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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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can you skip a period an not be pregant ?

Yes, you most certainly can.

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I am a 35 year old man and i need new ways to mausterbait. HELP

Hahahaha. Google.com should be your best friend!

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My boyfriend fingered me a couple nights ago,and my cherry popped. I stopped bleeding by the next day. But now today [two days later] theres more blood. I'm wondering if this is normal, or maybe my cherry didn't pop and something went wrong. Is this possible?

PS I know it's not from my period.

If it's for sure not your period and you keep on bleeding, I suggest going to see your doctor.

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Okay, I'm 19 and I haven't had sex yet.
ALL Of my friends have even ones that are like 14.
I was waiting for the right person, and now I do have the right person but he's 17 and I'm waiting till he is 18 so I won't go to jail.
Am I like the only 19 year old virgin?

No, you aren't the only 19 year old virgin and you aren't a freak. A lot of people your age haven't even had their first kiss yet, let along lose their virginity. There's nothing wrong with you, hun. At least you're smart and waiting for the right person, which all people should be doing, instead of hopping into bed with random people.

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im 15 and got fingered by a lad on tuesday and ever since then i have been bleeding. I am really worried,when will the bleeding stop and what caused the bleeding.

You're probably bleeding because he ripped your Hymen; which is nothing to worry about 'cause this happens to most girls. If you're still bleeding after a day or two, I suggest going to see your doctor. If you aren't bleeding, as of right now, you're fine and you have nothing to worried about.

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Ok, so I think my hymen might have broken, but I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14, and sex seems like a scary thing to me. I think it might have broken while putting a tampon in. Later this month, I have a doctors appt, for kidney stones, and they have to go up inside me. I'm worried that if it really did break, they'll tell my mom. She would freak out. I don't think she'd believe that I've never had sex. Do you know maybe what I could do? Like, what I could maybe tell her?

Even if the doctor would find out that your hymen is broken there is nothing they can do about it. (They won't even say anything in the first place 'cause their looking for kidney stones, not a broken Hymen. They won't tell your mother anything if you don't want her knowing, they aren't allowed. So, you're on the safe side and you have nothing to worry about.

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im 15 and got fingered by a lad on tuesday and ever since then i have been bleeding. I am really worried,when will the bleeding stop and what caused the bleeding.

You're probably bleeding because he ripped your Hymen; which is nothing to worry about 'cause this happens to most girls. If you're still bleeding after a day or two, I suggest going to see your doctor. If you aren't bleeding, as of right now, you're fine and you have nothing to worried about.

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How far down is my cherry inside my vagina and how can i pop it myself before i do it?

It depends on the girl, since every girl is different your "cherry" is going to be in different spots. Most people can pop their cherry by fingering theirselfs, riding a bike or even a horse.

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ok you know how you have hair like in your butt, or like...in the middle between your vagina, and butt. well how do you shave that hair?

can you shave it or do you hafe to wax it?
sorry if this is nasty..i just need to know
thanks

If you want to shave it, you can. If you'd rather wax it, then go ahead. I suggest shaving though, it's a lot lest painful ;).

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I'm so sorry if this is nasty, but when I pee, my vagina will have a smell. and i don't want my vagina to have a smell, can i clean it with soap, besides using a douche. because i don't think my mom will let me use one of those, but i don't know.

anything i can do?
thnx

Depending on your age, it could just be because you're changing so much (if you're a teenage.) Just wash a lot and if you still aren't comfortable with the smell, I suggest going to see your doctor about it.

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I've been taking the pill for 2 yrs now. I just skipped a period. Does this mean i have to jump to the conclusion that i am pregnant?

No, you don't have to jump to that right away. Maybe wait awhile and see if you get it, if not then I suggest going to see your doctor.

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Alright, I have a question about Telekinesis. I've been on many sites, and they have all said, everyone is born with it, just don't know how to develop it. Well, I found a site that tells you how to benf spoons/forks. Move things, make things lift, you just need to believe, and have practice, etc. Well, do you think this is "playing with fire" just like the Ouija Board, and "Light as a feather, stiff as a board" ?

Please answer this.
thankyou!

I don't believe in ANY of that stuff, but that's just me. If YOU find it cool and it's something you're interested in, then give it a shot.

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when a girl is being felt up, first of all.
how do the guy and girl sit or stand.
what does the girl have to wear.
and what does the girl do while she's being felt up.

If you have to ask all these questions, you shouldn't get felt up in the first place.

