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Hi. i'M ASHLEiGH.

i HAVE A W0NDERFUL B0YFRiEND 0F 0VER 0NE YEAR. ♥

i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

i D0N'T GiVE THE BEST ADViCE iN THE W0RLD, AND i ADMiT iT, S0ME 0F iT SUCKS, BUT AT LEAST i TRYED.

FEEDBACK iS ALWAYS APPRECiATED T0 HELP ME iMPR0VE. :D

i'M N0T G0iNG T0 GiVE A SUCK UP ANSWER JUST T0 GET A G00D RATiNG, SURE i CARE AB0UT MY RATiNG, BUT GETTiNG 0UT G00D ADViCE iS M0RE iMP0RTANT.








[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

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So there's this guy that's 29 and I'm really attracted to him, both physically and emotionally. We can talk for long periods of time without getting bored and we talk about anything and everything. He's funny, charming, polite, smart, handsome, responsible, everything I look for in a guy. We get along really well and seem to really click. We have fun doing whatever we do. The thing is, I'm 18. I think that's the only thing that's standing in the way of us taking this a step further. I personally don't have a problem with the age difference, but I think he does. What should I do? I really like him and can honestly say that I'm falling in love with him.

I can understand. LOVE DOES NOT SEE AN AGE. Always remember that. My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 14, actually we are engaged. When we first started dating we both had an issue with the age, but after a while you just forget about it. I think that if you love him and he obviously has feelings for you, then just tell him your feelings and all. Work through the age difference. Good Luck :]

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how can i delete myspace?

Sign into Myspace and on your myspace home page where your picture and stuff is. Click on "Account Settings". Then click on "Cancel Account" Then follow the directions. You should get an email in about 15 minutes with a link on it. Click it. And viola! You have deleted your Myspace. :]

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If someone says "I lost my virginity to that band" Its called like music virginity. But what does it mean?!?

Looks like the person below me answered you pretty good. But yeah, pretty much it means like its your first time listening to that band.

My boyfriend had a guy visiting from Ireland where he works. Well the guy never heard My Chemical Romance. I let him listen to it the first time, and another guy said that he lost his MCR Virginity.

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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.

Wow, your a bitch.

Anyways, not everybody on this site thinks they give good advice. Hell, I know mine isn't the best in the world. Big fuckin deal. It helps people. And a lot of the people on here have advice that helps people. And they put their whole heart into what they say. I do, just about everyone on here does. And I can not say how much people on here have helped me.

I don't see harm in somebody even attempting to help another person. Every question on here has an answer and somebody who can answer it.

If a 13 year old asks a question, most likely a 13 year old can answer it best. I know when I was 13, I wouldn't want a 20 year old giving me advice.

Look at most the questions. They are asked by 13-18 year olds. Right? Most of the columnists on here, are that age and can answer those questions better.

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ok i have 2 questions

1. i just got the Chocolate (cell phone) my service is Verizon. Anyone know how to put it on speaker?

2. I am trying to burn my friend a CD for christmas on Windows media player.. i have done it many times before but i forgot how to put it on the "slowest speed" im pretty sure you go to the "tools bar" then to "options" but im clueless from there on. Any help?

thanks

Okay, I know nothing about Chocolate phones. But I can answer your second question.

Okay, at the top where it says "Start Burn" and "Edit Playlist" Go all the way to the right side, and theres a paper with like a check mark in it. Well, click on it. A box should pop up. The box is the "Properties" box. Uner the "Recording" tab (which should be the page you are looking at" There are 2 drop down boxes. The first one says "Local Disk (C;)" The second one says "32x" Click on the arrow for the 2nd drop down box. Click on"1x"

That will have put it on the lowest speed. :]

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What are some movies that have recently come out or are comming out soon, i want some for christmas. Any type is good.

*Cars [its awesome]
*Larry the Cable Guy- Health Inspector
*Step Up
*Ice Age 2
*Pirattes of the Carabean 2 [Dead mans chest]
*The Omen
*Silent Hill
*When a Stranger Calls
*Talladega Nights
*World Trade Center
*The Devil wears Prada
*Invincable
*Barnyard
*Accepted
*Superman Returns
*High School Musical Remix
*Walk the Line
*Da Vinci Code
*X-Man 3: The Last Stand
*Mission Impossible 3
*Just my Luck
*Little Man
*Idlewild
*Over the Hedge
*Air Buddies
*Cheetah Girls 2


Thats all I can think of right now, but I'm a HUGE movie freak..so yeah.

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Hey sorrie took so long to rate your advice. I was the one who asked bout the cartilage and bullshit. Btw, you said you lose sight for a few minutes everytime you get a piercing? So did it happen when you got a cartilage?

I was just thinking..it's wierd that you'll lose sight for a while cos I did ask my friends and none of them told me that.

I'm clarayow btw. =)

Yup, I lose sight for a minute or two everytime. Yes, it happened when I got my cartiledge too.

I actually have no idea why it happens, but its really fuckin annoying. But yeah..its pretty wierd.

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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do?

You need to talk to him. Tell him about your beliefs and that you want to wait until marriage. If he understands, then hes a great guy and really loves you. If he doesn't understand, gets mad, and keeps pressuring you, then he doesn't love you and only wants to fuck you. And you don't deserve a guy like that.

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do girls like classical or rock musicians?

and i'm confused,cause i hear girls say that they love musicians,but

1)is it based on skill.exp:the better the guitaring is.the more the girl likes the guy?
does skill affect?or do girls just don't care if he is a sucky guitarist or a pro,they will still like the guitarist as long as he plays guitar??

