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I think I like this guy
Ok, so I think I like this guy (we'll call him A)
A and I are sort of like friends with benefits but I think I am starting to like him! About a week ago he told me that he is confused weather he likes me or not. He says that he does not know if he wants to be my boyfriend. I told him I feel the exact same way. So now we both agree on that we are confused and do not know if we like like each other or not. We are AMAZING friends and love to hang out with each other. We are totally comfortable in front of each other and can talk about anything together. I feel like A sometimes leads me on, he always tells me I am beautiful and how much he loves my kisses and all that other stuff. I love when he says these things but I want him to really mean them! I cannot stop thinking about him. What do I do?
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Just talk to him and be straight up with him.I hate how guys just lead girls on.So be like ___(whatever his name is) I really like you and I don't want to wait around, do you like me or not.Some guys are jerks and just lead girls on makes them look like a retard when a girl finds out so find out if he does or doesn't.I think he does but not sure.♥
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You need to sit down and properly talk it over. My best recommendation would be to go on one date. Just one and see how you feel about it afterwards. I had a similar situation and I am now living with him!
However, you need to lay down the line with him and say that you don't want him saying that he loves your kisses or anything similar until you're sure how you feel. Such compliments are only likely to cloud your mind when you're trying to make a decision.
Go on the date, see how you feel and work out where to go from there. Just make sure you go somewhere fairly neutral, like out for a pizza so you can talk but also to a movie so you can only use body language.
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I think you should talk to him about it and see what he thinks. Or you could come out in the open and say "I think I have made up my mind. I really do like you" or something like that, when you guys are both talking. I hope I helped in some way!! Best of Luck to You!
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This is why friends with benefits is a bad idea in my opinion. It's quite possible that he may like you, but it's also quite possible that he's just saying that to keep you around. This has the makings of a classic FWB situation: one person falls for the other person & ends up heartbroken. I'd suggest taking some time away from each other to allow the two of you to evaluate your situation. If he likes you that much, he should be willing to commit to you. If he doesn't like you, don't give him your body as a way to win him over. There's nothing wrong with FWB if you're both okay with it & there are no emotions involved, but that's hardly ever the case. I wish you two the best of luck.
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i have an idea but it's up to you if you wanna do it er not. i say take some time away from each other. that way you can sort out your feelings for each other by yourselves without any influences. juss a few days er something. nothing big. then you guys can start hanging out again & see how you feel.
-hope that helped!♥
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