Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 10:39 am
well there is a boi i like and his best friend is my ex boi friend and my ex told him not to tlk to me so he dosent but the thing is i rely like my ex's friend alot and he rides my bus to school and w/e i try to talk to him he ignores me.
how can i tlk to him w/o him ignoreing mee???
sunshine1030 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 12:04 pm: it's understandable why your ex would tell him not to talk to you, especially if you had a bad breakup. if you didn't have a bad breakup, then there's no reason for him to tell his friends who they can and can't talk to, and they are entitled to have their own friends. so try talking to him about school or something, and ask him a quesiton about one of your classes. if he still ignores you, then ask him why he's ignoring you, and then hopefully you'll get the truth. but just be aware that most of the time friends won't go out with their friend's ex. it's a curtisy thing. so if things don't work out with you and him, please don't be upset. i hope this helped, and keep me updated! [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 11:28 am: just start talking to him. even if he ignores you, walk with him and talk to him. if he asks you why ur talking to him, instead of getting hurt and walking away, tell him that ur ex has no control over you and that you can talk to anyone you please. Unless you take the first step and talk to him, he will continue to ignore you.
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