to fix things with her. The best thing to do would be to talk to her, seriously. Don't have an attitude with her, but comfort her about your feelings. If she knows you don't like it, she might change and include you in the things she does without telling you.
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You have to talk to her its the only way things are going to improve. Tell her you don't enjoy you ditching her and that smoking is bad for her. Tell her you know she went to a party without you and that you would have liked to have been invited. BE MAD!
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