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Is it true that when you smoke a cigarette you get a "buzz"? Is it like a buzz you would get from drinking or what?

Also how many would you have to smoke to get it?

If you don't smoke, yeah you'll get a buzz, but only your first couple of cigarettes. Once you get used to them you won't get a "buzz" anymore.

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so im 14 and have done stuff with the boyfriends that i have had. i dont mean sex. i mean like touching and kissing and stuff liek that. but there is this one guy that i like a lot ad he likes me back today i went to his house and we were making out on his bed and he wanted to have sex with me. i said no becuse i dont want to lose it! but there was something inside of me that was like just do it! but i didnt. and he said its okay if i dont want to we can just do other stuff anf hang out. but the prob is that i want to do stuff with him but im thick and im real self conces about my body i mean he says theres nothing wrong with me at all but im soo scared that im fat or my legs are too big or my boobs are saggie beacuse thay are bigg. but he says he likes me just that was i am.
i was wondering do you have any way i can get over feeling so self conces and do you think i should have sex with him or not? please answer bak.

If you're asking me if you should have sex with him, you obviously aren't too sure about it. When you're 100% ready, you know, and you don't have to ask other people if you should or shouldn't. I suggest waiting until the right guy, 'cause this guy doesn't seem like it. You're still young and you have all the time in the world. Wait for the guy you're 100% comfortable with. When it is the right guy, you won't be worrying about how fat your legs are or how weird your boobs may look, he'll love you for you. He won't want to have sex because "it's the cool thing to do now-a-days," he'll want to have sex because he LOVES you. I suggest just waiting, hun. Like I said, you have all the time in the world for guys and sex. They can wait.

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so my girlfriend went on a long 3 week trip and came back and we spent time for one day just hangin out then a week passed and she ended up tellin me that she had made out with this guy and that she was soo sorry. i forgave her and i really like her what should i do so were not on the rocks anymore?

I don't think YOU should be doing anything. It's your girlfriend who cheated on you, not the other way around. Therefore, she should be the one making it up to you, not you making it up to her. I suggest just talking to her about this and explain to her how you're feeling. Ask her why she made out with this guy while she was away - was it something you did? Is she not happy with you anymore? Just ask her everything that is on your mind. If she does this to you again; once a cheater always a cheater. I wouldn't take her back. Believe me, you can do a lot better and there's a lot better girls out there.

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do you think im bi or lesbian??
everytime i see girls kiss, or i see pictures, of them having sex, i get turned on.
but when i see a guy and a girl, i just dont care..
i've always imagined making out with a girl and i loved it.but i have madeout with a girl before, and i liked it alot, but i like guys too, so i don't know.

what do you think

Depending on how old you are, you're probably just confused. A lot of girls go through this especially in their pre-teens. If you like kissing girls MORE than you like kissing boys, than you are probably a lesbian. If you feel the same way for both girls and boys than you're probably just confused, and once you get older you'll figure out which sex you do like more. Just take your time and follow your heart.

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do you think i'm under-weight? well i'm 13, and i'm 5'2 and i weigh 92 pounds. but i think i'm fat. and everyone tells me i'm not fat.
but see, i have a few stretchmarks on my thighs, and thats what makes me feel like i'm fat. and my hips look really big when i put a bathing suit on.
and my calfs/legs are skinny. do you think i just have big hips or something? and if i do, is there any way i can make them smaller, cause i hate the way i look.

sorry for this being so long.

Obviously you aren't even CLOSE to being over-weight. If anything, you're under-weight. But, I do believe for your height and age you're around the right weight. I wouldn't worry about loosing any weight, I'm sure you're good the way you are, just be happy with yourself and how you look.

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When it feels like you peed in your pants, or like when it feels "gooey" down there, like white stuff in your underwear, does that mean you got turned on?
And when like a guy touches you, or grabs your butt or something, and your belly hurts, does that mean you got butterflies, or he turned you on? Sorry if this is gross..

If a boy is doing something to you that is turning you on, yes, there will be "gooey" stuff down there on your underwear. If no one is turning you on and you're still getting that "gooey" stuff, it's just discharge and it's normal.

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ok i have a question, i dont know if it'll make sense but like, when i'm talking to my boyfriend..and we get into a fight, even if he just like raises his voice, or gets mad at something, well..my chest will hurt for a min. then stop, what do you think this means?

Since I'm not a doctor, I wouldn't know. It could be because you're getting mad that he's yelling at you. If this keeps happening and/or it gets worse, then I suggest going to your doctor to get checked out.

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