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The rival
Hey. Okay, to make a long story short. In grade 9, I had this best friend, who was also my boyfriend. Well, this girl (new to the area then) turned on her charm and there you go. He followed her around like a little puppy. Now, I'm in grade 11, engaged to a wonderful man, and we love each other very much. I trust him, which is a first for me, because i don't really trust guys. But this girl who stole my last boyfriend away, is in all my boyfriends classes except one. And he sits beside her in one of them, and they've been partnered up ... I get so jealous. Everytime i hear her name I get scared she'll take him away from me all over again. I get really sad, and defensive. I love him a lot. He is my angel, my love, and if I lose him, I would be lost. I don't know how to handle my jealousy. PLease help
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Tell your "LOVE" how you feel so then he will know you get jealous and he will deffinately know that she took your man. So he is aware, that his partner is flirt. Then he can be like Im ENGAGED back off to his partner. If he knows!!! He'll know how to deal with it. TRUST ME! I had that problem a couple of times. <33Sammy Sam <333
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Why dont you strait up ask him about it? It makeds no sense to be worried about it. ji=ust ask him if he has feelins for this girl and if he says yes then you have a problem. But if he doesnt, then you dont have a problem and you dont have to worry about it.
**_Nicole_**
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you have to have faith in your boy. because he loves you as much as you love him, you shouldn't be so worried. if you don't have faith in him, it'll seem like you don't trust him, so it's best that you just believe.
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well , your engaged, so that has to mean that he loves you just as much...cuz when you get married, its dedicating ur life to that person, and getting engaged in 11th grade is a huge step, specially for ur age, so he has gotta love you. and i guess you gotta trust him, cuz if he loves you he wont hurt you. and as far as the jelousey factor goes, try focusing ur energy on something else, dont think about it, dont give it the time of day, i know its hard, but if you dont worry about it, then jelousey wont be there.
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