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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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i have now discovered that even though girls say they want genuinely nice guys they chase after assholes, who do nothing but treat them badly. but why do girls still do it.
Girl's who do this are just craving for attention, in all the wrong ways, from a certain guy. They don't care if it's bad or negative attention, they just care that they're getting it.
Not all girls are like this. If you smart, you should know right from wrong, and you should know to never let a guy walk all over you. You're much better than that!
Hey everybody, I'm 14 (almost 15) and I think it's about time I start thinking about a first job. Most likely when I turn 15 or 16 I'll start looking for one. I want to work at McDonald's with my friend, but if I can't, what are some good jobs for somebody who has terrible social skills? All answers are appreciated.
If you don't have that great of social skills, you can always do something different in the work field. Their are many jobs that you don't really have to deal with the public with.
-- You could be a dish washer at your local restaurant.
-- You could do the cooking at McDonalds.
-- If you have a donuts shop, you could make the donuts in the back of the store.
-- If you have an animal shelter or a pet shop, you could always apply there, too.
-- Do odd jobs around your town for Family & Friends.
Ok....I'd allways thought having a favorite number was riddiculous until a friend asked me what mine was... It diddnt take me long to answer 11.... ever since i turned 11, it's allways seemed right... You know, like apealing...im not sure whats up with it, but i was hoping you guys could give me a good answer... Its gonna drive me insane... i feel like theres something more to it.. I asked my mom and she said it was considered the most powerful number in numerology, but thats not enough... i need more information... So hopefully somebody if not several of you can answer soon... Thanks ^.^
LJB
"Number Eleven possesses the qualities of intuition, patience, honesty, sensitivity, and spirituality, and is idealistic. Others turn to people who are 'Eleven' for teaching and inspiration, and are usually uplifted by the experience."
The following site might help you out a little more: www.greatdreams.com/eleven/num11.htm
heyy im 18 and im about 6 inches long and like 2 thick is that considered big? or like enough to be satisifing?
I don't understand why guys worry so much about what is "down there". There isn't an "average size" penis that men should have. Like they say, in China all the men have small penis. How do you know? Have you seen EVERYONE'S penis over then? And about the African Americans, how they're all huge. Sorry to burst your bubble, but I seen one, and it was smaller than smaller.
As long as you're comfortable with yourself and you know how to work it, that is all that matters...believe me!
I'm 17 and I get guys in their early to mid twenties hitting on me, but when I'm in school most guys just want to be my friend. I've had boyfriends but none lasted very long. There's this one guy that's been hitting on me since I was in middle school, he chased me down the street one time just to ask me how old I was and where did I live. He's friends with my brother and every time he comes to my house hes either staring at me or trying to flirt with me and I don't like him. He's 24 yrs old and he's been hitting on me since I was like 12. I was having a conversation with this one guy and he was 18 and I told him I was 17, he reacted with a holy sh*t. I don't dress slutty or wear make up and I don't understand why older guys hit on me or think that Im older than my age. So is it because I look older or because guys think I'm easy because I'm younger?
Honestly, it's probably a bit of both. Not too many older guys have "just going out" with a girl on their mind, there's usually some thing else that comes along with that. If he's older (especially that much older), he's probably in it for one reason, and one reason only. Especially if you're a virgin. Older guys tend to try to get girls younger than them, and once they do, it's just for some quick fun and then they up and leave. A 17 year old has nothing in common with a 24 year old. In my option, I'd stay away from him. Being friends would be alright, but nothing more. And don't let him pressure you into ANYTHING!
So i have this friend. Lets call her A. We have been friends for about a year now. But she’s starting to get really annoying. Everywhere i go, she wants to go, everything i do, she wants to do it too. And i dont want to hurt her feelings by telling her to back off. And please dont say, talk to her and let her know how you feel.
Since you don't what people saying to talk to her about it (and that's what I was going to tell you,) I'm going to try something different.
How about you go places that she HATES to go? See if she still follows you to those places. Does she tend to try to wear the same style as you, also? You could get some friends together and dress the total opposite from what you dress, see if she does the same; see if she REALLY wants to do everything you do. ;o)
theres this guy.. ha, typical right? well he told me he was going to ask me out but he wanted it to be perfect... he then flirted with my bestfriend. They were staying stuff like they wanted to go somewhere romanticc and that shit. Well i confronted him and he was so upset and we made up and all and everything was good... so i had my other bestfriend hit on him after a little bit he starting flirting back.. i KNOW this is horrible but i still like him and he still likes me and i dont know what to do.. i know if i became his girlfriend he'd be faithful (he never TOTALLY cheats)but i still dont trust him.
