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i have this problem... because my bestfriend is a guy and i think that iam falling for him...although we've known eachother for less than a year we've become very close and i know alot about him and he knows alot about me too...but what do i do..not tell him or tell him??? HELP!!!!
Act on it. You'll never know if you don't. Tell him how you feel and maybe those feelings will be rreturned. If not, he wasn't the right guy for you.
Good luck! Hope I helped!
Jason is eighteen and my favorite brother. He dropped out of school and got a job at Burger King. He'd been working there for a little over a year when he realised it wasn't the job he wanted. He has his GED but now its to late to go back to school. Soon after realising that he gave up. On Life. Then one night the cash register wasnt working and he punched it and completely broke it. Now he owes BK 2,500 dollars and had a warrant for his arrest and his court coming up. Well everyone thought if he got a ob before court he would have a chance of paying... but He told my Mom he wants to go to jail.
Jasons been my everything, and I would do anything for him. Im planning on telling him Ill give him 500 to get a job but I dont want him going to jail because my Mom will kick him out.. and he'll have no place to live and Ill be on shit with my Mom bcause ill kill her.
But why does he want this for himself.. I love him and Im not willing to let this happen. What else can I do?
If you love him, you have to let him make his own decision, even if its not always the right one. All you can do is tell him how much you love him and just be there for him. Good luck! Hope I helped!
ok so on myspace a guy that went to my school called "eric" liked like 4 times and he asked me out 4 times i said no to all of them cus we NEVER talked at ALL... so now on myspace we talk alot and he said im beutiful and cute and sexy and all that and now i kinda like him and wanna go out with him but i NEVER had a boyfriend so i dont like know what to say to him or do with him help
f/13
Well you are 13 so I would be careful. Just trell him how you feel. If you wanna go out with him, great! Just be careful about it. Good luck! Hope I helped!
my boyfriend of 2 months is leaving after college starts August 25th for me. I want to give him a gift but I dont know what to give him. It can be either I give it to him before he leaves or put it in his stuff when he leaves that way when he gets to his outta state college he will see/ find it. which sounds like a sweet and good idea.
i already wrote him a note that I will put in his stuff. I have only been with him for 2 months, so scrapbook isn't a good idea because we don't have many pictures taken together. he has pictures on his camera, of me and us.
i've already wrote him poems for our one month. I was thinking about cd, of love songs which I have been working on but I'd like to do more because he will be gone for about a whole year, but we will see each other twice a month and on breaks (christmas/spring)
btw he's 20 im 18.
thank you for all your help everyone!
You can give him the CD and make him a cake or something like that. Good luck! Hope I helped!
I really liked this kid let's call him Ryan. I was pretty sure he liked me and everything, but we stopped talking for a brief period of time and I thought i was over him. But i hung out with him, my friend Lisa, and this kid Danny tonight.
Me and Ryan were pratcically cuddling on the couch and same with Lisa and Danny. Then when they went home Lisa told me she likes Danny and I told her I like Ryan, cause I'm pretty sure I do again.
Well Anyways, When they left me and Lisa talked to them online and Lisa and Danny were talking about how cute me and Ryan looked and then Lisa and Danny were talking about hooking up when we hung out on Monday. Lisa then i/med Ryan asking if he liked me and would hook up with me or something and he Kept saying like. uh no. And he even told Danny he wouldn't hook up with me. Yet he acts like he likes me, But anyways, Then Ryan was all to Lisa, "why didn't you guys tell us you wanted to hook up tonight?" And stuff and then Danny told Lisa he 'Might' Hook up with me now. And then Ryan told Lisa he would 'think about it.' Now there is a problem here, I NEVER made out with a guy. Let alone KISS ONE. Yeah, I never had my first kiss yet. So I don't know WHAT I'm doing. I'm pretty sure Ryan has expirence, but me, I have NONE. I don't want him to think I am a bad kisser or anything. I'm really scared, I have no idea what I'm doing. Please Helpp=(
You should just tell Ryan how you feel. I am sure he is just as nervous. It is OK that you have never kissed or made out with a guy...you gotta start somewhere. I'm sure that he likes you, it's just that guys act differently around people. I'm sure he told Lisa no because he didn't want her getting the wrong idea about you two. If you just try kissing him, then I am sure it will work out.
