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ok...i am dating this guy ...have been dating for ...7 months now and i like him....i am really young and so is he...i am 14 and he is 16..... he dont live in my town but he comes to see me and my dad and my brother every weekend..... he gets very mad and upset when he cant c me when he wants ... hold me or touch me ..... well i like him ...and i really dont want to hurt him and i dont want to lose him.......but he is wanting to run away and try to make it on our own........ hes family is very welthy so he has the money to run away .... and he is saving up ..... i dont want to run away .... i want to finish school and make a something of myself... not having to lean on him for everything...i want him to finish school and to make something of hiself 2!..... but i dont want to hurt him by saying i dont want to run off with him... what can i tell him ? ........... ps..... plz dont tell me that i am to young to b dating or anything like that ..cuz that isnt really helping me at all!!!
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Hi there!! I know you don't want to loose him, tell him that!! But you have to tell him that you don't want to run away and tell him why! Tell him that you can get married after you both have finished school and then get your own place... if he says something like thats to long a time to wait then tell him it would be worth the time and that that would show his love to you, because if you guys are still together by then that would mean you guys are really ment to be together! don't let him pressure you into running away, if he really loves you he would respect your feelings!
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You have to tell him you don't want to run away, not yet anyways. Call him and tell him you guys need to talk, and meet him somewhere where you guys can talk and not worry about your parents listening. If he gets mad and doesn't understand, maybe he isn't right for you. He should want the best for you-just like YOU want the best for HIM. If there's more to it, just ask!
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No matter how much money your boyfriend has you can't make it on your own. You should break up with him. Make sure you break up with him over the phone or when people are around because you said he gets mad when he can't hold you or touch you so he could be dangerous.
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You have 3 choices:
1) "run" away with him
2) dont run away see his reaction
3) break-up with him
If you choose number one that doesn't mean you can't finish school. If he's really willing to pay for your way and your not worried about being away from family.
If you choose number two you might have to tell him why not (what you told me would be perfect) or be forced to choose
Number three.
Those are your options, pick one (not number one but one of the three)
Good Luck Darling, persue your dreams.
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I'm not going to tell you that you are too young to be dating, but you both are certanly too young to be trying to make it on your own. You can't get a house, buy cars, get good jobs. I know that you don't want to loose him, but if you do run away you are making the wrong decision. When you talk to him just tell him everything you just said. You want to finish school and everything and aslo talk to him about finishing school and what good it would do for him. If he drives, maybe then you guys could see more of each other. If he truely cared about you as much as he says, he would accept that and try to live with it. It's difficult not seeing each other all the time, but that's how it has to be. You guys should try and make it work and if it doesn't work out right now, you never know about the future.
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You should deffinitley not run away thats stupid you should tell him that you really care about him but you want to get an education and be successful because whats gunna happen next if you run away think about that trust me i kno some1 who ran away and it was the biggest mistake of her life you should deffinitley tell him how you feel and that you care about him and if he cares about you he wont make you do anything you dont wanna do
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Right now, you both should focus on the right thing to do. Running away is not exactly the smartest thing, and you got to make something out of yourself. You don't want to depend on a guy. If he really cares about you he will understand that it's not right for you. Just tell him that your not ready yet, he should understand.
Just tell him how you feel.
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