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Forbidden Love
ok, so a friend of mine has this 30 year old cousin and he keeps saying he loves her and she loves him to, problem is, she's in love with him. she's like 16 so they're like 15 yrs apart. He keeps patting her on the hip and butt and it doesn't really make her uncomfortable. Anyway, when she told me she's in love with him I was shocked. She knows it's wrong but doesn't know what 2 do. To make things more complicated, she lives in a home with a dad who is always blaming her for things and stuff and a mom who doesn't do anything about it. She would leave but she's got no where 2 go. She told her cousin and he said they would get a house 2gether in a while. She doesn't know what 2 do. She isn't sure if she should stay away from him which she can't seem 2 do anyway or tell him how she feels. any answer would b helpful.
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Did you actually say this was her cousin? If so, that in and of itself makes illegal. Not to mention the age difference could get him into trouble as well. I would just point out to her that if they were to get caught, he could go to jail for two different offenses. Let her know that even though she likes him, it's to risky to actually go through with this. Also, remind her that in a few years, when she is more mature and her senses have kicked in fully, would she really want to be in a relationship with a 15 year older cousin of hers? I think not.
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This girl needs a reality check FAST!! Things happen to girls this age that go out with 30 year old guys. Does she realize this? I'm not trying to scare her but I speak the truth. She should leave him right away. I know its hard but its even harder when your in a situation like this to get him to stop. I should also point out that it is illegal for a 30 year old to date a 16 year old. Practice what you are going to say to her beforehand. She needs to know that someone is concerned for her and maybe that will change her mind. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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