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is he using me?
so one night i got a little sexual with this one guy then the next night he asked me out and now were all sexual and all but when his freinds asks if were going out he says kinda and we always get sexual if he comes over i try and talk but its hard too so we get sexual instead its like awkward silence so its like a replacement for talking..
i dont want to break up with him..
so i guess my question is..
how do i get to know him?
and make him like me for me..
not my body?
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Most people get to know someone before they get sexual. That way they will know if the guy they are with is with them for who they are, or for sex. It's to late to change the choices you've already made [you two getting sexual] so the only thing you can do is stop doing it. If he asks why you don't want to do anything like that, tell him you don't feel comfortable doing anything with him if you guys aren't officially together. If/when you guys start dating, wait a little bit longer before doing anything. If he stays with you, you know he truely likes you. If he breaks up with you or doesn't go out with you at all, you know he wasn't worth it.
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go somewhere you wont "do it" like the mall or something so then you'll have to talk
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"how do i get to know him?
and make him like me for me..
not my body?"
You mean besides a time machine and smarter choices? ;-)
Easy. Stop having sex with him. Tell him you have had a change of heart, and you don't believe you want to have any more sex until your wedding night. He will probably leave skid marks in his haste to flee.
But that's a good thing. That means you can be 100% sure he didn't really like you and that you were just a few convenient and easy body parts to him.
Now learn from this experience. If you want to be 100% sure a guy likes you for you, don't have sex with him. Tell him you are waiting. A guy who really loves YOU will wait for you (mine did!). My husband and I were 26 year old virgins on our wedding night. From your question, I'm assuming you're not a virgin anymore, but you can still choose to stop now and wait for the right man.
Think of it as the ultimate man test. If he will wait, he really loves you and you don't ever have to wonder about it like the other girls do. If he won't wait, you just avoided a heartache. You weed out the assholes in one easy step.
Good luck.
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girl he doesnt LIKE you hes using you for sex hes like this girl will do what ever i ask her to do so why not?he probably brags about this to his freinds!!your aiming at this guys sexuall side not his emotional and that way hes gonna think youre a slut.stop sexing him and get to know him more or eles this realationship is never gonna work
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The way you do it is you sit him down and you make him listen!!
By any means necsisary. You make him realised that you're not just a piece for him to fondle or watever when he sees that its fit to.
Explain that you want to know more about him and that you want to sit and talk like humans and get to know each other. You tell him that you want it all or nothing.
Meaning he want to be with you as much as you do with him.
Theres nothing you can do to get him to like you, bbe yourself. And after all of that if he cant except that then hes not worth it believe me.
He should liek you for youre personality and youre body.
Which is also what i meant by if he want you hell have to have you all.
Hope i helped
Anthony
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