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OMG i have this huge problem i have this boyfreind taht im absoulty in love with! i would do anyhitng to be with him every second of mi life ! and if im not with him im not havin fun and if im not on hta phone with him im not havin fun! if im without him im tahinking about him and i dont kno whut to do mi cousin is 16 and she is tha same way and now all she does is hang out with her boyfreind! and she never does anyhting with her freinds OR ME and now im becomeing like that but tha thign is a cant control it it feels soo good to be around him
IS this ok whut can i do to help this
!!! IM CRAZY BOUT HIM !!!!
ps: me and him r really colse on our 2nd day goin out we kissed 5 made out adn now all we do is that im afraid of whut might happen next!
Plz HelP ASAP
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your not crazy bout him u just love him and ur going through a phase its called having a boyfriend i know how u feel and dont rush urself when ur ready then ur ready u shouldnt be scared of what will happen next.....follow ur heart and ull be okay just be careful spending to much time together u dont wanna get tired of him ...
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obisly u are obsied and u should still hang out with him but i mean just tell him that u wanna take it down a knotch
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gurl snap out of this hes just a guy i have sayin "ho's b4 bro's" which means that ur friends and family should come first i mean come on he could dump u in 3 months the world doesnt revolve around him. the reason u feel this way is probably because u feel needed but going crazy wont help beleive me ive been there and once he got what he wanted he was gone so dont get 2 attached
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You love him! I sleep with my boifriends shirt. hehehe. Im crazy about mine too. Yup! Im like that right now. YOUR IN LOVE :) No doubt about it. Theres NOTHIN you can do. It'll get old after awhile. Trust me. Even if u have sex you'll have time for friends. If ur ready to fo farther then go ahead if you dontt let him know. Wow! Gurl thats great u have such a wonderful relationship. If u plan to go farther USE PROTECTION YOUNG LADY! :) and good luck :)
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You sound like what I was like when I was dating this guy who was a complete jerk. We were together for 4 months and a day (the asshole broke up with me the day after our 4 month anniversary) I know that feeling that you're so in love and they are the greatest thing in the WORLD. I know that feeling and it does feel great. I'll tell you what will happen next out of my experience. Honestly, you'll get sick of seeing him EVERY SINGLE DAY you'll argue with eachother all the time about the stupidest things. You'll lose many friends because you're life is devoted to this guy. You need to stop, I know that it's great having someone care about you so much but you're way too attached. Guys don't like clingy girls which is what I learned after dating that guy. I told my ex boyfriend that I loved him and he said he loved me too which by the way he lied about because he never loved me. I told him about around our 3 month anniversary that I wanted to lose my virginity to him but I said I wasn't ready. He said "No, don't worry you're ready! I love you you'll be fine!" He kept talking about where he'd get the condoms and how exactly we'd do it. I' was having problems with my family so I never go to see him and I was depressed as hell. He got mad at me and was being a selfish jerk because all he wanted was some ass. If I would have stayed with him, I'd probably be pregnant with his kid right now. Think about this: How long have I known this guy? Can I really trust him? Is he worth my time? Can you see yourself with him for a long time? Does he respect you? I'm sorry to say this, but being that obsessive like I was, is NOT good. If you get too attached, and he breaks up with you, you're left with nothing but a broken heart and a chocolate bar to make you feel better. You won't have your friends to comfort you because you stopped hanging out with them. I'm not saying he's gonna go out and do that to you like what my ex did to me, but I'm letting you know of the consequenses of getting too attached. I honestly think that long distance relationships are better if you really think about it. You're not with them all day every day. When you're with someone all day every day you get SICK of them! And when you see them at the end of each week, the excitement it awesome when you see them walk through the door. It makes it all more meaningful. Try not to be so attached. Set aside a couple days in the week to hang out with your friends and then a day or two to hang out with your guy. And the sleeping with the shirt thing, I do that too with my new boyfriend. He goes to another school and I have his sweatshirt that I wear to bed, to school, to fencing practice, EVERYWHERE. The sleeping with the shirt thing isn't a big deal. Please don't get too attached! And sorry you had to do so much reading! Hope this helped!
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Hey! Maybe your in love? Its a great feeling so what do you mean by what can you do about this? Unless its affecting your school work I wouldent be worried! HaVe Fun w/ Him!! But dont get too carried away and if you guys ever talk about sex, make sure your ready!!
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not to be mean but yea like snakeeyes says clean up the typing!! jeez, any ways what you need is a break unless ofcourse you've only dated him for say what a month at least? if it is less then you've got a problem or your boyfriend does! he doesn't spend all his free time obcessing about you or hanging out with you does he? cause then i would be lead to believe that he is mental!! lol sorry it's true though just calm down, wash the shirt, play H.T.G for a while and if it doesn't pass talk with him!!!!
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