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Dreaming about someone else
19/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years and haven't had many problems at all. But just a few days ago, we got into an argument about how I feel he doesn't really care for me the same anymore.
That night, I had a dream that we were still dating, but he had taken me to the mall so I could see an old friend. In my dream I was sad and had really been missing him, so I went up and gave him a big hug and we started talking and it was wonderful, and then I woke up.
Then yesterday night, I was with my boyfriend and we started to kiss a little, and then he told me to leave. It made me really mad. When I got home I didn't even talk to him.
But then when I fell asleep I had another dream about the same guy from the other night. This time we were alone, and he had just gotten home from this big trip and I hugged him and then he kissed me. The weird part was, I liked it. I liked it more than I like my boyfriend kissing me. In my dream I was so happy and it was like...fireworks!
What does this mean???
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I think if your boyfriend doesn't care and seems less "interested", then it's time to move on. Your dream might be telling you something. You should move on. There is a quote, I don't know if you have heard of it before, but it is.... "If you love two people, choose the second person, because if you really loved the first one, you would'nt have fell for the second one. Hope that helped a little bit.
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You are bored and unsatisfied in your current relationship and are dreaming of what you want and what you could have.
Honestly, Are you really happy with your boyfriend? This is obviously the key question, From the sound of it you are wanting more of out a relationship. Dreams often mean something and dreams are our subconscious telling us something. If you want more then you need to seek more and whether that is too leave your relationship that is up too you.
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It sounds to me like you're loosing interest in your current boyfriend. If you're are enjoying a kiss in a dream from a certain boy, that's a direct hint right there. You are only 19 years old. So if you feel like you aren't enjoying yourself or you feel like the relationship is nothing compared to how it was, end it before you can't. You shouldn't mess with someones feelings. If you're into someone more than the person you are with, you shouldn't be in a relationship. So, either figure out what you want and talk to him about it/try to work everything out, or go your separate ways. Best of luck in whatever you decide!
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