Good Luck! Hope I helped!
Does everyone with type 1 diabetes lose weight? What I mean is before they're diagnosed. Or does anyone with type 1 diabetes gain weight?
Most do lose weight before they are diagnosed. This is a symptom of this terrible disease. People with type 1 diabetes do also gain weight. They should keep excersizing and eating right along with that. If you have any more questions on diabetes, feel free to drop me a line and I will be glad to help you. I am a type 1 diabetic myself. I was diagnosed when I was 8 and I began losing a lot of weight, not sleeping, drinking TONS of water, going to the bathroom. I am now 18 so I've had this for 10 long years.
Hope I helped!
on my right side breast is smaller than another side, is that cuz i have a surgey on my right side,(i got them when i was baby) is that make my right side smaller cause i have surgey on it?
and also if i took a pill for breast, it will make my breast bigger and same size or the left size will still bigger than right?
I highly doubt it is from your sugery. If you're concerned about it, talk to a doctor and he can help you. As for taking pills to get your breast bigger, it can have negative effects. Hope I helped!
i really don't think that my nerves can take it anymore. I'm going to start from the beginning because I don't think you can fully understand the problem without understanding where it came from. It all started when I was about 13 years old. I go to an all girls school and have gone there my whole life. So, yes, it was a big deal for me to socialize with boys, maybe a little bit of an even bigger deal than it is for the average person. I'm not saying that I was boy crazy, it was just that it was important to me.. well to all of us that have been going there since we were little. But, that was the age I started talking to boys. I started talking to this one boy who really liked me. My mother sat next to me telling me everything to say and do, what to tell him, and what not to tell him. I was so mad at her for it, but now I understand. I get that I was 13 and I could have done something stupid, being it that this was the first time I'd ever socialized with the opposite sex. I understand her now. But, her little experiment has gotten out of control. I'm 17 years old and she goes on my myspace every day.... let me elaborate. She is not going on there just to make sure I'm not talking to some phsyco. Let me assure you, my mother KNOWS I would never do that. She's been spying on me for four years.... remember?? I have never drank in my life or smoked!! She knows that. I'm the most responsible person she could know... I'M A CATHOLIC SCHOOL GIRL WHO WEARS KNEE HIGHS EVERY EFFING DAY, HAS ALL A'S IN EVERY CLASS, HAS OVER 200 COMMUNITY SERVICE HOURS AND A JOB!! Just so you can get a clear picture of me. My entire room and car is decorated with hello kitty and when i ask my mom to take me somewhere, it's to church. Just before you say she's trying to watch me or something. I may not be talking to strangers.... but she sure does. She goes on MY myspace to CHANGE MY WALLPAPER, CHANGE MY MUSIC, AND REQUEST FRIENDS!! Yes, she requests people that I DON'T KNOW!!
You see, about six months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. It was extremely terrible. We were very serious and the way everything happened was just awful. I'm not going to get into details, but let's just say it was one of the worst. Anyhow, I had to go to the hospital because the a-hole caused an ulcer. Even before I met him, I always had gastric problems, but it's just that this provoked it to become a little worst.
So, now that a little time has passed, my family was trying to get me back into a social life. They've tried to introduce me to guys, try to take me here and there, and get me in the mood to go out, and I've tried. But, one day I told my mother that I didn't want to date anyone who didn't look like him because I want someone who is something like him. Whatever you may think of this, that's not he point. But, that's what I told her. She went on myspace and requested someone I don't even know just because she thought he looked like the other one. Then, today, when I'm doing my homework, she comes up to me and tells me to go on myspace to show him to me. So, I go and I see him and it turns out that he is the ugliest thing I've ever seen in my life. So, I told her thank you for her help, but I wasn't interested. Then she tells me "a-hole and his friend are flirting with these girls from the school next door. So, don't come crying to me later." Let me first tell you that the boy NEVER goes on myspace. Second of all let me tell you that he has FACEBOOK, which my mother got one just to SPY ON HIM!!! Turns out it's private, so she can't see him. My point is, she has no way of knowing that. So, let's just say that after an extremely big fight, she says she was just kidding and that she didn't mean for it to turn into an argument, that she was just testing me to see how jealous or how angry I would get.
