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My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months we are both 15 when we are making out he gets an erection and he gets really embarrassed and he tries to cover it up i haven't said anything i'm not sure if i should he seems to get nervous around me for awhile now he's been getting erections a lot and he gets embarrassed about it but that's pretty normal for guys his age isn't it? how do i make him less embarrassed?

As he is growing up, his horymones change. You understand why he ges an erection right? He is very attracted to you. During this time, maybe you want to tke things a little slower, until everything is under control with him. There is no way to stop erections. If you confront him about it, I'm pretty sure he will become even more embarrassed. Why don't you ask him if he is okay or if he wants to take things slower. There isn't much you can do since it is his body, and he is changing( growing up). For now you might have to just deal with it, but you should know he really likes you.

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I have a grandson we have guardianship on him,he refuses to help around the house,disrespetiful,and has a lot of anger at everybody.we have tried to help him but he doesnt want it.We have put him in 2 places that said they can help him then they call us and say come get him we cant do anything with him.I need help please please please im at my wits end.he is 15.

Did you ever try talking to him one on one. Teenagers need guidance, and love. You should just do something out of the ordinary, and take him on a vacation possibly to somewhere he likes. Ask him how he feels, or what he wants to do. As you are forming a better bond, ask him how he is feeling about the way he has been acting, and if he could possibly help out a little more around the house. Then confront him gently about his "anger issues" ask him what it is that makes him upset and angry....

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My sink isn't bad at all compared to some people, but I do have a few pimples and I wish my skin was clearer. I feel like everyone stares at one of my zits when I talk to them. I'm 13 and a girl so it's cause of my age I get them but not all of my friends have pimples. How can I get clear skin, quickly and easily. Easy facials, soaps, creams, home concoctions. Anything! And I do wash my face with a special skin product but I guess it's not working! Please help :)

If nothing seems to be working, I would see a deremtologist. That's what I did, and they gave me a prescription, that has been working very well. Also drink plenty of water.(:

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I can't really say anything too negative about my life. I just don't want to be here honestly. Don't see a point. Please, i don't need anyone advising me that pushing through life is worth it. it's not. and no relgious comments either. thanks.

Honestly, I've felt the same exact way. I've tried before, and Im still here. I learned that I deserve to be here, for a reason. After reading multiple stories about suicide deaths and attempts, I realized that there are other people out there exactly like me. Whatever you are going through isn't worth killing yourself. There are people out there who care about you, even if you don't know it. Are'nt there things you want to do in life, follow any of your dreams/passions? Get married? Go to college? Get a good career? Just please think about it. Never loose hope.

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19/f

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years and haven't had many problems at all. But just a few days ago, we got into an argument about how I feel he doesn't really care for me the same anymore.

That night, I had a dream that we were still dating, but he had taken me to the mall so I could see an old friend. In my dream I was sad and had really been missing him, so I went up and gave him a big hug and we started talking and it was wonderful, and then I woke up.

Then yesterday night, I was with my boyfriend and we started to kiss a little, and then he told me to leave. It made me really mad. When I got home I didn't even talk to him.

But then when I fell asleep I had another dream about the same guy from the other night. This time we were alone, and he had just gotten home from this big trip and I hugged him and then he kissed me. The weird part was, I liked it. I liked it more than I like my boyfriend kissing me. In my dream I was so happy and it was like...fireworks!

What does this mean???

I think if your boyfriend doesn't care and seems less "interested", then it's time to move on. Your dream might be telling you something. You should move on. There is a quote, I don't know if you have heard of it before, but it is.... "If you love two people, choose the second person, because if you really loved the first one, you would'nt have fell for the second one. Hope that helped a little bit.

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hey i'm the 12 year old girl with the 16 year old bf. alot my friends have really older boy friends.and they've had sex before. i'm really not sure what i should do? my friends are always talking abuot how they had sex. sometimes they would ask me if i've had sex with my bf and they know i'll say no. should i have sex with my bf?

You should never feel pressured to do anything that you aren't comfortable with. 12 is pretty young to even be thinking about having sex. If your bf pressures you to do it, you should just leave him. Use your head and make smart choices.

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