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My name is Geri-lynn

I live in Harvey, Louisiana. Harvey is on the westbank of the New Orleans metro area, so yes I hate Katrina. But pretty much everything is okay now, it`s back to normal. The sluts, the rumors, and the parties are now open for business.I have a boyfriend and I love him. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM. But my mother hates him. He is 18. He goes to my school`s rival, West Jeff. He plays baseball and football. He was Mr. West Jeff & I'm oh so proud of him. I have the best friend ever, i love you kB


Adrianna

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** I like giving advice. it may not be the best but it is the honest truth. I dont judge before hand but if your an idiot.. then your an idiot. I dont care much for people that lack common sense and say stupid idiotic crap just for attention. But other then that im a really nice, and understanding person. Chances are i've been through the stuff you are going throu or i just know knowlegde about it. and other times i have no earthly idea on how to help you. But anywho Bye**


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Hello..
My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We both are vigins and we are in our early 20's.
We have tried to have sex but everytime we try I experience severe pain and we stop. We tried lubricant but that didn't help either.
Please help! Is there any methods?

hum everyone pretty much experience severe pains. maybe you cant take pain as much as others. Lubricant is the right method really or you just make sure you get in the righttttt high climax mood so you wont think about it as much. thats cute thou

-Adrianna

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Ok so i am in a huge band and i am one of the dancers. When i came to the band everyone warned me about this certain guy and i dunno how it happend but he pulled me in. I totally feel for him, i dotn even know how, i knew that is i did he would want sex, and the day it happend i knew it was going to happen. But i dont understand how i let it happen. Since when i went over to his house i knew what was going to happen i lied to him and told him i was on drugs. Cause he is a huge drug addict, which is bad since i have got into drugs laitly and i am trying to quit.

anyways to the point he kept asking me and asking me finally i got mad anough and i just said ok, we used a condom and everything then we had sex. it hurt so much and i cnat believe i did it. After that i went on the pill just to be safe. But he didn't talk to me for 2 months after
it broke my heart.

now we han gout again and stuff and we talk and everyting what is srsly wrong wiht me|?
why would i even speak to him after all that.?

well it isnt all his fault. why wont you speak to him. i mean okay maybe he feels the same way. maybe he feels some what of a regret towards it. You cant really blame him for that. there is nothin wrong with you you just leanred from a mistake. and you got to deal with it

-Adrianna

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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe

your just paraniod. i mean you get very well be bloated. if you were preg. you wouldnt show in two to three weeks anyway. that is too soon.. if you dont get your period anytime soon maybe you might reconsider having sex for a while and go get checked
-Adrianna

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if you have sex like less than a week before your period and become pregant will you still have your period for that month?

Some poeple still have their period like four months into being pregnant. could happen


-Adrianna

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recently I've noticed I have a small pimple-ish thing near/on my vagina. I'm positive it's not razorburn or anything of that sort. But none the less I'm still worried. im only 16 so i dont want to ask my parents about it. I've never been involved in any sexual activity so it couldnt be STDs. im worried still, any ideas/suggestions?

dont stress about it. its normal. now if u were sexually active then yeah you may want to get it checked but it isnt all that it is cracked out to be. dont worry

now.. if it starts to get more noticaable and odd looking then maybe you would want to go see a doctor as well..

-Adrianna

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When are you more likely to get pregnant... Like around when you get your period or someother time?

And if your taking the pill is stilll more likely

your most likely to get pregant at any time. and if you want to find an exact date on which u can have sex without a condom and know for a big def that you will not get preg. then u can go to your doctor who will test you and find out. but that takes time and money.. and taking the pill is a 99% chance of not gettin preg. but still there is that 1% that you may

-Adrianna

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I think I've caught something nasty - where do I go to get it checked out?

closest clinic or a close elder

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ok, this is weird...and i've never told neone before, and your the first to know. i...kinda have sex w/ myself. i know, ew. but, the problem is, i don't know how to stop! i just get these feelings like i want to do it, but then like i don't want to but i feel like it. and whenever i think about sex, i'm like gross. but i don't think that when i'm doing it to myself. an also i've never had a b/f. i'm really scared, but it feels good to do it. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

masturbating is normal. it is healthy... so ive herd. i dont know details or anything but dont feel scared. im sure alot of gurls do it. you arent really having sex with your self thou. i wouldnt put it in those exact words

=-Adrianna

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19/f
I had sex with my best friend (a guy) a little while ago. We both admited feelings for each other & have been a couple before, but things still aren't going anywhere even though it's what we both want. Help!

tell him how u feel. get it all out.. unless there is some drastic stopping yall then dont waste time cause you might regret it

-Adrianna

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what are the chanches of a condom breaking when have sex?

the chances are very low. but dont think it cant happen to you cause it can

-Adrianna

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hi i'm irish, and i burnnn super easily.
but i realy want to get tan this year.
any suggestions? other than self tanners?

a high spf lotion.. that will be the only sugesstion other then tan in the shade.

or you can go to the tanning salon and geta base tan .. go three or four times. 15 minutes a piece.. and you will have a base tan and u wont burn. repeat that like monthly.


