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I need the romance back.
I need some ideas on how to put the romance back into my relationship. We aren't how we used to be and I want that back. Ideas?
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spend more time together.
surprising them with a gift or a night out.
talk to him about your feelings.
spend time on the phone talking.
do small things that make them laugh or smile.
i dont really know. everyone took most of my ideas. but i hoped i helped.
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Remember all the things about life that turned you on before him? Don't lose track of yourself or your own passions and encourage him to keep enjoying his own. Sometimes too much of a good thing can be a bad thing, so if you have been suffocating the romance out of the relationship, give it some room to breathe. Spend time doing something new without him and some time doing something new with him. Continue to grow together and separately to keep building the fun back into it with fresh new ideas and experiences. This may be a time in the relationship that tests whether or not there is anything more to explore. After the initial sparks, the chemistry does give way to either extinction or a deeper understanding. Passion is something that long term relationships do have, but not constantly...that is impossible and unhealthy. Think of it like waves in the ocean. The deeper out to sea you row the boat, the more storms you weather together, but the more calm the waters. You can sit on the beach wading through a myriad of shallow relationships that come and go with the tide, but when you find one worth venturing the world over with, it is time to test the endurance and sail into deeper waters.
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have sex.
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you could go to the beach at night, just by yourselves and walk along the beach, and then lay down and look at the stars and contemplate the world, and it's meaning to both of you. hammocks at night are amazing. if you guys want, you two can go to a park that's really pretty and watch the sunset. maybe the key to being more romantic for some, is to become closer sexually. (NOT FOR ALL, AND IM NOT TELLING U TO DO ANYTHING U DONT WANT TO!) but some relationships can be closer after going further than before. (not saying have sex.) you two could go on a vacation together. you two could also watch home video's. just tell him/her everyday how much you care about them, and another way is to be more open- emotionally.
hope i helped! =D
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on a little cold warm night take who ever outside and have a fire if u have a hamock or a blancket sit on that and just lay there together if there are stars then u can look at that.
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