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I can't figure out if I like him...
Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!
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ive been in ur place before i know how that feels ok i really think u still like bob!!! i mean i know u do u dont randomly get butterflyies in ur stomach by looking at a guy unless u still attacted to him yea may be u dont wanna like him but thats different then liking him! so just talk to him about it or something or just leave it like it is and time will help move on and go out with other guys!!!!(thats what i did and it helped)
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I was in this same exact situation!!!! Honestly, i think u really like Bob. Maybe u either think u cant have him, or u are afraid of what ur friends would think if u liked him, or u just for some reason dont WANNA like him, but sry to say it but u cant decide who u love..only ur heart can decide that!! However if the butterflies seem to start going away, or get fewer and fewer, then maybe u really are moving onto the other guy.
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well babe.. i know what ur feeling cuz that used to happen to me all the time.. no u don't like him.. its just different for you bcuz ur so used to liking him and yeah.. trust me.. u dont like him.. go for that other guy.. just ignore the butterflies.. lol srry i didnt give real good advice to u i kinda got distracted! but yeah.. dont worry bout them butterflies.. they don't mean n e thing.. u just still have a few feelings for him that need to be forgotten..
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Even though I've "stopped liking you", every time someone mentions your name my head turns right toward them. Its like every time I hear it, I think of all that we could have had, and all that could have happened that didn't
^^thats a quote..think about it..
i no what ur going through. im going through it now. u dont like bob. u just maybe liked him alot and now ur just finally getting over him and its new to u or weird. but dont lie to urself...cuz i no with me thats what i did and it didnt go over to well...good luck!
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Telling yourself you don't like someone is hard. When you make a transition from guy to guy, it's hard because you can still feel the linguring love that hangs around. Right now, since nothing is for sure, hang with both guys. Pretty soon you'll sway either towards Bob or away. Good luck, hun!
xOx Emmz
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You just cant ADMIT to urself you do like him. Love is butterfly in the stomach :-/
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it doesnt mean you like him on the outside, but it's your brains way of subconsciously telling you you're attracted to him, even though you say you arent. dont worry about it. if you really like this new guy, then everything should be fine.
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Well you arent getting the butterflies for no reason. I think that you prolly still have feelings for him hidden somewhere in your heart, but they arent big enough for you to notice them until you actually see his face and talk to him, so those lil feelings pop out. Thats prolly why.. Its okay though, they will eventually go away dont worry =]
kristin
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