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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

i think that hes trying to show you that your the only thing on his mind just cause he doesnt do the normal guy thing yeah is some cases he could be gay but i dont think that your guy is hes trying to show you that like i said your the only thing on his mind and that he loves ya
-Cass-

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Hi maybe you can help me...wut is pullout? i think i kno wut it means and then i dont..please help. i rate! THANX!

can you explain this a bit more like what kinda terms it might be used for or seomthing thanks
-Cass-

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hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!

honestly i can tell you how i feel cause i have been in your shoes a time or two but i mean if you love running and everything being weighed and everything yeah its a pain cause i swear everytime i go to the doctor i gain more weight and im a senior in high school but you dont have to have the other girls see it or coaches hear it juts have them like say it softly or just write it down and show you or something i hope taht everything turns out ok
-Cass-

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i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both.

BOTH
-Cass-

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Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood?? sorry if that sounds really stupid..

because the stuff that it is made up of rub against the inside of you and well its not that wet or moist or nething when you take it out and the cotton lets call it with get stuck up against the inside of you
-Cass-

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what does

love or heart
-Cass-

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Ok...Well My sister is 15 years old and has been doing alot of partying lately and messing around with guys much older than she is!Its been bothering me because im 17 going to be 18 shortly and i am going to be 8 months pregnant which dont get me wrong im happy about the baby and im not going to regret her but i just dont want to see my sister end up in the same situation at an early age if she keeps it up.She seems to think that what she is doing is fine but im worried about her ending up in a bad situation or getting a bad reputation.Any ideas on what i should do and do you think that what she is doing is wrong?

Honestly i think taht you need to talk to you sister and tell her how you feel and everything i mean i dont think that she wants to end up pregnant as well as her big sister you need to just tell her taht you dont want to see her baby sister pregnant at her age just talk to her hopefully all goes well
-Cass-

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Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?

Yes
-Cass-

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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else??

yes it was your cherry and on different people you will bleed different you will either bleed more or less then others thats why it might have seemd weird at the time but your fine
-Cass-

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is any other columnist's writing different?? I mean I go to 'ask a question' and the font is bigger than it used to be!! its different!! is anyone else's like that?

yeah mine is like that too
-Cass-

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

you could be jealous that he has a girlfriend and all and yeah you could like him but i mean if you guys are really good friends i would lose that and everything
-Cass-

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So, My really good friend just commited suicide and I really wanna read up on reancarnation. Does anyone know any really good books about that?

i dont know of ne good books but im so sorry my i had a friend who did the same thing im so sorry
-Cass-

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ok...i've like this kid for almost a year now. he's my friend, but he might like me, i don't know. yesterday was the first day of school, and i couldn't open my locker. After 3rd period i went up to him and one of my other guy friends and said "help me beat up my locker"...so we went to my locker, and he offered to open it for me. he got it open, so i gave him a hug, cuz i hadn't been able to open the damn thing all day. after that, he asked me if i had lunch then, i said yes, and he said "cool." so we walked outside, and i tried not to follow him like i do sometimes, but he sat where i did. we hung out at lunch again today...do you think he might like me?

it could be possible and everything but i mean just get to talking to him and be yourself aroudn him a bit more and just tell him that you like him if you can maybe he might like you too?!?!?
-Cass-

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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH!

you need to tell him that and all and just dont lead him on cause you might be hurting him and everything like your ex did you i mean thats not right b/c you guy broke up and everything but then she is just like johnny on the spot of him and everything to me i think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel but just dont lead the other ex on tell him how you feel as well
-Cass-

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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast

i think that you just need to talk to her and everything i mean obivsly{how ever you spell that} she musta liked him too or something or she wouldnt have acted that way and everything i mean she said that she would get mad at you and all but then again she still did that makes like no sence at all you need to tlak to her asap
-Cass-

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okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me

i mean your age is a huge factor in the situation and everything but feeling somethign for someone isnt...i think that you need ot be straight with him yeah you have feelings for him and everything but i mean hes leaving and all, and who knows you guys could still stay really close while he is over there and everything i mean i would just tell him upfront how you feel about him i hope all goes well and everything turns out okay
-Cass-

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

What you could do is just dont tell her that you read her diary and everything but just be like i have a funny feeling or something like that you might be anorexic and everything and i mean show her that you care and everything show her that your worried and all cause i mean she is your best friend and everything but you need to say something to her and try to help her if she wants it you cant just force help on her you have to take it slow
-Cass-
hope i helped

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okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?

not necessarly and all but i mean i have done the same things and all but your mind could change but im bi and everything but thats all on how you act on things from now on and everything but that doesnt set in stone that you are bi
-Cass-

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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!

You need to ask him before just jumping to conclusions about things and i mean if you like this guy and all i mean i think that you should take what he says cause you getting advice for people that you relaly dont get along with and all and by doing that your misjudging your bf
talk to him before doin nething
-Cass-

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

first why do you care what other people think cause you shouldnt its up to you, you make your own decisions not everyone else and i dont thinkt hat it would matter you should only care about what you think not what everyone else does cuase if you do youll be doing that the rest of your life and its not worth it
-Cass-

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