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new girlfreind
i need a new girlfreind what do i do?
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You don't NEED a girl friend. Go out and have fun with your friends!
By the way, no girl is going to go out with a guy that NEEDS a girl friend this badly. You should WANT to be with the girl you like, not need to be...
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you need a new girlfriend...?? or you want one??
Ok i'm just gonna say it. FYI it will be harsh. NO girl is ever going to want to be with a guy because he needs one and is desperate for one.. Girls want to be with guys who care about the girl. Who loves her and WANTS to be with her. If you feel like you NEED a girlfriend, then you're not going to get a worthy girlfriend.
The best relationships are the ones that happen naturally. Don't force it. Don't force yourself to look for a girl or force yourself to be in love.. because thats just a fake relationship. If you want a real good girlfriend, you need to be honest with yourself. Do you really like her? or are you just forcing the relationship to work, even though you have no interest in her?
I made this mistake with my first boyfriend. I was 16 and I felt like I NEEDED a boyfriend. All my friends had one and I felt like I was missing out. So I was desperate and looked for a guy. I found one and forced the relationship to work for 6 months. After that, I realized I didn't need a guy to make me happy. I wasn't happy. I didn't like him and had no interest in him. The only reason I dated him was because I felt like I needed a boyfriend... which isn't right.
So here's what you should do. Stop thinking you NEED a girlfriend.. you don't need a girlfriend. Its okay to want one. Just be yourself. Be social and nice to girls. Let them come to you and if its mean't to be, then it will happen. Don't force it.
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