If you can't trust him now when you guys aren't even in a relationship, how are you going to trust him when you are? It's a big blow to the head when he's going around flirting with your "best friends". Do your "best friends" flirt back with him, and do they know you're crushing on the guy? If they do, they aren't be very good friends in the first place. Friends SHOULD NOT flirt with other friends crushes, that's just wrong and down right hurtful.
If you want to take a chance, and go for it since he hasn't really "cheated" on you since you guys aren't together. Maybe he would be different if you guys were in a relationship. Try it, but keep your wall up, just in case something does happen, you won't be so crushed about it.
In your personal opinion, do you belive it's ok for a 13 year old girl who is trustworthy and gets excellent grade to have a boyfriend?
I think as long as you are mature about it, yes. It's just a part of growing up.
i like this guy and my friend likes him to but she told me to go for if..
but then when i tryed she got mad..even tho she didnt to me befor...what should i do ? :o
She obviously doesn't want you going out with him. A lot of people will say something, when really deep down, they mean differently. I suggest finding another boy to start crushing on and trying to get over your current crush. No guy is worth losing a friend over.
Do you feel like your a better parent than your parents?
Are there some thing that your parents did that you couldn't imagine doing or not doing to your own kids?
With raising my children, I do think I am doing a better job than she is. Not so much than she did with me (because she did a GREAT job at raising her two Girls,) but more so her disciplining my children. She can never say no to them. So in turn, they always expect everything out of me and their Father. But, I have to have rules, or my children are going to walk all over us when when they're older, especially when they hit the Teenage Years.
How old are you? Are you happy with your age? how's life treating you?
I'm 23 years old and I am currently very happy with my age. My life is treating me GREAT. You can't ask for more when you have two beautiful and smart Baby Boy's!
What are 3 things you wanted as a kid but never got?
-- A battery operated jeep!
-- A in-ground pool!
-- To play Hockey (but couldn't because I just got my braces off; Mom didn't want my ruining my teeth.)
why do my nipples itch and why are they a little sore.
When your nipples are itchy and your breast are a little sore, it just means they're growing. Nothing to worry about, at all.
19/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years and haven't had many problems at all. But just a few days ago, we got into an argument about how I feel he doesn't really care for me the same anymore.
That night, I had a dream that we were still dating, but he had taken me to the mall so I could see an old friend. In my dream I was sad and had really been missing him, so I went up and gave him a big hug and we started talking and it was wonderful, and then I woke up.
Then yesterday night, I was with my boyfriend and we started to kiss a little, and then he told me to leave. It made me really mad. When I got home I didn't even talk to him.
But then when I fell asleep I had another dream about the same guy from the other night. This time we were alone, and he had just gotten home from this big trip and I hugged him and then he kissed me. The weird part was, I liked it. I liked it more than I like my boyfriend kissing me. In my dream I was so happy and it was like...fireworks!
What does this mean???
It sounds to me like you're loosing interest in your current boyfriend. If you're are enjoying a kiss in a dream from a certain boy, that's a direct hint right there. You are only 19 years old. So if you feel like you aren't enjoying yourself or you feel like the relationship is nothing compared to how it was, end it before you can't. You shouldn't mess with someones feelings. If you're into someone more than the person you are with, you shouldn't be in a relationship. So, either figure out what you want and talk to him about it/try to work everything out, or go your separate ways. Best of luck in whatever you decide!
i need a new girlfreind what do i do?
You don't NEED a girl friend. Go out and have fun with your friends!
By the way, no girl is going to go out with a guy that NEEDS a girl friend this badly. You should WANT to be with the girl you like, not need to be...
my friend has changed and she wont talk to me am i losing her what can i do to get her back?
How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
Sometimes when you're in Middle School/High-School people change, friends that we're close stop being friends and go their separate ways. It's part of growing up and something that happens, as much as it sucks, it's part of life.
Was there anything to do for her to not talk to you? Was there a fight that happened or something? Or did she just up and stop talking to you all together one day? Get back to me with the answers, and I'll be able to help you out a little more. :o)
We both are in a relationship from 5-6 months, and I know he is my perfect guy, although he loves me a lot but keeps on telling that how can I look better and be better at everything, so is he satisfied with me? Does he want to be with me? and how can I become perfect for him, I really want to....
Sweetie, you shouldn't have to change yourself for a guy. There is no such thing as being "perfect"; everyone has their flaws and some thing they're embarrassed about. The best thing is to in brace those flaws and be proud of them! If your boy friend is telling you, you can look better and be better at everything, that's not being a good boy friend. He should be there for you, no matter what, especially if he's saying he loves you.
How do you feel when he's telling you that you could be better at something or you could look better. What goes though you mind when he's saying that, honestly?