2)is it also based on looks,?or do girls love great drummers and vocals even through they don't look good? so which one would a girl choose? a kickass drummer with average looks or a sucky drummer with model looks?

thanks for answering,anyways,if you girls like any other type of guys besides musicians....like bikers,car racers or skaters...just feel free to say what talent you would love in a guy.although i hear that most girls are not really into guys that race,but more to guys that are musically or sports inclined,it that true???

I love musicians. :]
Rock musicians are hotter..

1- Skill. You need it. I mean otherwhise you just look stupid, trying to play and being crappy. Skill matters a lot. Without skill just..forget it. Personally if he has a guitar and sucks then, no. Thats just lame.

2- Looks aren't everything. If I want a guy that plays, then I'd rather have a alright looking guy that is really good. Rather than a model hot guy that just sucks..

I love punk rock guys. Guys that skate, and play guitar are my type. Although my boyfriend says he can do that..sometimes I really wonder. :P

Good Luck on whatever it is your trying to do! :]

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what are the conversions for the sizes of the balls on lip rings? i have a size 16 gauge but all of the replacement balls are sized in mm. does anyone know the size of a 16 gauge lip ring ball in mm? thanks!

Oh, YAY! I love these types of questions. :]

A 16 gauge is 1.33mm

Yep.

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how do you know when you like someone enough to actually have sex with them

You will be able to feel it.
Irs hard to explain, you just know.

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this is a rather odd question to ask, but anyway...

me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex, and were going to use condoms, but i would like to know which one is best kind? because i don't want it to break or anything.

Trojan. They hardly ever break.
My boyfriend uses Trojan Magnum- Twisted. They are super thick, but feel really good. I highly recommend them. He can't use LifeStyles [they are to small] but I've heard they break easy.

Anyways, buy Trojan and I promise it won't break. :] Good Luck!

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i'm trying to find a place that sells the little balls on the ends of liprings. i want to buy some for my friend for christmas. They need to be a 16 gauge and they need to come with two of each color since the lipring that he wears has two balls on each end.

so basically my question is does anybody know of a place where i can buy a big pack (perferably mulit-colored) lip ring balls that are a size 16 gauge? and that comes with two of each color?

thanks! :]

I have lots of piercings & am always buying thost balls...cause I lose them a lot. :/

Heres were I go..
www.bodycandy.com
www.mspiercing.com
www.gracebodyjerwlery.com
& one more, but I can't remember :[
So if I do, then I'll edit & let you know!

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where can i gat love my eyes eyeliner??

I've seen them at Dollar General.. :/
...seriously.

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I'm 13/f. But my boyfriend was 16.

1. My step father had started sayig saying That if me and him had sex then that would be statitory rape, consensual or not.
Is it possible for him to get into trouble for having sex with me?

2. My parents put a restraing order against him. Once I'm not a minor anymore is it possible for that restraining order to count like would he get in trouble for being with me again?

--Sid

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. That would be statitory rape..but hasn't really affected us.

The legal age is 18. So if he was 18 and older, and had sex with you, that would get him into trouble since your under 18. So your step dad is wronge.

I don't think its possible for him to get into trouble, but it could be. I could help you more if you posted the state you live in...

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Well i was thinking of giving my ferret a little piece of a curly frie like once a week. I was wondering if that could effect her health i mean i know it isnt that healthy but could it kill her? should i give it to her or not... ? i know she likes them. please only answer if you are possitive. :]

thanks , kayla

Lucky for you that boyfriend of mine used to have a ferret. But my twin killed it. (seriously)

Anyways, I called him and asked him cause he knows a lot of stuff about them. And he says that it isn't good for his health but, it won't kill him. (pretty much what the person below me said) So, neither me or him recommend you feeding that to your ferret.

I would ask my twin..but uh, do we really want her answering that!? :]

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im 13/f ..

i would like to lose weight before january to march.. or even christmas. waht do i do so that i can lose some fat in my stomach [i have a flabby stomach =( ] and also my thighs [whenever i walk theyre always touching.. that is not sexy] please help me. i`ve been looking for this [lose weight fast] for a long time. i dont wanna take those medicines or other drugs, i just wanna do something like.. i dont know. lol please help!! i want a nice body.


=[

If all you want to do is lose fat, and have a sexy body. Then Exercise! :]

I don't really think you need to go on a diet, since you only want to work on those 2 parts of your body. Try doing sit-ups, and walking.

Eating healthy, and eating foods that speed up your matabalism is a good idea.

But really all you need to do is exercise. :]

Good Luck!

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17/f

ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.

So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?

I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.

Thanks in advance!
-L

As most people had said, you will be sore for a few weeks. I hurt for 3-4 weeks, probably had to do with his size and my smallness.

It will hurt the first few times, but after I'd say maybe 4-5 times you should be enjoying it as much as he is! :]

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Alright well my bf and I had dry sex and I had only my underwear on and he only had his boxers on. He didn't ejaculate on me, then after that he jacked off and he lost a lot of sperm, then later on we had dry sex again except everything on me was off and he only had his boxers on. Then I wan't to stop and he said he didn't ejaculate at all on me or anything and his dick wasn't even inside of me. But he got a little cum where his dick was and I was really wet. Do you think that was my cum? Do you think there is any way possible I could be pregnant?
A lot of people that I told had told me it's really doubtful..

The person below me about sperm dieing as soon as it hits air is wronge. Cause I got banned a few weeks ago for saying that.


Anyways, if your boyfriend didn't ejaculate then you shouldn't be worried. However, I have been told that pre-cum can get you pregnant. And chanced are, if hes dick was wet, that was his pre-cum. But if he never went inside of you, you have very, very little chance of being pregnant. So, you shouldn't be worried. :]

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what is a cunt??

Its an insult. I call people that all the time :X It means vagina.

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