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Question Posted Thursday August 12 2004, 9:03 pm

okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?


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Additional info, added Thursday August 12 2004, 9:08 pm:
but like.. i dont like girls or at least i dont think i dont but i've thought bout it! I've had plenty of boyfriends n stuff but what do i do! I really dont want to like girls!.

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OrangeLuverr answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:02 pm:
Maybe you like the way they look and are jealous, i mean you said urself that you dont want to like girls...so i dont think that you are bi.

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bucs10us answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:21 pm:
everyone has thought about it at one time or another, but unless you actually enjoy looking down at gurls, then ur not bi

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liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:56 am:
You might be bi, but it's probably your raging hormones. You can look at everybody with that some want to make-out with them. I don't think you bi, hun =)

If you need anymore advice just ask me!

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alisonmarie answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:53 am:
You can't help who you like. Whoever that may be, it doesn't make you unhealthy. It can be scary when you first start to doubt your sexuality, but it's actually a really positive step.

Whether you identify as bi, lesbian, or straight in the future, you'll know yourself better because you went through this period of self-exploration.

If you are thinking sexual thoughts about your friends, or wanting to date them, then yes. At this point, you are attracted to girls.

Sexuality is fluid, though. You'll grow and develop; you might realize that you're a lesbian. Or not. Either way, you're okay.

A lot of people worry about labels. I worry about labels. It's normal. What you have to always consider, though, is that you want to be on a path where you are the most YOU you can be. This is the only way you'll be truly happy.

Feel free to email me if you want to talk more about this - I went through the same emotions in high school.

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aualohakahanalu answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:08 am:
i think that u r curious

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:14 pm:
Um...It doesnt realli sound like u like them.My friend went thru that "phase" and shes not BI

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Elementskater594 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:13 pm:
it kinda does make you bi buh at the same time it doesnt. if you really dont wana like girls than just dont, keep going out w| guys and try not to think about making out or likeing girls and maybe you'll stop. i hope i helped

x3 becca

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Untouched1 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:58 pm:
not necessarly and all but i mean i have done the same things and all but your mind could change but im bi and everything but thats all on how you act on things from now on and everything but that doesnt set in stone that you are bi
-Cass-

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LuCiouzbabii answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:46 pm:
hey hun..iight well if u lOok at ur friends like that nd dont look at guys ur a lesbian but if u look at bOth nd do stuff with both that meens ur bi..but u cant b sure yet.if u get atractid to guys to ur bii

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MummuM answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:46 pm:
I think all girls have that thought about, what it would be like to get with a chick. It doesn't make you bi, just because you think of it. It's just something you need to experiment with.

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Paradise88 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:39 pm:
im gunna be totally honest with y0u cause this is advice , hunn im not gunna lie !! maybe.. your a lesbian? im sry but i wuld think that plenty of lesbians go out with guys and then when they get old enought they relize that there not itersed in that type, its confusing i kno, but or even u jus wanna for fun, i dunt think ur bi but there is a possiblity that ur a lesbian, admit it now or u'll never be able too.

:D i try to be honest and help :/

xox ManDa

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XoCrYsTaLoX answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:23 pm:
no i dont it necessarly means your bi, you'd be suprised at how many straight people do the same thing! i wouldnt worry about it! *hope i helped*

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simpleesweet78 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:18 pm:
No that doesn't mean your bi. I mean you could be by but usually when ur bi u KNOW u like both GIRLS and guys u have feelings for them and it seems liek you dont in this case. and its okay to think about making out with girls .. alotta gurls that i know do that to think about making out with them.. Dont worry from wut it seems ur not bi. Hope i helped!!

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xomichellebabyox answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:13 pm:
i really think that you are bi so your just gunna have to accept the fact that you are

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Jamie008 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:12 pm:
well u might not be bi but u have itrest in girls and theres nuttin wrong wit that

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crushed191 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:12 pm:
You are the only person who can decide if you are Bisexual or not. Nobody can decide for you no matter how much you want them to. It sounds like you just want to experiment with girls and aren't really bisexual, but if you keep wanting to do things to girls then maybe you are. You need to sit down and think very hard if you are or not. Think about what you like in girls and what attracts you to them, then think the same about guys. No one can change their sexuality if it's truly how they feel.
Hope I've helped.

Bri

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raushelle answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:11 pm:
I dont think it makes you bi. Because your not thinking (as far as i can tell) about having a relationship with these people. Personallly I think of it as an experiment (sorta). I mean its kinda hard to explain but no i dont think that makes you bi. You may also just be THINKING about it and not actually WANTING it.

My thought on it is NO.

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RAUSHELLE

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