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i don't want to ruin anything. . . (13/m)
please answer this question if you're good at that kind of stuff. . i really need this advice. . .
there's this girl in my class, and i think i'm in love with her. the thing is, i'm afraid if i tell her it will ruin our relationship that we already have. we've been great friends since the second grade, and i just realized i love her. i'm just afraid that if it doesn't work out, our relationship will be ruined for, like, ever. but seriously, i LOVE her. . .
i also need some advice on how to tell her i love her. . .that would be of great help. . .i will rate fives for serious answers. . .
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Aw your so cute!! Okay well just ask one of her good friends if she does or doesn't.Which for some reason I think she does but if you two do go out tell her you don't want to mess your relationship that you already have now.I know it might be hard for you but write her a note and make one of her friends give it to her. GOOD LUCK!!! (( your soo sweet !! )) ♥
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Oh this is a serious one. Well do you think she likes you back? If you get a certain vibe, then try hanging out with her after classes. Ask her to come over (casually of course). When she reponds, if she's excited, then yay for you! You're definitely on your way. But when she says automatically, "I have plans," hun, you might as well stop there. Don't keep asking, it'll make her realize you like her a little much, and it'll freak her out. So if she does come over, just like very discreetly bring up what she thinks about friends dating. If she's smart, she'll take the hint, and go by what she says. If she says it's great, do it man, go for it. She knows now.. Take her on a date to the movies, or a coffee. Don't go overboard! Work your way up from there, see where it leads you. If you feel it'll work out well, tell her how much she means to you. Just don't do it too soon!
Good Luck!!
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Almost every boy and girl that are good friends end up going out at some point. And I know that if my best guy friend was in love with me i would go out with him! If she's your best friend then obviously she has intense feelings for you even if she hasn't realized them. Before you let her know. Start acting more like a boyfriend rather than a best friend and see how she reacts to the change. Then tell her. I hope things work out well! xoxoxo, hope this helps!
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Her being 14 doesn't matter. You're close enough in age, no worries.
If you love her, put your heart on the line. It's quite possible that she could break it, but love is worth the risk. In my experience, girls DO tend to fall for their best friends/great friends, & sometimes they don't even realize it until the guy confesses his feelings. Be honest with her, if she doesn't like you back things could be awkward for a while, but that's a part of life. Good luck!
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Just go up to one of her friends and ask if she likes you. If they say no don't ask her out if yes go up to her and ask if she has ever thought of being more than just friends let it go from there. Hope i helped.
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