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Theres not much! I mean i help alot of my friends with there problems. Even though i have problems of my own doesnt mean i cant help other people. I learn to learn from my mistakes. Also, from alot of my friends in Texas.. I had many friends and they had alot of issues. I have been able to help them through anything. Here in keywest i havent had that many people come up to me and ask me for help because either one.. They hate me or two.. they are scared.. or three... they just dont want to be known. So i thought this would be a good thing to help anyone who needs some to talk too and has an idea who they are talking too and how much i care about everyone. I really think its better to tell your feelings people and help get a re-action back to help you get though your problems. My family has helped me through everything and my friends. Its not that i give bad advice. Because i really dont. I try not too i think hard and long about what i have to say and figure if i was you what would be easier and better for you. I try to be in your shoes. I have been through alot im trying to get over a rape that happend and it really screwed up my life. But im back on track thanks to my friends and family there to listen and help me through. So if u need anyone to talk to im here for you. Ill answer u asap im always here. Leave me a message.


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i was borne in wilmar,minnesota and i live in california and like i was wondering if anyone new of a sight that gave you your birth records

*needed baby records*

GO TO GOOGLE.COM or look for ur birth certificate and copy it :)

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I'm really shy, and I know that guys like outgoing girls. Whenever a guy i like talks to me, i dont know what to say. A lot of times i end up saying something stupid. How do i get myself to open up more, or atleast get guys to notice me, even if i am shy?

act like there a girl. Ask em things. SPorts. How its going. ACT URSELF! like u r around your girlfriends. Acting urself is important. Dont try and impress guys. Just be loud but not too loud. Just be urself. Just open up more. The guy who likes you the way u r is that right guy for you. Dont try and please people. Dont change urself.

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OK theres this one boy that i have a HUGE crush on and he only likes my 1 best friend bc shes popular.. and shes pretty well everytime i go to my locker, hes always standing by her, it makes me feel like im not good enough or something but her locker is like 6 lockers away but hes always just standing around her..like all the other boys do and stuff and hes asked her out and hes asked out my best friend, why hasnt he asked out me? What am i doing wrong.. i mean i think im pretty.. but i guess thats not good enough for him=[ Plz help me=/

he just doesnt like you! He prolly likes ur friends personality better. I mean dont get me wrong ur a nice person. But RELAX u can get a better guy or WAIT ur turn. Youll be fine. Let him fine the mistake, not you. Let him do what he wants. Just be a friend right now.

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about 3 months on the 24th...But he still doesn't understand my hints. How do I get him to understand my hints without me saying what I want out right?

^ trippen ^

just tell him that! Dont just keep it away from him and hinting tell him str8 up! Dont be a pussy :) be a WOMAN! Hellz Yea! Gurl :) Be a WOMAN! Your the QUEEN in this world! So take charge. (Dun-dun-duna)
*Coconuts smaking together like horses riding away* (Sorri can afford the horses yet when i do then ill make it a REAL HORSE noise til then sorri) TAKE CHARGE :) Go get em girl. Speak yo peace. :)

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OMG i have this huge problem i have this boyfreind taht im absoulty in love with! i would do anyhitng to be with him every second of mi life ! and if im not with him im not havin fun and if im not on hta phone with him im not havin fun! if im without him im tahinking about him and i dont kno whut to do mi cousin is 16 and she is tha same way and now all she does is hang out with her boyfreind! and she never does anyhting with her freinds OR ME and now im becomeing like that but tha thign is a cant control it it feels soo good to be around him
IS this ok whut can i do to help this
!!! IM CRAZY BOUT HIM !!!!
ps: me and him r really colse on our 2nd day goin out we kissed 5 made out adn now all we do is that im afraid of whut might happen next!
Plz HelP ASAP

You love him! I sleep with my boifriends shirt. hehehe. Im crazy about mine too. Yup! Im like that right now. YOUR IN LOVE :) No doubt about it. Theres NOTHIN you can do. It'll get old after awhile. Trust me. Even if u have sex you'll have time for friends. If ur ready to fo farther then go ahead if you dontt let him know. Wow! Gurl thats great u have such a wonderful relationship. If u plan to go farther USE PROTECTION YOUNG LADY! :) and good luck :)

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Okay well i recently went out with this guy that i really liked and he dumped me and we have been fighting for a while so yeah we have saying these horrible things to eachother. So yeah today i went back toschool and everyone was saying that he wants to go back out with me so one of my friends asked him if it was true and he said he wanted to talk to me and so I did and he said that he still liked me. So yeah lil did i know he has been going out with a psycho gurl ever since he dumped me. I kinda knew he was but he said that he broke up with her and that he wanted to go out with me and so yeah he has been asking me and so even though i want to its like i dont know and so his girlfriend came up to me today and said why was i tryin to take her man and i said that he told me that he broke up with her and she didnt believe me and so yeah she wanted to fight me and then i said no i wasnt gonna fight because it would have been 3 against 1 and my friends werent even there for me and so i got jumped and now they are very mad and i dont know what to do!!!!!PLZ help!!!!