I DONT THINK SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT I GO TO A VERY HARD SCHOOL!! The school I go to is ahead and all my courses are college courses. I'm super advanced and maybe I have to work a little harder than her. She has to come in here, while I'm trying to do my work and bother me about something stupid. Yesterday, she did the same thing, and i didn't get any work done because I was too pissed to do anything. I can't handle this anymore. I just finished my homework today, but i know i would have done so much better if I weren't fighting with her every two seconds. whatever the case may be, it's still my personal affairs and I've been very lenient as to giving her all my information. I'm tired of being humiliated like this and bothered when I'm trying to get ahead in life.... why is she doing this?? help me??
I'm going to try and help you. It sounds like you're a good girl, always doing the right thing, but maybe she's just trying to look after you and make sure that you stay this way. Parents always try to look out for their children. Have you talked to her about it? Reassure her that you will never do anything bad to make her not trust you. Good luck! Hope I helped!
i really want a boyfriend and theres two guys i really like.
im a fresh in hs and i've never had a bf before
and like since v-days coming i've been wanting one more than any other day.
how should i flirt with them?
Get to know them more; make an effort to be around them more. Talk about things that intrest you and things that intrest them. Good luck! Hope I helped!
ok, so a friend of mine has this 30 year old cousin and he keeps saying he loves her and she loves him to, problem is, she's in love with him. she's like 16 so they're like 15 yrs apart. He keeps patting her on the hip and butt and it doesn't really make her uncomfortable. Anyway, when she told me she's in love with him I was shocked. She knows it's wrong but doesn't know what 2 do. To make things more complicated, she lives in a home with a dad who is always blaming her for things and stuff and a mom who doesn't do anything about it. She would leave but she's got no where 2 go. She told her cousin and he said they would get a house 2gether in a while. She doesn't know what 2 do. She isn't sure if she should stay away from him which she can't seem 2 do anyway or tell him how she feels. any answer would b helpful.
This girl needs a reality check FAST!! Things happen to girls this age that go out with 30 year old guys. Does she realize this? I'm not trying to scare her but I speak the truth. She should leave him right away. I know its hard but its even harder when your in a situation like this to get him to stop. I should also point out that it is illegal for a 30 year old to date a 16 year old. Practice what you are going to say to her beforehand. She needs to know that someone is concerned for her and maybe that will change her mind. Good luck! Hope I helped!
16/f- i really hope you read this because my friends won't really understand.
alright so when i was 14 i dated a guy who was at the time 17. he was my first love and we were going out within about a week after we met. we went out for 4 months and i went to his jr. prom. i lost my spark of attraction to him and the large age difference was putting a strain on the relationship. he told me that there was another girl who liked him and he had always liked her and if he wasn't already going out with me then he would go out with her so he gave me the option (knowing about the other girl) if i wanted to keep the relationship going or end it. i decided to end it because i didn't really like him anymore and i'm not going to go out with a guy when i know he likes someone else.
the actual break up was peaceful and i actually became aquaitances with his new girlfriend. we tried being just friends but the break up was so recent that we ended up fighting and yelling at each other so we decided to say goodbye for a while. for about a year i thought about him everyday. not because i liked him but just because everything reminded me of him. i finally stopped thinking of him and now its been two years since i've even seen him (we went to different schools). well about a month or two ago he texted me just to say hey. i was shocked and i didn't even know he still had my number because he didn't have a cell phone when we were going out so its not like it would have been saved in his address book. so we've been talking. nothing major. at first it was really akward and we had nothing to talk about and even now after talking for two months we pretty much just talk about the weather and work. im not sure if he's still going out with the girlfriend he went out with after me but the last i knew of which was about 4 or 5 months ago, he was. so we've been talking almost every day or maybe 3 times a week. now i haven't heard from him in about 2 weeks and i've texted him and he normally responds within 5 minutes. he probably broke his phone again because it often gets broken...he works in construction. ok so here's the thing...in 2 years this past week of not talking to him is the first time i've missed him. there's two guys who i like at school but i cant get my ex out of my head. one minute i'm wondering if i like him and the other minute im remembering all the reasons why i don't. ok so im going to go over pros and cons.
