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I googled and found this:

"If you have set up a second eco sector or you have a fellow player who wants to do business with you, you can set up a trade route between your two sectors or between his settlement and your own. All you have to do is to ensure that a Marketplace is present at both locations. Goods can then be transported between the two Marketplaces."

http://www.bluebyte.net/settlers4/support/game_faq.asp

So I'm guessing from that information that you need to build another marketplace... So you have one where you are sending from, and one where you are sending to.

Hope this does the trick. Have fun!

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This isn't asking for advice, but...

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Yes


However, considering that the average age of the typical Advicenators user is probably around 14 or 15, any statistics you get from this question will be very one-sided.

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#1: You are overreacting. As others have mentioned, it would be pretty unusual for him to not be interested in seeing naked women. Guys are very visual, and it's just the way things are. Try to put a positive spin on this... Be glad you found out he is interested in naked women (instead of something like naked men), so you know he's a typical, healthy teenaged boy.


#2: From what I understand, you went further with him than you should have, and then felt guilty about it and stopped. There's nothing wrong with changing your mind if you feel that you are doing something wrong. But he may not understand.

You should tell him the truth... Not just that you believe God doesn't want you to, but that you made a mistake by doing it in the first place. Let him know it's your fault for doing something you felt you shouldn't have, and then apologize and ask his forgiveness! Not just for doing it in the first place, but for tempting him into it, too. If you believe it's wrong for you, then it's wrong for him, and if you tempted him into it, you need to apologize and ask his forgiveness for that. And don't forget to ask God's Forgiveness for that too.


#3: It's his life. If he chooses to do this, and you don't want to be with him because of it, you may choose to leave. But be aware, probably 95% of all normal guys out there like looking at naked women, and will do so given the opportunity. The internet presents plenty of opportunity. So chances are, any other boyfriend you get is probably looking at the same stuff... If he says he isn't, he's probably lying.


#4: "...why did God create man to be pigs and women to be their food?"

That statement is unfair and one-sided. I know plenty of women who treat men like "their food" by using them to get what they want, including money and material things.

If you truly feel that way about men, you will be doing your boyfriend a favor by breaking up with him. He doesn't need to be with somebody who thinks he is a "pig", and you obviously don't need to be with somebody you think is a "pig". But good luck finding a straight "non-pig" if your definition of a "pig" is a guy who likes to look at naked women.

Besides, who tempted Adam into eating The Fruit and got him kicked out of Paradise, and into this world of sin in the first place?

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I realize that you say "please don't say SURGERY", but the fact is that those boobs are fake.

There is a certain look to many fake boobs, (And I have close family members who have fake boobs... I'm a very good judge of them. (No, I'm not one of them... Even if I liked the look of fake boobs, which I don't, I would never want them after seeing all the problems my family members had with them.)) But I am 100% sure that those in the picture are fake. Sorry.

Real boobs with weight to them are going to sag at least a little, because they are filled with fatty tissue. Boobs, like the ones in the picture, are hard and abnormally round because they are filled with bags of silicone or saline, not fatty tissue. It makes it easy to spot fakes when you know what to look for.

Unfortunately, boob jobs have become so common that people are starting to think that the fake look is what normal boobs can look like. It's not.

As far as helping your natural breasts... wear a bra at all times. It's easier said than done, but if you are typical of the users of this site, you are young... and if you start now, you can get used to it.

Don't sleep without a bra, don't lounge around without a bra, etc... A sports bra may be more comfortable for sleeping.

You can also do exercises that build your pectoral muscles, and that can help by offering a more solid support under your breasts, and giving them a bit of lift.

And you can achieve impressive cleavage naturally by finding yourself a bra called a "push-up" bra.

Good Luck.

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You need to step back and take a good look at the kinds of boyfriends you are picking. It sounds like you are picking the same type over and over again.

Perhaps you have a thing for "bad boys"? A lot of girls do, for some reason. If you do, then you should understand there is a good possibility you will be treated "badly" by "bad boys".

Try looking at guys who are the opposite of the ones you are picking now, and see how you do.

Sure, not every seeming "bad boy" will treat you badly, and not every seeming "nice guy" will treat you nicely, but statistically speaking, you have a much better chance of being treated nicely by a guy who outwardly treats others nicely.