Gurl! Tell them imma go down there! and beat there asses up!!! Where do u live girl? Ill help you!!! Let me get the sn's of these bitches ill handle it!! Ill go down there and put a BOTTLE up there ass and fucking drop kick them bring my homies from texas and the keys! and Jerzee... They best know they messing with the WRONG CHICK! Girl this is my cell 305-393-6201 my name is Sam! Im 16/f/FL Ill help you out. Need fighting skillz? I gotcha! Dont let them jump you girl get up and FIGHT~!!! KICK THERE ASS!!! and you put this in ur PROFILE! and tell them MOFO'S TO CALL ME! Becuz i aint scared to go back to prision again. Plus my dad ownes many SHOT GUNS! and he aint scared to go back too. Trust me! You get there numbers and addresses and sn's and ill take CARE OF EVERYTHING! You onli 13 thats not fair u shouldnt be getting jumped. KIDS ARE SOOO IMMATURE At this age, ecspecially them. WTF! Is there problem? My sn is xOMsRunninAwayOx gurl get a hole of me and we settle this PROBLEM OUT! And i dont go to skool n-e more. So ill be there in a HEART beat with my possy! so u just tell them MOFOS TO BACK OFF! Becuz im serious. DEAD SERIOUS! I will murder each and everyone of those fuckers and that boi! Ill chop his dick off. Girl i got ur back 100% Get a hold of me. I know how to deal with the bitchs and fuckers. Im here for you! :)

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ok i sprained my ankle back in september and ive been going to therapy for the past month does anyone know how to get rid of the pain

ADVIL, ICE, ICY HOT :) Works for me

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there is a guy that i have known for almost 6 years. I love him to death. Litterally. I cant stand it when I'm not around him. But the thing is. He thinks I cheated on him the last time we went out by sitting on my ex bfs lap. and he thinks that I kissed him because thats what he was told by my evil brother and parents. He doesn't trust me now and I can't get his trust back. I seriously can't stand it anymore. I'm like, about ready to cry just writing this. I love everything about him, the way he laughs, the way he smiles, his sense of humor...just..everything. And I want him back so bad. I can't stand waiting anymore. I have been waiting for a couple of months, waiting and trying my best to get his trust back. It isnt working and I cant stand it! I went out with this other guy to get over him and it didn't work. I can't just forget him because its hard with how long i've known him. and his sister is my best friend. He has me wrapped around his finger. I will do anything and everything he asks for. (not sex tho but he doesnt want that anyway) He doesn't tell me to do stuff and he doesnt know how wrapped up he has me. I'm in love with him but it doesnt matter to him. or anyone else. I'm the only one who cares how bad I have it for him. I have everything he has ever given me, all the notes, all the presents, the pictures, the memories. Its been a couple of months and I still remember what his kiss feels like, I remember how he used to rub my side when he held me. just, everything. how can i get him to trust me again and get him back............fast. or at least kinda fast.

LET HIM KNOW THAT!!!!!!!!:)

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Hi, there is this guy i like and i think he mite like me cuz we danced a lot, about a month ago, and he sorta follows me around school and one time he and his friends were sorta all lookin at me and pushin him towards me almost. anyway, i wanna go and try and talk to him but im really shy and he is too. Is there a way i can start up a good convo wit him and keep it goin, cuz heh doesn't talk much..tnx

Well just be like hey whats goin on? or really thats kool. Then be like come on dont be shy talk to me im not going to bite. Then he'd be like wow shes kool and start talking to him! Ask him things you want to know like what he does for fun. Then be like Walk with me or sit down here with me and just TALK and then switch #'s! DONT BE SHY! I hate that word "SHY" Theres NO SUCH THING! Gurl stopping thinking youll piss ur pants! YOU WONT!!!!!! Talk to him. :) do what i said!! DO IT! I swear to you!! Itll work :) and let me know what happens :)

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hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high

Go to Google and look up SPANISH STUDYING TIPS! Or get someone who knows SPANISH and ENGLISH Well kidnap them and then sit down and make them help you:) Most likely do the google thing and if u have to get serious. THEN DO THE KIDNAPPING:) (Or you can always cheat)

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(16/f) Okay then. I told this guy named...let's say Joe, that I liked him. He knows and eversince, he's been acting werid around me. One day, he'll talk to me and its like he will never shut up, but other days he won't even look at me. I have never been more confused in my life over a friggin' guy. What is he trying to tell me? Should I stay away from him so not to piss him off or do I keep talking to him and let him have his little mood swings? Thanks in advance.