-adrianna

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so story is me and my boyfriend were having unprotected sex saturday (27). yes i know, very bad, but we were just trying it for a second. he kept going and finally pulled out and was like oh shit. i looked down and the cum was coming out. i asked him if he pulled out in time but he didnt know. now im freaking out because i havent gotten my period. i was due the 27-30. we looked ovulation up and it said the days before your period your infertile. could it just be stress that is keeping me from getting it or should i go to the doctor? please help. i rate 5's

yea, im pretty sure you are stressing...
look for signs though. I thought I was too but just chill, get a test and find out.

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I was at a party and I was drunk and an older guy I met there forced me into doing stuff i didn't want to do, the worst part was he wasn't drinking. Im not sure what to do because i don't know whether to confront him about it. I feel like I was raped and I really don't know what to do to get through this.

well just ask him. you have to know. and he is the only one that would know everything so. if you feel violated which you should then confront him but remember you were at a partying doing something that you werent suppose to do either.


-Adrianna

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Well theres a guy who I get on really well with. We talk at school and for hours on msn. A few months ago he asked me out, I turned him down I didnt want to ruin our friendship. Again a few weeks ago he asked me again, we have been chatting more and hanging out loads. I said I would think about it then the next day told him I didnt think it would work. So its been just over a month since he asked me and im starting to fal for him, he seems to have moved on but im not sure. We spoke on msn for 7 hours today, I mean before I knew he had msn I was only online around once a week. He is such a sweet guy and I regret saying no, I guess I never really noticed that side of him before. Now I need your help, Is it too late?? Should I ask him out?? Has anyone been in this situation before?? Im falling in love with a good good friend so I need amazing advice. I dont want to ruin what we have, but dont want to lose what we could have had. Thanks for reading this.
I rate

it is never to late.. the rest is all up to you and how u really feel about him

good luck

-adrianna

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today i got the sony psp.
i was wondering
what are some sites i can use to get FREE music?? && how do I put the music onto my psp?
i rateee !

bearshare or limewire. good dl sites

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My brother just graduated from college and is now moving to California to go to post-graduate school. His party is this Saturday, and as his "gift", my sister and I are going to sing him a bunch of songs that we're going to mix together. We already have a few, but we need a lot more because we're planning to play a mini - movie of clips of us when we were younger.

If you guys have any song suggestions that would go with it, that'd be really great. It could be about going away or graduating, growing up, etc. Even songs about love if it goes well with what I'm doing this for.

Our songs so far are -
"More than Words" - Frankie J.
"Yesterday" - The Beatles
"In My Life" - The Beatles
"Without You" - Mariah Carey
"Time" - Chantel Kreviazuk
"Farewell To The old Me" - Dar Williams
"Wind Beneath My Wings" - Bette Midler
"Time To Say Goodbye" - Sarah Brightman

Any suggestions would be great. :]

PS - I think the Vitamin C song is too overplayed, so I've already rejected it.


Goodbye to you - Michelle Branch
A Moment like this - Kelly Clarkson
The Time of My Life - Green Day
I'm Coming out - Diana Ross
I'm Not Gonna Cry - Corey Smith
photograph - nicelback
my wish - rascal flatts
bill withers – Lean On Me
faith hill – There You’ll Be
Ghoti Hook - Graduation day
Value Pac - Graduation day
Boston - Don't Look Back
Oasis – Wonderwall
kelly clarkson – breakaway
Ronan Keating - I Hope You Dance
the calling - our lives


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I'm considering getting a circumcision since I heard it is less likely to get STD's. The only problem is that some of my friends said that getting a circumcision makes your penis smaller. I don't know how since it is just getting your foreskin cut. Is this true or not?

well i always thought most guys get it circumsized before hand but it isnt a huge drastic change off your penis size haha. it wont be like 2 inches or anything. nothin to worry about.

-adrianna

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i became being belimic a little bit ago because im starting to dislike my eating habits. dont worry im probably going to eat reguarly soon. i havent researched it that much but i was wondering how throwing up is bad for you? i mean, the food goes down in your stomach and takes nutrients out of the food but all it does is make the rest come up again. whats wrong with that? the excess food exit the body later anyway. just in a different way.

acids also comes up with the puke. which messes up your throat for one and your teeth.. the body doesnt get enough nutrients and deosnt get enough to feed of off and starts feeding off your body. that is why people get skinny sick over time.. that really isnt good.. if you would like other ways in which u could maintain a good body weight you can send a message to our inbox

-Adrianna

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ON THE SITE, someone answered another question with a girl who got bad stomach aches and they said it might be leaukimia. well i get stomach aches (and usually cramps like on my ribs though) but not horrible ones. also, along with that i get head aches. but doctors say its all in my head and i have to go see a physcologist cause its not improving. is it leaukimia?? :( i don't care if it is just tell me

lmbo no doubt it. dont worry so hard on that. i never herd side effects of the sort

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heres a problem. i really need help asap.

B0B PUT $20 INTO A BANK ACCOUNT. EVeRY MONTH IT DOUBLES. IN 5 MONTHS, HOW MUCH $ WILL BE EARNED?

please show me how to get this answer!

you have

1month - first month was 20$

2months - double it the second month 40$

3months - double it again 80$

4months- double it again 160$

5months- double it again 320$

i believe 320$ is the answer hun

-adrianna

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