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hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice

What is a really good brand/type of hair straighteners??

also is there any special sprays or lotions to make your hair healthier and not damaged after straightening it so much?

thanks!!!

PS: i would prefer something thats under 40$

heyy!! i got the wet to straight for like 20 or 30 dollars, and it works amazingly. i love it. um then i use the the straight sexy hair spray before i straighten it. it works well together.

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anyone know where you can goto download free ringtones. thanks ill rate

www.myxertones.com
i think thats it.
you get 4 free. and then you have to pay. i used it. it worked. i know it works for most verizon phones. but idk about other plans like atnt, but you can check a box saying your not verizon, so i think it would work.

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Hey I am babysitting two boys age 10 and 7 all day. I need some activities and stuff that we can do because every time I babysit them we get pretty bored. they both like sports alot. If you have something creative to occupy the kids, that would be great.

take them outside. maybe take some like balls over, like example... play soccer together. lol. um maybe watch like a movie, maybe a sports movie. maybe like find like a sports coloring book for them..? maybe lol. but i would probably go outside with them. maybe have like little running races. or have them like bike around. i really dont like that wheeler persons answer. she really needs to come up with some better advice. well i hhope i helped.

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I have 6 straightners at home 3 of them are $200,$260 and $219 there all expensive but they dont work i straighten my hair then 2 minute laster it starts flicking everywhere and i hate it i put products and the same thing happens i tried no products and it still happened any advice ?

that wheeler person that answered really pisses me off. um my hair is kinda like that. i use the hair spray called "straight sexy hair" before i straighten my hair. it helps. i also heard the shampoo and conditionor work REALLY well. but idk personally. i hoped i helped.

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are freckles harmless or are they a sign of sun damage?

the "wheeler" person that answered this pisses me off. no hunny, there not dangerous, they are perfectly harmless. freckles are effected by sun. it has something to do with your pigment (spelling?). but freckles can change into moles... or something like that. idk much about it. but my half sister had alot of freckles then got a couple moles. and now she has cancer. and the docter gave her like 30 days to live :/. but the docter said to her she was out in the sun tooo much and thats what cause both freckles and the moles. so just watch out for the moles. lol. they cause cancer. so yeah hope i helped.

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16/f

How big of a chance do I have of getting pregnant considering I had sex the day before my expected period? Like, I had sex last night, but he didnt go but theres still pre-cum, but whats the chance of me being pregnant? I usually get my period between the 20-23 of every month, so far I haven't gotten it and I know I can't be pregnant that soon. So what are my chances?

hey. if you used a condom there is like a 13% chance that you will get pregnant. but just wait like 2 weeks, and if you dont get your period then go get a pregnancy test/go to docter/tell a parent or someone. but dont wait like 5 weeks, do it right away.

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on myspace how do you put pictures in your about me section?

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a friend and me kissed and now she's avoiding me and spreading rumors that im a lesbian. What the hell?

thats seriously fucked up. she is not a good friend. it sounds like she likes attention. if people just ask you about it be like "thats really care that your dying soo much to know gossipe about me." thats what i always do. and just dont let it get to you. and this girl must really care alot about you to spread all these rumors about you.

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my friend saw some girl on his profile on myspace
like the whole ilysfm jazz.
and i asked him why hed cheat on me.
and he said he isnt.
i dont know what to believe.
i even went on hers an she had his picture too saying how much SHE loves him.
i love him alot.
im really hurt.
i pretend to him that it was okay
[we didnt breakup]
i just pretended i was reassured.
why cant he be honest with me?
what do i do?
l:

it dosnt really sound like hes lying or cheating. but i would like talk to him. and if its at the point were you still dont believe him, dump him. you might love him, but if you cant trust him like that then i would think its not worth it. i would deff. talk to him like asap. like ask things like "would you cheat on me" and if he asks why jusst come up with something like "i was just wondering" or just ask him straight forward like... "have you ever liked her?" i hope i helped.

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I just had sex for the first time 8 days ago. And my period is late.... Is it normal to get your period late after your cherry has been popped..... can i be pregnant...im really scared.. please help....

hey. well if you used a condom, you should be okay. but theres like a 13% chance you can still get pregnant even while using a condom. um i would wait like a week maybe 2. and if your period does not come, go see a docter/buy a pregnancy test/ tell parents or someone. act fast though after a week or two. dont put it off for like 3 weeks or something. hope i helped.

