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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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advice

14/f
is it true that if you dye your hair while on your period that your hair turns green or yellow or whatever?

I've never heard that myth before but I've dyed my hair on my period before and my hair isn't green so no worries! :)

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I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

Chicken.

Mashed Potatos.

Beans.

Salad.

Steak.

Cheeseburgers.

Peaches.

Butter Noodles.

Rolls.

Pizza.

Tacos.

Burritos.

Nachos.

I'm pretty much a pig and love all food :)

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i get discharge, and i can feel it - im not bothered by it but now I'm getting LOADS, and I mean sooo much, today i thought i was peeing and when i went to check, it was just discharge.
I havnt started my period yet but i was wondering do you think it will happen soon because

-im getting loads of discharge - more than usual
- boobs are growing, nipples are getting a bit redish
- a bit more oily skin.

Help People.Ha.!

Don't worry it's completely normal.
It's just annoying :)
I suggest wearing panty liners, they are just like miniture pads that you can barely feel.

Also, be sure to carry around like one or two pads with you so when you do start your period you arn't stuck somewhere without one. (I'd use a pad for when you're first getting your period, then later on use tampons)

Hope I helped!

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How do I become more trustworthy and truthful without appearing fake?

Time.

Basically if you don't do anything to lose anyone's trust, and you are truely sincere to everyone then people will trust you and know you are truthful.

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Im 5'1 and i weigh 108. im really skinny and known as skinny. but i see fat on my stomich. i do pushups and situps everynight but i need this fat off my stomich! i eat really bad also. i eat wtvr i want wenever! i no this is bad! wat kind of diet should i go on? i dont wanna become anerxic but i wanna loose this fat! any fitness/exercise ideas?

I have a friend that is like you.
She's so tiny but she has the little 'pouch' on her stomach (which noone even notices but her.)
And she tried doing situps, and running, and everything she could possibly do, but it wouldn't go away.

It wouldn't go away because that is how her body is built. It's not fat, it's just her shape and I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that's how you are too. You are really skinny so obviously it can't be fat. Mistaking skin for fat is common when you pinch your stomach too.

If it's not really noticable then I'd say ignore and embrace and love your body for what it is. Some girls are born with bodies that are always going to be overweight so don't take it for granted.

If this wasn't what you were looking for, then sorry. The best thing to do if you're still not convinced is go online and look for a healthy diet or get one out of a magazine like seventeen. Also continue doing situps everynight.

Goodluck -- Hope I helped!

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I just bought new shoes for my choir program (we're going to New York) and my director told us today that our shoes are not allowed to clunk, mine do. Is there anyway to make the heels not make noises, or am i totally screwed and need to go buy new shoes?

Buy something to put under your shoes, most likely a fabric because rubber would make squeky or sticky sounds if you're walking on wood or anything but carpet. I tried to google it for you but I couldn't find anything, sorry. I suggest going to a shoe store and asking someone who works there for suggestions or products to use.

Goodluck -- Hope I helped!

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is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if a guy cums while hes in a pool, hot tub, or bath tub while hes with you?

Yes, unforetunately.

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If a girl hits u all the time does that mean she likes u. and if it does should i ask her out

If she's flirty around you all the time, yes. Ask her out :)

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"i try so hard can't get away from misery...it ain't my fault cause i try to get away from____... UNTIL THEN.."

what song is this?
someone else sings it too

I tried -- Bone Thugs N Harmony ft. Akon

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I want to try Nair, the hair removal thing.
I don't want to buy the bikini line one, so I just want to but the plain Nair lotion. Can I use it on my bikini line? I mean, it says you can use this one anywhere, so why do they still make a bikini line one?
Thanks!

I'm guessing just to make it easier if you're buying it specifically for your bikini line.
I've used that stuff before so it should be fine.

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How many pounds are in a pant size?

For instance lets say a person weight 140 pounds and was a size 9 and they wanted to drop to a size 6 or whatever the next size down is, how many pounds would one have to loose.

I'm a size 2 currently but would like to gain a size.

It actually depends on the store because sometimes sizes run small, or sometimes they run large.

Also, sizes arn't based on pounds. It's based on height, shape, size, just everything. Two people with different weights could wear the same size.

Here is the size chart for Hollister to give you an idea -- http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/sizechart2.html?skuDept=42

If you're planning on trying to gain a size then gain weight in muscle. Muscle weighs more then body fat and would be a healthier way to go up a size then just trying to gain weight in general.

Good luck -- Hope I helped!


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Several times a day I feel something big moving in my abdomen just under my waist line on one side from the center toward the back. I've never had such a thing before. What's going on?

Go see a doctor asap.
Go to the doctor in the first couple days you see anything out of the ordinary because if you don't, it might progress into something bigger that could be dangerous.

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I have recently read the book, Lord of the Kill. In it, it stated that zoo's are not all good and nice as they may seem. Have you ever wondered, as you stared into the cages of the baby animals, "well, where are the older ones?" I bet you haven't. If you go to this website and read the first three paragraphs http://animalliberationfront.com/Practical/Entertainment/OldZooAnimals.htm , that will explain where those old animals went to. I'm telling you this because I want the public to be informed about it. Also, I've been thinking about trying to start a sanctuary for the old animals, so they dont get dumped into hunting yards or anything. What do you guys think?

Well I don't know where you go to the zoo, but I always remembered seeing all different ages. They wouldn't dump animals on the side of an interstate just because they are old. If they didn't have room for them or something like that, they would probably put them back into the wild.

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My little sister has bubble gum in her hair! How do I get it out? Help...soap and water doesn't work...

Individually removes each hair off the piece of gum. It takes forever but it should work.

If the gum is completely stuck though the other way to get it out would be cutting it out carefully, sorry =/

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i juts became one and i dont knwo how to rate questions, haha.


thanks in advance :]

Each question should have three smileys next to it. Simple click on the rating you want.

Frown: 1
Straight: 2
Smile: 3

And also after you answer a question it says..

"Since you are a moderator, you can rate this question: (smileys here)"

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My mom's calling me fat and I`m 5'8 and I`m 134. is that bad? =[ it gets me down. please help. I didn't think i was that bad.

http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmi-m.htm

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What is a good lanuage to take in high school that isn't like impossible to learn.
I DON'T want to take spanish though, because everyone takes that.

I was going to say spanish when I first starting reading this lol because it would be the best but I'd say the next best one would be French. Have fun! :]

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i really want to eat this oh so delicious brownie my mother bought from ralphs but im on a diet.. brownies have alot of claroes and carbs! im scared and im cravin for it.

Eat half of it.

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Odd question, what are some recently popular shoes (ones that can be worn every day/with jeans.)?

Those shoes that you get from Rite Aid.
Slips on that come in tan, blue, and black.
They are really cute and cheap! Like 5 dollars.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v667/kellyspixxx/PICT0963.jpg

Sorry thats the best picture I could find.

Also here are other types of popular shoes:

http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j175/MikeeE_XX/VANS.jpg

http://i178.photobucket.com/albums/w265/stephanietimberlake/CUTE.jpg

http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e195/rocker_333_star/balletflats2.jpg



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A couple weeks ago Itunes prompted me to update to the newest version, so I did. Now all of a sudden none of my videos work in Itunes! They all worked before I updated. Has this happened to anybody else? I'm not too computer savy and when I went to the Itunes support site, I found a place where it talked about what to do if videos wouldn't play, but none of it worked. I also haven't messed with any of the settings in Itunes, they are all still the same as when the videos played fine for me. Any ideas? Thanks

The best thing to do is call the company, they can help you step by step over the phone.
Good luck :]

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