I mean, if, in your experience, 9 out of 10 "bad boys" will treat you badly... Why take the chance?

So find a nice guy... And stay away from guys who are into "bad" things... Those will be far more likely to treat you badly. Bad things include; drugs, alcohol abuse, violent gangs, fighting, stealing, etc.

You will greatly improve your chances if you find a guy who isn't associated with any of those things.

Good Luck.

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I haven't played it, but doing a Google search, I found this question and answer:

Q: Where should I plant the agaves of the Mayans?
A: The agaves are growing only in the desert.

And here is a thread I found:

http://forums.ubi.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/8301057942/m/1351061164

...in which someone has the same problem. And the answer they receive is similar to what I found above:

"The agave farms need their working area to be on desert. You can have the buildings themselves on the surrounding grass though."

Hope this helps!

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You absolutely MUST crate train her!

No matter how old a dog is, if they mess in the house, they need to be crate trained. You also need to be taking her outside whenever she wakes up from sleep or a nap, right after she eats, and after she gets exercise.

At any rate, you need to start crate training right now.

This is a great site which just happens to be by a guy who trains German Shepherds, but this info works on ALL dogs, big and small.

http://www.leerburg.com/housebrk.htm

Here's another good section of that site with some general advice on other subjects:

http://www.leerburg.com/articles.htm

And a great Q & A on housebreaking:

http://www.leerburg.com/qahouse.htm

Get your dog a crate and read the first and last link especially.

If, after you read these, you have any specific questions, feel free to email me.

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I can't really give a good opinion based on that because she is practically whispering. She needs to sing more loudly, more confidently, and to project herself.

As it is, she sounds like there must be someone in the next room she really doesn't want to hear her singing. If so, she needs to try it again when there is nobody else home.

At any rate, if she wants to be in theater she has to get over her shyness. As mentioned by another, there is just no way around that. The best voice in the world is no help if the person is too shy to let it out. Alternately, confidence, personality, and voice lessons can overcome a mediocre voice.

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Look at it this way. Minimum wage in most states is $5.15 an hour. That's before taxes and social security are withheld. After those things are taken out, minimum wage is closer to $4.37 an hour, assuming about a 15% cut.

Now if dishes take you 10 minutes to do, and you get a dollar for doing them, that's equal to $6.00 an hour, before taxes. If you take taxes into account, it's more equal to the take-home pay of someone who makes almost $7.00 an hour. That's quite a bit more than minimum wage.

Your problem isn't that you aren't getting paid enough, it's that you aren't doing enough work to get paid for. If you can keep getting paid a dollar for 10 minutes of work, you're doing great. Find more stuff to do around the house.

Remember, other people are out there every day working 8 hours a day for less take-home pay per work-hour, and they are doing it just to be able to have food to eat and a roof over their head. At $4.37 take-home pay, they are only getting about 72 cents for every 10 minutes that they do dishes or whatever they have to do. That's 28% less than you get.

Just someting to think about.

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As others have mentioned, ant traps & baits work well. Though you need to buy the type of bait that works with your type of ants. Are your ants going for something sweet or something greasy? Sweet ants require different traps/baits than grease ants.

Also, in a pinch, Windex (or other ammonia based glass cleaners) seem to kill ants. Spraying that on their trail might discourage them for a while.

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"Pop Music" is short for Popular Music.

From Wikipedia: "...the genre also includes artists working in many styles such as (rock, hip hop, rhythm and blues (R&B), and country), making it a flexible category. It may also be referred to in some cases as soft rock or pop/rock."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pop_music

There is also a list there of various decades and examples of the "Pop Music" of those times.

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From you question I'm assuming that you may have heard that masturbation is a sin.

To the best of my knowledge, this is the scripture that many people point to in order to say that masturbation is a sin:

(Genesis 38:8 - 10) "And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled [it] on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also."

See, Onan's brother was dead, but Onan was supposed to marry his brother's widow and make her pregnant and the resulting baby would be raised as his brother's baby, not his. Some people translate these passages as saying that instead of making her pregnant, he masturbated, then got killed for it because he "spilled [it] on the ground" (his seed).