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

hey. im 14 right now. and i lost mine not to long ago. and it was just me and my bf at my house just like sitting around after school cause he had snuck over. and next thing we know yeah lol. it happened. it was really sweet. and innocent. i dont regret it. but when i look back i wish i could have changed a couple things. like the fact that my room was messy. but i had fun and thats what counts. but it was really just like care free. and we were both new at all this. and we werent pressured in. i wouldnt change it for the world.

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i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them

heyy. honestly. i think its good for some guys to do it. and i use to think it was better when guys shaved down there. but now on certain guys i think its creepy. umm i like it sometimes shaved on guys. but i would just keep it trim. i hope i helped :]

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gaaah..
does anyone know why the hell my sims 2 keeps crashing? I re-uploaded it on this computer and i can't get it to workkk..
kjhdsfkl if you could help, that'd be greeeaat..

heyyy. i dont know if im right. but it miiight be because you dont have enough memory on your computer. maybe try deleting some old files. or maybe theres a scratch on the disc.. i wouldnt think it would be that bbut it might be. i would try and call like EA games like the help hot line or customer service or whatever. they can probably help.

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whats morning wood?

when a male wakes up with his clock pointing at 12. lol boner

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I need some ideas on how to put the romance back into my relationship. We aren't how we used to be and I want that back. Ideas?

spend more time together.
surprising them with a gift or a night out.
talk to him about your feelings.
spend time on the phone talking.
do small things that make them laugh or smile.
i dont really know. everyone took most of my ideas. but i hoped i helped.

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My boyfriend n my best friend thinks im anorexic just because i dont eat breakfast nor dinner...i eat lunch...watever is the food in d cafeteria...but sumtimes i jus dont finish everything...like last nite, i only ate half of a piece of a chicken tender n 3 cheesesticks...n after that i was already full....i dont eat that much, sometimes i throw up d food dat i ate....i use to weight 152 which was overweight, so i lessen d amount of food i ate n now im 124...i lost 28 pounds in less than a month...my mom thinks its dangerous, that i have to eat or else im gonna b sick n die...

do u think im turnin anorexic?

my goal is 110, my mom thinks dats too thin so i told her 120, but im gonna go to 110...

hello there. listen, you cant turn anorexic... its a disease. YOU DONT WANT TO BE ANOREXIC!!!!!! YOUR NOT FUNNY!!!!!! i was anorexic. i hate when girls like you think your fat and your really the PERFECT weight. jesus!!!! seriously thats dangerous! your not anorexic... your just trying to be. wow just wow. i hope you grow up. im sorry for being a bitch. but seriously.

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what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time

um i dont think so. but people in my school think it is. i just would not do that tooo much.

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me and my friends are hanging out this thursday. it's kind of a "everyone together one last time before we go our seperate ways for the summer" party. haha. we need ideas because we're going out ALL night. we're going to go cosmic bowling, waffle house, and go to wal-mart. because those are all 24/7 things. we were also going to go swimming at ike 5-ish 6-ish. what else can we do all night? THANKS!

pillow fights.
truth or dare.
cook cookies or something.
dance :].
watch movies.
make silly movies.
take pictures.
kick the can.
cops and robbers.
games... like scrabble, or like monopoly.
silly string fights.
an arts and crafts project.
tye-dyeing shirts.
painting... things like shirts.
kareoke.
play would you rather.
go through year books.
prank phone calling.
capture the flag.

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Pain is the only thing I can say to explain my stomach lately. My stomach hurts so bad its not even funny, i feel like crying all the time. Yes i`m on my periode but its not that kinda feeling, its not cramps its worst. anyone have any idea what it could be?

i know i get kinda like you are. but i cant lay down and i cant walk. and it hurts to breath. and i have a ovarian cyst. buut you should DEFF go to the doctors. but it might be a cyst.

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sorry i know this was in the wrong category..
but whats on 4.20.? details please. thanks.

well like the main thing that i always hear is the anniversary of the Columbine shooting. i think it will be 7 or 8 years. my best friends sister died in it. :[.. oh well. hope i helped

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