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This guy...I'll call him...Paul. He likes me. He hasn't told me he likes me but in his profile at the bottom if you highlight it it says he loves me. I always see him like staring at me in the halls and whenever I turn i see him there. He listens to the school anouncements to see if they say anything that has to do with me and when I get home he like overloads my computer with ims. I really can't stand the kid but I could never be mean to him. I'm a very nice and sensitive person and I wouldn't want to make "paul" feel bad or be mad at me. I don't really want him to have anything to do with me but he's like obsessed and I don't know what to do. I don't lead him on that I like him if that's what you're thinking. I'm just a nice person and don't like to be mean to anyone. If anyone could help me in any way as to what to do please send me a respose. Also, should I be worried if he's a stalker? Please Help. Thank you very much.
-Melanie
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kick him in the balls he'll never bother you again...
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well..it sounds like he likes you ALOT..i think you just need to let him down the easiest way possible..maybe you should just tell him you want to be friends..sorry but i dont have anymore advice than that
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hes a stalker lol. BECAREFUL. Just tell him that your not being mean what so ever. Its ur safety girl. Tell him to back off some. He will understand. Tell him how you feel. DONT BE AFRAID! Youll be glad u did tell him how you feel. :)
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Talk to someone. Someone like a counsiler or your mom or dad or something. He is making you uncomfortable and he needs to stop. These people will help you find a way to make him stop, its nothing to be embarressed about its not your fault!
I hope this helps leave one in my inbox,
Caitlin
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well i think you should just sit him down and tell him the truth or get a b/f thats not him and on aim just block him so he doesnt talk to you
hope i helped
*~Hannah~*
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I've been in the same situation... only the guy was obsessed. He called my house 14 times in one weekend. Its hard to deal with but I sat down and talked to him about it. He had been very open with me about his feelings for me since the day we met but I still felt uncomfortable around him. Sit down and talk with him. Tell him how you feel and if you think you two should just be friends tell him that. It's not a mean thing to do. He may be a lil upset for a while but in the end he'll some around.
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First is first, if he is a stalker, or you think he may become one, (or if he just makes you feel uncomfertable) show no signs of weakness. Men find that when women show weakness it means that they can do anything they want to them because they can't defend themselves (this also occures with abusive relationships). Even though you do have a strong heart tell him that you don't appriciate what he does. Tell him it makes you feel uncomfertable. You should not just stand there and let him go crazy. It may become dangerous. Either way, it's not a good idea to just let him get away with it. If he likes you that much he'll back off. If you think he may be a stalker you should tell an adult, or someone you can trust. Also, being around a large group of friends helps. If you need more advice e-mail me at r_rawles18@yahoo.com.
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