This guy...I'll call him...Paul. He likes me. He hasn't told me he likes me but in his profile at the bottom if you highlight it it says he loves me. I always see him like staring at me in the halls and whenever I turn i see him there. He listens to the school anouncements to see if they say anything that has to do with me and when I get home he like overloads my computer with ims. I really can't stand the kid but I could never be mean to him. I'm a very nice and sensitive person and I wouldn't want to make "paul" feel bad or be mad at me. I don't really want him to have anything to do with me but he's like obsessed and I don't know what to do. I don't lead him on that I like him if that's what you're thinking. I'm just a nice person and don't like to be mean to anyone. If anyone could help me in any way as to what to do please send me a respose. Also, should I be worried if he's a stalker? Please Help. Thank you very much.
-Melanie
I've been in the same situation... only the guy was obsessed. He called my house 14 times in one weekend. Its hard to deal with but I sat down and talked to him about it. He had been very open with me about his feelings for me since the day we met but I still felt uncomfortable around him. Sit down and talk with him. Tell him how you feel and if you think you two should just be friends tell him that. It's not a mean thing to do. He may be a lil upset for a while but in the end he'll some around.
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You see, I really like this guy. I'm not so sure if he likes me or he's trying not to like me. We're pretty good friends. You see, I think he's still getting over his relationship with his ex girlfriend. She broke up with him, and he was devastated. I want him to move on, but I don't know what to do?
Give him some time... even if he doesn't fall for you there is someone out there that he'll fall for. He won't be stuck on her forever.
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Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?
~*~*~signed...clueless.
I know its not an easy thing to do but just ask him. If he's a friend it'll be easy. All you have to do is say, "Hey you wanna go see a movie this weekend?" If he's not a friend and you're admiring him from a distance then it's goin to be a little harder. Get to know him first, then ask him.
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