Signed,
Running around in confusion.

Hahaha what ever you feel like doing. IT doesnt matter. I would talk to him, just dont start to like him he is an A-Hole...

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This guy...I'll call him...Paul. He likes me. He hasn't told me he likes me but in his profile at the bottom if you highlight it it says he loves me. I always see him like staring at me in the halls and whenever I turn i see him there. He listens to the school anouncements to see if they say anything that has to do with me and when I get home he like overloads my computer with ims. I really can't stand the kid but I could never be mean to him. I'm a very nice and sensitive person and I wouldn't want to make "paul" feel bad or be mad at me. I don't really want him to have anything to do with me but he's like obsessed and I don't know what to do. I don't lead him on that I like him if that's what you're thinking. I'm just a nice person and don't like to be mean to anyone. If anyone could help me in any way as to what to do please send me a respose. Also, should I be worried if he's a stalker? Please Help. Thank you very much.

-Melanie

hes a stalker lol. BECAREFUL. Just tell him that your not being mean what so ever. Its ur safety girl. Tell him to back off some. He will understand. Tell him how you feel. DONT BE AFRAID! Youll be glad u did tell him how you feel. :)

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well there is a boi i like and his best friend is my ex boi friend and my ex told him not to tlk to me so he dosent but the thing is i rely like my ex's friend alot and he rides my bus to school and w/e i try to talk to him he ignores me.
how can i tlk to him w/o him ignoreing mee???

let him ignore you! Just yell at him saying he's an asshole to listen to his ex and that its wrong. YOU WANT TO BE HIS FRIEND! and if he doesnt care then *FUCK HIM* You can do better :)

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Is Wiccan like some cult thing?

hahaha WICCANS Are kool. There WITCHES! There's nothin wrong with them. But yes I think your correct. (*) wiccans rock (*) hehehe :)

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i have some minor scars on my face from zits and stuff. does anyone know how to get rid of them without buying stuff in the store?

Umm you have too! Thats impossible. Or soak your things in LEMON! :) It helps scars. Also eat helthy keep your face clean.

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I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!

x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F

Ummm guys are like that. They ALL are like that. I know about 120 guys on my buddy list and i talk a storm with them! But i ALWAYS got to i.m them first. Gurls we just i.m away. Guys only i.m guys. GUYS ARE WEIRD! Dont ask lol. If u talk long convo's he deff. wants to talk to you. Guys who always say hold on and disappear and dont answer you for like 20mins! Then you got problems. other then that ur fine.

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You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period?

thats hard. Take BIRTH CONTROL! juss kidding. DONT. Just take a shower in the morning and before you go to bed. Get acne face cleanser and just make sure your face is clean. Take alcohol with a cotton ball at night and let it soak on your zits to dry them up. Go get VANISHING CREAM *TINTED* by CLEARASIL and put them over it at night and at skool. IT will help. I do it. Unless you want all of it gone! But dont care to spend sooo much money try PRO-ACTIVE WORKS LIKE A CHARM :)

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how do i get rid of weeds in the patch on front of my house and stop them from growing back through decorative stones?

WEED KILLER~ Or rip it out of the dirt and take out the dirt in the cracks and filll them up with cement half way and then rocks!

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Hey. Okay, to make a long story short. In grade 9, I had this best friend, who was also my boyfriend. Well, this girl (new to the area then) turned on her charm and there you go. He followed her around like a little puppy. Now, I'm in grade 11, engaged to a wonderful man, and we love each other very much. I trust him, which is a first for me, because i don't really trust guys. But this girl who stole my last boyfriend away, is in all my boyfriends classes except one. And he sits beside her in one of them, and they've been partnered up ... I get so jealous. Everytime i hear her name I get scared she'll take him away from me all over again. I get really sad, and defensive. I love him a lot. He is my angel, my love, and if I lose him, I would be lost. I don't know how to handle my jealousy. PLease help

Tell your "LOVE" how you feel so then he will know you get jealous and he will deffinately know that she took your man. So he is aware, that his partner is flirt. Then he can be like Im ENGAGED back off to his partner. If he knows!!! He'll know how to deal with it. TRUST ME! I had that problem a couple of times.

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Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!

You just cant ADMIT to urself you do like him. Love is butterfly in the stomach :-/

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