pros:
-he's sensitive and sweet(he cried when trying to tell me how much he loved me)
-his family is incredibly sweet
-he's really easy to talk to
-he knows a lot about me
-he told me i was the first girl he ever truly loved
cons:
-he didn't go to college which is really important to me
-he is now 19yrs old and im 16 so theres still an age difference
-because of the age difference, my dad hates him and doesn't want me with him and my mom wouldn't be thrilled about the idea either
-he might still have a girlfriend but if i ask him i dont want him to think im interested in him
-my friends really don't like him and think he's a loser for not going to college
i obviously can't talk to my friends about this because they wouldn't understand and i haven't talked to ANYONE about this because i have no idea what i'm feeling. so if anyone read this entire thing, then you're amazing to begin with but if you can help me out i'd be really greatful. so...thanks!
Well with your con list:
1. If he didn't go to college and since this is important to you, this should be a turn off
2. The age difference is a little much but if he still loves you, it shouldn't matter
3. Your parents are right to worry...I'd be worried too. If you assure them that nothing will happen and everything will be fine, then it should ease the worrying a little. It may never completely go away.
4. Youu are right..you don't wanna ask him point blank because you don't really want to seem intrested. Ask his friends.
5. If your friends don't like him, then maybe they are trying to tell you something. I've been struggling with my ex since 9th grade..now I'm in 12th.. and my friends have NO probliem telling him they don't like him. He ended up dumping me Friday. The circumstances may sound rough but you'll get through this.
That's good that you keep in touch with him and are friendly with the new girl. Hope I helped!
I really like this guy. Whenever we're alone together he flirts with me nonstop and I really like it. But when we're around other people he flirts with every girl he sees... more or less. .. and when its me and my best friend and him he pretty much ignores me and pays a ton of attention to her ... So I guess my question is is What do you do if the guy you like likes your best friend?
This guys sounds extremely unstable with relationships. I have been around this often. My advice would be to steer clear of him. See how the relationship goes with him and your friend. You'll realize you're makinga good decision. Hope I helped!
i am 14. my boyfriend (also 14) has felt me up. we've made out. and i've given him a handjob.
a) opinion: am i too young for this?
b) opinion: should i slow things down?
we aren't going to have sex or anything.. i just don't know if we're already moving too fast compared to other kids my age. i can't very well ask other kids my age. it would just sound so odd: "hey, have YOU given your boyfriend a handjob!?"
i don't know.
amateur experts: help me out!
thanks a zillion [:
Personally, 14 is wayyyyy too young. You've got your whole life ahead of you. You don't want to be stuck with one guy your whole life. Yes, you need to slow it down. You need to wait. You wanted my opinion, there you go babe. Hope I helped!
Anyone have any good flirting tips? :]
Haha, I know I probobly sound really stupid for asking, but I don't really have any good ones, except I guess smiling? Haha. Help me out :]
Yeah smile and just hang out with the person. Let the person kow that you're having a good time and spend a little more time with the person. In time, something may happen. Hope I helped!
Okay so I met this boy in December, and he is pretty much hilarious ha.
When I first met him I was talking to my friend Alex and Tommy comes over and says: Alex, is this the girl you always talk about?
Me: Ohh, Alex, what do you say about me?!
Alex: Nothing, he's just like that, ignore him.
Tommy: No, Alex, Come on, tell her!
Anyways we started talking a lot after that. Then we slowly stopped and now we barely do. I think I sort of like him, but I don't know?
Last Saturday, I was talking to him and he said to text him, so I texted him Sunday at like four and said hey and he never answered so I did later and said we need to hang out soon.. and then we were talking for awhile. Well we decided to go to the movies Friday.
