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Do you think I'm freaky?
Hi guys how are ya'll doing? I just wanted to ask if ya'll thought that I was freaky. So I'm a tomboy and a bounch of girls have been teasing me. I never wear my hair down, I play football and basketball, all of my friends are boys and the girls at school wont stop teasing me because of it! They call me lesbian, stupid, and one of them said "Who are you going to the dance with...oh wait no one would want a mud coverd bitch as a dance partner". So what should I do about this they are really hurting my feelings? Please help I really apreciate it if anyone answers thanks.
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There probably just jealous of you, because you're the one who's not afraid to be yourself, and go opposite of the crowd. They are probably too afraid of getting in or out of a certain clique, when you're not. Plus, you're the one that gets to spend all of this time with the guys, that all of those girls are probably intimidated by. If you're like at another dance again, and they tell you 'oh who would wanna dance with you', just tell her off or something. Be like 'Well who are you dancing with? Oh wait, nobody would wanna dance with such a slutty skank bitch like you.' That might help a little. Just don't change because they are riding you about it. Just come up with stuff, to show them that you don't care about their little comments. They're just rude little girls who have nothing better to do with their lifes. they really need to get one. My mom used to tell me that if someone picks on you, its most likely that they have low self asteem, and makes them feel better to tear people down. They probably wish they had as much confidence as you. Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate!
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You must live in a small town. No offense intended, but they really sound like stereotypical small-town kids who tease anyone who is different. I used to live in a small town and I got singled out as well.
Anyways... You aren't freaky at all. There are a lot of people that devote a lot of time to sports, and they aren't all guys. It's normal here for girls to be involved in at least one sport because it looks really good on a college application, and of course there are a lot of girls who really enjoy athletics. Wearing your hair in a ponytail is a personal preference. I used to never wear my hair up, and then I cut it a few years ago and have worn it short (shorter than shoulder-length) ever since. By your school's standards, my new haircut would classify me as a butch lesbian, even though I used to have hair halfway down my back. And that lesbian stereotype is lame anyway; I know super-girly lesbians who wear pink, have long hair, and paint their nails. Your bullies' whole viewpoint is pathetic and silly, but I know that doesn't stop their insults from hurting.
One thing you could do is just remember how immature they're being. Because it's true, they're all being immature idiots. They probably pick on you to make themselves feel better. Do your best to ignore them, or just laugh at them when they say something to you. And think about it, are they as talented at anything as you are at sports? I bet at least some of them aren't. Don't stoop to their level by trying to tease them back, and definitely don't try to start a physical fight with them. If you ignore them, there's a good chance that they will get tired of their little game and leave you alone.
If that doesn't work, you could always talk to a teacher. I know that no one wants to be a squealer, but if ignoring them doesn't work or they start to attack you more viciously (especially if they ever try to beat you up or steal your stuff), you should really take this up with an adult. If you have a coach that you really admire and trust, you could talk to them about this.
Good luck with this. I've been in your situation before, and it really isn't a fun place to be. :/
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Do Not let girls like that break you down. They have more self consciousness then anyone. Making fun of other girls makes them feel like they are
dominate. So next time they say something nasty to you about hanging out with boys just say at least they pay attention to me. Or being a lesbian say yea sure i bet you are since you obviously can't get a boy to look at you.
So just don't let them get to you!
BRittany
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you are soooo not freaky dont worry about it. when i was younger i used to be teased also i was a tomboy but i didnt care. the girls would ask me questions and ask why i dont wear makeup.
look those girls are stupid. they dont know anything. tell them to stfu and to stop worrying about your life. its not there life. look your happy with youre style right so thats what counts. forget the other girls theyre stupid you shouldnt care about them in about 3 years or even less you wont see them anymore i bet so who cares about them.
xoxo
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Wow, okay.
First off- I would never say you're freaky. A lot of girls are just like you- they are more sport-savvy.
Next time someone says something to you, just either ignore it or tell an adult. I know that sounds really lame.. but honestly it works. Personally, I would just ignore them, because usually people who pick on other people are only doing it because they are jealous or they are the same way and are embarrassed to admit it.
As my English teacher says, "The things we hate most are the things we are most in love with." If you think about that- it really has a lot of truth to it. So these girls who hate you [I'm not sure if they HATE you, but let's say they do for sake of argument] probably are just picking on you because they envy you. Ponder that ;].
Always be yourself and be proud of who you are. Who cares what other people think of you. They aren't you, so it doesn't matter.
--Jack
(16/m)
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You most certainly are NOT freaky. That's great that you are such an athletic girl and you know what you like. You're not afraid to show it! Don't listen to what those girls are saying. They have no idea what they're talking about -Chances are they're just jealous because you get attention from the guys. Keep up the good work!
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My advice: Be who you want to be and don't try to please anyone but yourself. It is a shame that they treat you this way becuase you sound like a lot of fun!
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