If you read it, it's pretty obvious that's not what happened because it first says "he went in unto his brother's wife". So basically, he had sex with his brother's wife, then pulled out at the last second in an effort not to make her pregnant. He didn't want to "donate" his seed to his dead brother, but he still went ahead and had sex with his brother's wife, you see?

It had nothing to do with masturbation. That's the way, I read it, anyway.

If, however, you are a Catholic, there may be some other reason why the Catholic Church thinks it's a sin. If they have a different reason, it might be from one of the exclusively Catholic doctrines.

The Catholic Church believes that the Bible is not the only authority. Their teachings include such documentation as Catechisms, and Papal Encyclicals (defined as "authoritative teaching instruments from the Vicar of Christ" (the Pope)) which have been written and added to throughout the years of the history of the Catholic Church.

Because of this, the Catholic Church has many teachings, beliefs, and traditions which are different from a Christian who believes the Holy Bible is the exclusive authority of Christianity.

Their belief that masturbation is a sin may come from one of these other authorities, rather than the Biblical scripture I quoted.

For more information about the differences between Catholicism and *exclusively* Bible-Based Christianity, see the following link:

http://www.russpickett.com/apolog/catindex.htm


EDIT: And to those answerers who believe I am incorrect, please provide the scriptures. I can't study it if you don't provide the exact scriptures from the Holy Bible.

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I notice you don't really mention what you do believe, nor do you mention what you don't like about Christianity.

Some people are taught that certain things are Christian, and because they don't like those things, they don't like Christianity. Some of those things, when examined against what the Bible actually says, end up not being Christian at all.

If you would like to write to me and let me know, what you do believe, and what you dislike about Christianity, maybe you can make a more informed decision, then you won't have to worry about pressure and such. My email is DangerWench@gmail.com

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This is hard to answer without knowing more information.

What age is your cat?
Is he new?
Was he doing fine and then started missing his litter box suddenly?
Has the brand of litter been changed?
Is the litter box new?
Has the litter box been moved?
How often is the litter box cleaned?
Are there other animals in the house?
Are there any recent changes in the household (new people, visitors, new pets)?
Have you changed his food?
Have you moved recently?
Has there been any other disruption to his everyday life?
Is he eating? Does he seem sick?
Is his stool firm or loose?

The only way you can fix it is to find out why it's happening, and there can be many reasons.

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I've seen that abbreviation used on some forums. When I have seen it used it means "Dear Husband".

DW = Dear Wife
DD = Dear Daughter
DS = Dear Son

I don't know if that's what it means when your sisters say it, but that's the only meaning I know of.

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Harassment is against the rules. File an abuse report:

http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php


People asking you non-advice questions or trying to chit-chat through the "ask a question" feature is against the rules. File an abuse report:

http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php


Spamming someone with the same questions over and over is against the rules. File an abuse report:

http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php


Include a link to the question they asked you in your abuse report, to speed up the process.

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"how do i get to know him?
and make him like me for me..
not my body?"

You mean besides a time machine and smarter choices? ;-)

Easy. Stop having sex with him. Tell him you have had a change of heart, and you don't believe you want to have any more sex until your wedding night. He will probably leave skid marks in his haste to flee.

But that's a good thing. That means you can be 100% sure he didn't really like you and that you were just a few convenient and easy body parts to him.

Now learn from this experience. If you want to be 100% sure a guy likes you for you, don't have sex with him. Tell him you are waiting. A guy who really loves YOU will wait for you (mine did!). My husband and I were 26 year old virgins on our wedding night. From your question, I'm assuming you're not a virgin anymore, but you can still choose to stop now and wait for the right man.

Think of it as the ultimate man test. If he will wait, he really loves you and you don't ever have to wonder about it like the other girls do. If he won't wait, you just avoided a heartache. You weed out the assholes in one easy step.

Good luck.

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Just be careful what you download, and use common sense. If you find a tempting game that's supposed to be 4 CDs in size, and it's a 180k executable file, most likely it's a virus.

So #1, you shouldn't download copyrighted material, as, aside from the legal ramification, most viruses are probably masked as tempting commodities, which are copyrighted.

