Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 12:30 am
Okay well i recently went out with this guy that i really liked and he dumped me and we have been fighting for a while so yeah we have saying these horrible things to eachother. So yeah today i went back toschool and everyone was saying that he wants to go back out with me so one of my friends asked him if it was true and he said he wanted to talk to me and so I did and he said that he still liked me. So yeah lil did i know he has been going out with a psycho gurl ever since he dumped me. I kinda knew he was but he said that he broke up with her and that he wanted to go out with me and so yeah he has been asking me and so even though i want to its like i dont know and so his girlfriend came up to me today and said why was i tryin to take her man and i said that he told me that he broke up with her and she didnt believe me and so yeah she wanted to fight me and then i said no i wasnt gonna fight because it would have been 3 against 1 and my friends werent even there for me and so i got jumped and now they are very mad and i dont know what to do!!!!!PLZ help!!!!
BotheredAndBroken13 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 3:32 pm: Okay, first about the boy it seems like he's trying to get you back but doesn't want to go without a girlfriend. The girl he is with is something on the side so that he won't go without a girl. Obviously you matter to him though. Tell him to ditch the psycho chick, or to stop bothering you. About the girls, I know, being about your age, that you most likely do not want to go to an adult about this. But if things get worse, you'll have to. For now, stick around your friends everywhere you go until this things blows over and your ex either stops asking you out or he breaks up with her. Then you have him to help back you up if he tells her how he really feels. It's not your fault that he likes you. :-) Good luck sweetie, get back to me with what happens. If you need anymore help, drop me a line. Good luck and stay safe. -Jor* [ BotheredAndBroken13's advice column | Ask BotheredAndBroken13 A Question ]
sweeTie3 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 2:49 pm: are the guys lyke in your grade..do you kno them? you guys both(you and his gf) both need to talk to him about it. you gotta get all the facts straight so she can stop tellin shyt to you tht isnt true. you wanna go out w/ him still..after all tht he has been puttin you through..id think again. about the grl..tell her to cool off so you guys can talk about it..tell hher tht he really did say tht and tht you dont wanna take him away from her...tell her tht yooud never go out w/ him if he was goin out w/ her..she shud realize tht w/e's goin on..is his fault..not yours:-)
since your like afraid of them cuz there like psycho..try like always walkin w/ one of your friends so your not alone..they wont bother you.
yautja answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 2:29 pm: Well get some guy friends and get them to stand up for you untill its over its not your fault he got smart and saw that you was the one he really wanted. Get people to help you if your friends left you there not your friends get rid of them and get some real ones. see ya lata good luck
dinoold answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 1:39 pm: oooo gilr watch out..she is going to take this hard..maybe he did not break it to her yet...she is mad and hurt..ok...(just think if it was you) but to me..she needs to have this OUT with the guy. Why is she wanting to hurt you?/hello he was HER b/f..so tell her..that she needs to talk to him..that this is about them..not you.
xOMsRunninAwayOx answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 12:48 pm: Gurl! Tell them imma go down there! and beat there asses up!!! Where do u live girl? Ill help you!!! Let me get the sn's of these bitches ill handle it!! Ill go down there and put a BOTTLE up there ass and fucking drop kick them bring my homies from texas and the keys! and Jerzee... They best know they messing with the WRONG CHICK! Girl this is my cell 305-393-6201 my name is Sam! Im 16/f/FL Ill help you out. Need fighting skillz? I gotcha! Dont let them jump you girl get up and FIGHT~!!! KICK THERE ASS!!! and you put this in ur PROFILE! and tell them MOFO'S TO CALL ME! Becuz i aint scared to go back to prision again. Plus my dad ownes many SHOT GUNS! and he aint scared to go back too. Trust me! You get there numbers and addresses and sn's and ill take CARE OF EVERYTHING! You onli 13 thats not fair u shouldnt be getting jumped. KIDS ARE SOOO IMMATURE At this age, ecspecially them. WTF! Is there problem? My sn is xOMsRunninAwayOx gurl get a hole of me and we settle this PROBLEM OUT! And i dont go to skool n-e more. So ill be there in a HEART beat with my possy! so u just tell them MOFOS TO BACK OFF! Becuz im serious. DEAD SERIOUS! I will murder each and everyone of those fuckers and that boi! Ill chop his dick off. Girl i got ur back 100% Get a hold of me. I know how to deal with the bitchs and fuckers. Im here for you! :)
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girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 10:49 am: well u have to stand up to them. and make it one on one not three to one. if she wants to deal wid u then let her do it alone. and just talk to him and tell him next time that he shouldn't lie to u about his gf. and then follow ur heart. [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
bad_gurl559 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 10:33 am: how do u wanna fight? if u wanna do it derrty get more of ur friends and some of ur family and kick their asses, if u wanna stay out of trouble go to an adult if that doesnt work go to tha police [ bad_gurl559's advice column | Ask bad_gurl559 A Question ]
elizabeth111111 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:23 am: kick their asses, violence is the best beacuase then they'll know not to mess with you and make sure a whoooooole bunch of people are there seein you kick this gurls ass..... and get some people on your side just in case her friends jump in, but yeah when you fight aim LOW just knock her out once and get it over with. Or if you don't want to fight than don't show your fear!! Don't let these chick's know that your scared, and all of this over a boy? If you choooose not to fight than get over him. Find a new boyfriend to make him jealous. [ elizabeth111111's advice column | Ask elizabeth111111 A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 1:26 am: Well,first of all,you made the right decision not to fight this chick. That would just be sinking to her level. I mean,look at her,she can't even fight you BY HERSELF! She has to bring her little friends with her! Sounds to me like this girl is probably a big drama queen who is trying to scare you and get you to "back down". But this guy certainly doesn't sound worth it.Notice while this girl is trying to fight you,he's nowhere around? Yea. Sounds like he just loves the attention and the fact that he can get two girls to fight over him.I say,go to school,keep your head held high,and go on about your normal day-to-day routine.Hang out with your friends,go to your classes,go to lunch,just act like they don't exist.If they confront you again just be really nonchalant about it,or say something like "I don't know what you wanna fight over,you can have him!".If her friends bug you,and start saying things,laugh em off.You have to be brave,and be strong,and even tho it may be bugging you,don't let em know that.I hope I was SOME help to ya,and if you need to talk anymore,leave a note in my inbox and I'll give ya my AIM name!! ;)Best of luck hun,and remember:you're better than them!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
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