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wht do you do if your bff gets mad at you becuz you think a guy she is freinds with is ugly and she gets mad at you and wont talk to you? im really sry and i didnt mean wht i said and she wont forgive me and i really dont want to get into another fight with her again and i wish she would talk to me.wht do i do?

-prudy mcprude pants
14/female

give her a little time and let her think.
she will talk to you in the chapel tomorrow.

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okay, so i know this is like completely weird. but i wnated a guys opinion on this. so please, only guys answer. or girls if you have experiance with this. but only if you have experiance. okay so all my boyfriend and i have done is make-out. and lately his said that he wants to finger me. but i dont really shave off my pubic hair and i wanna know if he'll think thats weird or disgusting. do most guys care about if a girl shaves or not? or do they absolutely hate it when they dont? HELP!!!
thankss
xoxoxo

most guys prefer it completely shaved.
or barely no hair at all.
but its your choice because its your body.
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anyone know where you can get clear straps? If you buy it alone and need to put it on your dress, how do you do it without damaging it?

you can buy clear straps at any kind of department store such as walmart or target.
i recently bought some for a play i was in so i am positive that they have them.
if you have a convertible bra [one that can be strapless or with straps--straps are detachable],then thats what you hook it on to.
if you dont have one,the strapless bra should have the little tabs that that straps hook up to.
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i just started watching the show "scrubs" when i was on vacation in florida.. but i dont know what channel it is on where i live (long island, NY)

so if anyone lives here and knows what channel its on, it would be appreciated.. thanks.

NBC &
Comedy Central.

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please answer my question me and my bf need to know

oral means mouth.
so its sex using the mouth.
so examples are blow jobs & head.[for guys]
for girls its eating out.
i cant really tell you how to on this site but you can google how to if you dont know.
fyi-thats 3rd base.
sorry if i wasnt much help but i cant tell you much on this site.
good luck. :]

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why dont u namje your byfriend sex as a nickname?

because id rather call him loser.
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but i know this one kid and his name is slug and he is the WEIRDEST KID EVER.
he takes baths in tubs of pudding and then goes streaking through his neighborhood painted like babybop from barney.
he also plays hockey and makes weird faces at the camera.
lol j/k :] lmao tyler you are such a weirdo.

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i have been fingered 2 times and ate out 2 times im i still a virgin?

yess.
until you actually have sex you are.
oral sex doesnt count.
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I want the jordans retro 3 the black, red, and white ones. Are they coming out tomorow or next month??

http://23retroshoe.com/?xtr=google-jordan3&gclid=CLuF_fWixYoCFQGPWAodtkTwlA

that site deffinatly has them.
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i wanna have a really big butt! i mean huge, so what kind of foods should i eat that'll make only my butt grow but not any other parts of my body and what kind of exercises please help i am kinda desperate here! thanx

i asked my mom about this same thing.
she used to be an exercise teacher so she told me an exercise i could do.
since your butt muscles are some of the fastest growing muscles,it wont take long and it wont take alot of work.
what you do is stand with your feet together.then,still standing straight up,lift one of your legs BACKWARDS,and make sure its still straight.
then while you are doing this,squeeze your butt muscles.
good luck.
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16/F
When someone has a boyfriend, how long should it be before they begin to "french kiss"? My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month, maybe a little more. The other night, when he was dropping me off, he began to kiss me. Now, don't get me wrong, I am fine with a quick peck on the lips. But he opened up my mouth! I felt a little uncomfortable, but I let it go... until he started to use his tongue! I told him he was going WAY too fast. Did I do the right thing?

deffinatley---
you did the right thing.
you told him what you were comfortable and that was the right thing to do.
alot of girls arent brave enough to tell their boyfriends when is too far.
so they get pulled into doing things they dont want to.
just go at whatever pace you are comfortable with,and your boyfriend should be fine with it.
it depends on the person how fast they want to go.it could be alot longer than you have been going out with your boyfriend,so dont worry about it.
good luck.
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um..what's the deal with ripped jeans? I thought people wanted to wear something in style, not out of style! and it doesn't make you look tough or cool, it makes you look poor and home less!

i totally agree.
i think they make you look grungy and like you cant afford a nice pair of jeans.
jeans never go out of style---unless they are ripped.its an ugly fashion flashback.
i think you can look really nice if you wear simple and nice looking jeans.and i dont think it makes you a nerd either.it just makes you look like you have style & taste.
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To make that funny voice, do you have to breathe in helium(which is just from balloons bought in the store already) or can you just buy balloons in a bag fromt he dollar store, blow air into it with your mouth, then swallow it, and have that funny voice?

it has to be helium or else you wont get the funny voice.otherwise,its just like swallowing air if swallow your breath.but be careful because me & my friends do that all the time,and the first time we did it we all got sick.lol.good luck.:]

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i'm gonna dye my hair black (it's dark brown right now) does anybody recommend a certain brand/shade of dye that looks pretty and won't look gross? thanks!

i agree with the columnist below me.
i used 100% color from garnier when i dyed my hair black [naturally dark brown like yours].
it works very well and the color comes out great.
but just a word of advice--it would probably be better to try a semi-permenant color first to see if you like the color.because when i first dyed mine black [thats how it is now] i hated it.now im getting used to it.and also,it last for a very long time.i dyed mine in september and its still black.
good luck.=]

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what are those pictures called where there are two pictures in one. i just saw one in an ad and it was of an old woman and an young woman. do you know what these are called?

illusions.=]

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I've been having a hard time trying to find my jar of dirt.How would i be able to find it? How do I look for it?

well from my past experiences,
you have to first go outside and tunnel your way to china.
then eat a gallon of cottage cheese and then take a bath with your pet turtle.
if this doest work,see a doctor IMMEDIATLY!

lol i love you gianna.
youre the best.
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17 female

my name is Rachel and my boyfriend roosevelt and i have only been going out for about 3 days and on the first day we started to go out he asked me if he could kiss me and i told him that it would be my first kiss and i would have to think about it first the thing is iam kind of nervous becouse he wants to french kiss me and i've never kissed a boy before much less french kissed a boy and i don't think iam ready since i've only been going out with him for 3 days and i want to know how do i know when iam read to kiss a boy?

dont worry about it.
it comes naturally,believe me.
ive done it a million times,and to be honest, my first time i was so nervous i could barely stand!
but then it was totally worth it.
i deffinatly think you are ready.
so good luck & have fun!

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you konw that song ghetto super star, that is what you are. well who sings that?? i know most of you will be like GOOGLE THE LYRICS. and trust me, i have but nothing has came up.

its by mya.
:D

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