You obviously want to be with this guy though, so I suggest talking to him about how you're feeling. Ask him if he's still attracted and satisfied with you, then go from there.
My life is full of complications. I'm female/19/married/alone.
I'm alone most of the time. I don't have any friends my husband is in the military and I moved here where he is stationed with him. Back at home, I was happy mostly when not at home. I'm more than 1000 miles away from "home" being even here my parents fighting and problems effect me. I tend to turn to alcohol. Sometimes I wish I had some other type of substance. My life here with my husband has been the best thing in my life but I still feel unhappy at times. I accuse him of checking other girls out, I have outbreaks, he's not the sweetest guy in the world but when he is it feels reassuring and nice. But at times he is mean and I feel like he doesn't appreciate me. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing this marriage by myself. I have no friends I don't trust anyone. Suicicide has came to my life many times. I have low self-esteem, I feel overweight, ugly, I compare myself with other girls 24/7. And there's one more thing but I don't feel comfortable sharing that. I don't feel comfortable sharing most these things but I don't know where else to turn to.
It sounds to me like you're kicking yourself in the butt for moving and leaving your life; what you know and who you know, behind you. I felt the same why when my Family and I moved four hours away from our home-town. We didn't know anyone, we didn't have any friends, nothing. We made it okay though, because we had the support of one another to help us through it. If you don't have the support from your Husband, what do you have? Your Husband is supposed to be there for you, your best friend, your soul mate. Have you tried talking to him about the issues you're facing? If not, do it. He is your Husband, he should be the most understanding person for you. Talk to him, tell him everything, explain to him about how you've been thinking about suicide, how un-happy you are, etc. Have a good talk about everything,then go from there.
About you not feeling pretty and comparing yourself to other girls 24/4, you're not the only one. I can assure you, even these "perfect" girls have flaws. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should have to have perfect skin or be a size 0 to look beautiful. EVERYONE is beautiful, and it takes someone even more beautiful to realize just how gorgeous that one special person is.
If you feel the need share more of your story, just in-box me. I would love to help you out more!
I have a headache earache sore throat dizziness and each time I move my head it hurts and I am really tired this same thing happens every month. wat is wrong with me ?
Do you happen to be a girl? And does this seem to happen while you're on your period or before/after?
Hi, i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months now, and we're very serious. We've talked about marriage and living together forever, and i've never been so sure about being with someone. We may be young but i know for a fact that i could be with him forever.
Anyways, my problem is, my two worst enemies are both his most obsessive ex girlfriends. multiple times have i caught him still talking/flirting with other girls including them, but also not on just his part, they're also the ones who engage. it's been months since something like this has happened, but recently when i was away he was at a party and one of the girls happened to be there. rumors started to spread and there was a bunch of he said she said. but now i know for a fact that he was talking to her and offering her a ride home and trying to hang out with the other girl as well. i told him the last time something like this happened that this time, we were over and there was nothing he could do to stop it. but when we were talking about it, after he picked me up from work, i told him we were over and i was going to get his stuff so he could take it back. but he chased after me and grabbed a hold of me and told me how much i meant to him and he literally couldnt live without me. he was bawling his eyes out and said earlier that day when i texted him and told him we were over and that i didnt even want to see him that he sat down at work and cried his eyes out. i've never seen him so upset before, i didn't know what to do. so i just decided to lay it off for now. but i feel like im betraying myself and im disappointed that i couldnt follow through on my word..
sorry if this is too long, i just want to know what anyone else would do in this sort of situation if they truly love someone as much as i love him...and if you think i'm making the right decision by staying with him. thank you very much for any replies, its greatly appreciated
First of all, how old are you? That would help out a lot, too.
Honestly, from what you're telling me about your boyfriend, he doesn't sound like he's being a good one. You guys been together for 9 months and like you said, you're both very serious about the relationship; you want to get married and live together. While he's telling you this, he's out flirting/trying to hangout with his ex girl fiends. Now, don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with still being friends with your ex's. But, when you're flirting with them and trying to bring them home, when you already have a girlfriend who you "love are care about", there is something wrong. You don't mess around with peoples feelings, especially when you're so in love with him. I highly suggest having a serious talk to him. Let him know everything; tell him how you're feeling about him and his ex's, how he's always flirting with them and wanting to hangout with them. Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel and that you wish he would change. Explain to him that this is the last and final chance he will be getting, for he can't mess with your feeling anymore. You don't deserve what he is doing to you. There are many guys out there that is all about that one special girl, and when you find him, he won't be doing what this guy is doing to you, he'll be treating you like a Princess...and that's what you need.
EDIT: Since you gave him so many chances, he should defiantly know what he should/can't do. He should respect the fact that you don't want him around those two girls, and if he doesn't, you're better off without him. :o)