On Wednesday I texted him and said hey but he never answered. Thursday I said go to to the movies on Saturday, and he didn't say anything. Yesterday(Friday) I heard he went to the movies, so I felt kind of bad.. So I texted him and said Tommy(: , but he never answered and he texted my friend and asked who is this.. so I was just like wow, but I dunno I'm going to the movies tonight, so I might see him?
So yeah I don't really know what to do? What do you think? Thanks.
PS; I don't plan on talking to him for awhile if I don't see him tonight, because I feel kind of annoying.
It sounds as if the relationship isn't sparking as you planned it. Let it cool off for a while then see what he says. Hope I helped!
I babysit 3 kids sometimes. The mom loves me, im serious. She buys me things, etc. But, what can I do to get the kids to like me. There are 2 girls and a boy. The boy is 7 and really into the army. The next oldest is a 4 year old. And the baby is 2, and boy does she act like a baby. If you tell her dont do something, like dont touch the lamp, she smile and pretend to touch it. Its funny, but after a while.... So, i am accepting any advice.
Thank you!
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Play with the kids more. Be there for them. Maybe buy the little seven year old a nice army hat or army figurines. With the four year old, take her outside; kids love that. With the two year old, leave her be. She'll come to you in time. Try taking them out to a Chuckie Cheese or a John's Incredible Pizza for a hang out night. Continue to be there for the kids and they will like you in time. Good luck! Hope I helped!
While leaving school today, As I was pulling out of my parking spot, I hit another kids car. I pulled into the next available parking space, and got out of my car to go talk to the guy whose car I hit. Well he hadn't been in his car when I hit it, but he was walking toward it.. and he gave me a dirty look. Well he got into his car and left before I could even talk to him! I brought my car into the dealership, and they told me my damage was so little that I didn't even have to report it. There was just a little bit of paint chipped off. I know the kids first name whose car I hit... but I don't really know him. I don't know what to do ... He just left! The car dealership people said to just leave it be.. he's the one that left.. it's his fault for leaving. I still feel I should do something about it... Anyone know what I should have done? thanks ... Calissa T.
Maybe you should of left some insurance and contact information. It was kind of rude for the guy to just leave without talking to you first. The car dealership is right..leave it be.
Heyy Everyone!!
I love wintertime because its so pretty but i feel like the winter clothes are so bulky and they make me look a lot fatter then i am.
I live in los angeles, so it dosent get so cold
But i was wondering like, what are some long sleeve tops that might show my figuire a little?
Im not talking like lowww cut or anything, respectable just cute.
Thanx so much!!
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I really like scarfs in the winter because they keep your neck warm and they aren't bulky. A light sweater and a long-sleeve shirt should work as well. The main thing is to stay warm; it doesn't really mater what you look like. Good luck! Hope I helped!
Okay, so I've always been very anti-social all my life. I only had a few friends in school, but they were just "school friends" and we never did anything on the weekends. My Mum kept telling me to make friends, so I did.
We've been hanging out a lot lately, and now my mum is becoming suspicious. She thinks I'm lying about who I'm going to see, and I tell her to ring my friend's parents to ask but she says no.
But whenever I ask to go out now she acts really weirdly and I'm starting to have to skip things with my friends, because of the way my mum behaves.
Well my question is, what do I do about it?
Tell your mom that you're starting to grow up and that you've met some friends like she has said. Its time for her to face it. Good luck! Hope I helped!
Hi guys how are ya'll doing? I just wanted to ask if ya'll thought that I was freaky. So I'm a tomboy and a bounch of girls have been teasing me. I never wear my hair down, I play football and basketball, all of my friends are boys and the girls at school wont stop teasing me because of it! They call me lesbian, stupid, and one of them said "Who are you going to the dance with...oh wait no one would want a mud coverd bitch as a dance partner". So what should I do about this they are really hurting my feelings? Please help I really apreciate it if anyone answers thanks.
My advice: Be who you want to be and don't try to please anyone but yourself. It is a shame that they treat you this way becuase you sound like a lot of fun!