And #2, run a virus scan on anything you download before you run it. That should help a lot. And run your virus scanner often to make sure you didn't miss anything.

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I believe you are thinking of either "Saludos Amigos"

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saludos_Amigos

Or it's sequal "The Three Caballeros".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Three_Caballeros

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Why do their ages bother you? You say they are good friends, but that's very obviously not true.

My father-in-law taught my husband something that may help you. He said, a friend is someone who is willing to die for you, and whom you are willing to die for. Everybody else is an acquaintance.

If you are not even willing to associate with these people because of their ages, you were definitely never their friend in the first place.

As for what to do about your acquaintances... It would be in their best interest if you went your own way. Someone who is willing to "kick em to the kerb" because their age isn't good enough, isn't someone who has their best interests at heart anyway.

Just something to think about.

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I'm DangerNerd's wife. We met on an internet personals site back in December, 1996. He flew across country to meet me for the first time in late February of 1997, and we were married a few weeks later. We've been together 9 years now. :-)

If you want to mail me, my email is DangerWench@gmail.com

Yes, I do sometimes copy and paste my own answers to answer different people's similar questions. I still personalize/edit them when necessary... but for instance, my advice about diet and exercise it going to be pretty much the same every time, and that's a very common subject for questions here... so there's no point in typing the same thing over and over and over again. ;-)

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Yes, hubby and I were both virgins on our wedding night, at the age of 26. Yes, we are both Christians, but we greatly dislike what "Christianity" (or "Churchianity") has come to represent in many people's minds these days... Hypocrisy, greed, pride... Things which the Bible says we are NOT supposed to do. We are supposed to be a good example, not a bad one. :-(

If you have a Christian acquaintance who is hitting you over the head with "Jesus will bring you peace and joy and happiness" tell them to listen to this:

http://www.dangernerd.com/kirkcameron.mp3

(It's 9 megs, so it may take a bit to download)

If you can't download MP3's for some reason, you can download the zip file.

http://www.dangernerd.com/kirkcameron.zip

If they are an actual preacher/pastor, this one is geared more towards them:

http://www.dangernerd.com/raycomfort.zip

Send them the link, or burn it to CD and give it to them, whatever it takes.

If they really listen to that, they will see how the Bible itself says the way they are annoying you is wrong. :-)

If you are a Christian, please listen to it, even if you aren't beating people over the head with Jesus. I promise you, it will give you a new perspective. It's totally awesome.

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I'm also fascinated by prophesy, and I do think we are living in an age where we are seeing many things come true that were prophesied 1,000's of years ago.

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There has been a lot of hubbub lately regarding my views on the differences between Catholicism and *exclusively* Bible-Based Christianity... Mostly due to my not making myself clear. I did have a big long explanation here, but this time I will opt for the KISS method (Keep It Simple, Stupid). Yes, the following is the simplified version. ;-)

The Catholic Church believes that the Bible is not the only authority. Their teachings include such documentation as Catechisms, and Papal Encyclicals (defined as "authoritative teaching instruments from the Vicar of Christ" (the Pope)) which have been written and added to throughout the years of the history of the Catholic Church.

Because of this, the Catholic Church has many teachings, beliefs, and traditions that are different from a Christian who believes the Holy Bible is the exclusive authority of Christianity.

A Catholic Christian believes in the Catholic doctrines, teachings, and traditions which include, but are *not exclusive to* the Holy Bible.

Most non-Catholic Christians believe the Holy Bible is the *exclusive* authority of Christianity... No other documents.

Much argument comes from this, as quite a few non-Catholic Christians (myself included) believe many of the man-made Catholic doctrines to be un-Christian and not corresponding with Biblical scripture. And obviously, Catholics disagree.

For more information about the differences between Catholicism and *exclusively* Bible-Based Christianity, see the following link:

Roman Catholic Doctrine vs. The Holy Bible

And a final note about that link... That e-book isn't written by Jack Chick, I have a lot of problems with Mr. Chick. Some of his tracts are great, and some of them are way "out there" if you know what I mean. I do not support Jack Chick. This e-book is written by Rick Jones, who was a Catholic for many years, not Chick.

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"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth." (2Timothy 3:1 - 7)

"And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring..." (Luke 21:25)

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