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ok well I have been talking to myslef since I was about 6 or 7 and I seriously feel like I'm talking to someone else. I ask myself questions and then give myself an answer all out loud. When I think these I can't come to a solution, but when I talk to myself out loud I feel like another person is talking to me. I find myself looking in magazines and saying out loud and pointing as if I'm giving another person a visual "I'm her."(on that I also find myself choosing who I am in a movie show anything even books... what could that mean) And then I sit in my room and I act out diffent things talking to myself and then talking as if I'm another person and I can get so into it that I get angry or upset I can even cry example: (I have done this) i say "I love you so much" then "I don't know if this will last so let's not kid ourselves and continue with this" then my throat starts to close up and I get so into i say more and more and start feeling the emotions one would feel if this were actaully happening and then I just keep on talking to myself. Is this normal? If not what is it? I'm 13

It isnt normal but try talking to a best friend (or if you dont have one, make one) that you can trsut. It sounds like your really emotional into this talking to yourself thing. Try to talk to her about it so you'll let out your feeling. Good Luck
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any cute or amazing pet names you've heard?
im so uncreative and me and my boyfriend are gonna give each other little nicknames,

*Sweetie Pie
*Hunny Bunny
*Cookie Lips
*Pumpkin Cheeks (lol)
*Sugar Pie


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Sorry if they sound a lil' cheesssy!! Lmao!!
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Okay i rly like this guys in school and well he flirts a little and i mean a little and were friends but hes RLY hawt! how can i get him to like me? what should i do? **ill rate 55's unless its mean!!! **

You can start to hang out with him more often so you become REALLY good friends. Then after a while start to flirt back, so that he notices you like him. After that make a move.

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What's is mean when you like jacking yourslef? or something like that cause one kid at my school said that he saw this guy "jacking himself"? i dunno if that's the write word or not?

When a guy is masterbating, its called "jacking himself" or jacking off.

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ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.

HIM: do you think its time time for a change?

ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what

HIMME: no tell me

HIM: nvm

ME:k

ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.

HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?

ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna

HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone

ME: they act like they dont like them....

hIM: well

>HIM>: do you wanna break up?

HIM: or take a brkeakk

ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....

HIM: o

ME: whatever

HIM: k?

ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...

HIM: fine

ME: fine what..?

HIM: uhh i dont no

then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?

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Awe!! Well he's being immature!! Ask him why he's been acting soo weird lately, and tell him to tell you whats on his mind. If he keeps acting this way sooner or later you're going to get into a fight which will ruin your friendship and relationship, so i suggest if he does keep doing it break up with him. He isn't right for you!

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I'm friends with a guy who is 44 years old. I swear to god I think he is obsessed by farts. It's all he ever talks about!! This one time we were watching a movie and he said" oh wouldnt it be funny if that guy farted". Another time we were playing a card game and he said that he "loved farts". He's also said that he wonders what it would sound/smell like when I farted.
Then he told me that when he was in highschool he would sneak farts in the classroom, also I've seen him stick his bum out and pretend to fart while making a fart noise with his mouth.
I'm a fun girl and like a good joke too, but I think he behavior is a little immature.
Does anyone else think this behavior is strange and a little gross?

I think this question is fake.....

but yes i think its disgusting.....

hang out with people your own age... that are actually mature.....

that man's grosss....




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Ok, for a couple weeks, I have been noticing that my underwear after I wear it has some sort of a white paste on it. I don't know what it is and I don't want to ask my mom. It kinda looks like goo/gel. I wear thongs but I don't think that started it. I've noticed it before than. Note: I haven't started my period yet.
I'll rate 5's. Thanks!

Its discharge, not paste. Lol! Once you get discharge it means your periof is coming soon! Hooray!!!

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I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?

Talk to him about it. Say you dont feel comfortable with him flirting with your friend.

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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do?

You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him you're not ready yet. If he gets mad then forget about him. Your bf should respect you and not rush things through.

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ok the love of my life (but he doesn't like me more than a friend) told me last nite that his dad was beating the sh*t out of him by a text message. so i then talked to a mutual friend and she said he said the same thing to her but that he pushed him down a flight of stairs and it really hurt him!! we dont kno weather or not to believe him. like he tells everyone this but none of his guy friends believe him really, just the 3 of his closest "girl friends" (me, and 2 mutual friends). they have different stories (ex: "we were on the phone and he started screaming and crying because he was in the shower hiding from his dad when he heard him coming and had to hang up"). we dont know whether to believe him or not..

once, one of his guy friends told us that he saw his dad smack him REALLY hard once..i dont know where.

please help..what should i do? its serious..also, no one knows what happened to his mom

This sounds like he's telling the truth, BUT just in case talk to him. Ask him if its the truth and tell him you are going to report your dad. That will get him to tell the truth. If he lies he'll get in trouble. I reccomend you tell an adult at school or the police.

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

AXE is better!! But TAG is still awesome!! Consider yourself warned, lol.
Yup, Yup.

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alright.. not to gross anyone out, but i have a question. so i'm 15 & sexually active & have been for about half a year. well, me and my boyfriend stopped using condoms but when we dont, i guess you could say i "spit it out", but im not talking about with my mouth. i'm wondering, does anyone know why i do that?

It releases it because its not supposed to be there.... and you stopped using condoms?? Okey Dokey, but hopefully you dont come back to advicenators asking if you're pregnant. I suggest you use condoms.... unless you want kids.

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okay... so my brother always swears at me and calls me fat and ugly and stuff... and he hits, punches, kicks, etc. me all the time. not enough to leave a bruise or anything (occasionally) but i'm not sure if this is considered abuse? also, my mom (my mom doesn't do it a LOT) and my sister both always tell me i'm stupid, ugly, fat, (same as my brother) but they don't hit me unless they're really mad... do you consider this abuse?

Awe, im soo sorry your family treats you like crap!!! And yes, it is abuse, both mental and pyshical abuse.
1) You could talk to them about them and tell them you will report to the police if they do it again. If they laugh at what you have to say, next time, report it. Then you'll be laughing.

2) Tell your counselor. She'll probably want to set up meeting or something with you and your family and discuss the issue.

Good Luck

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Does anyone know of any movies that have dancing in them?
I need hip hop or straight up street dancing movies.
Apart from Honey and You Got Served.

The only one i know is "Save the Last Dance."

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um....ok im 14 and im pregnant! my mom keeps on asking who the dad is but i dont even know....ive had sex 3 times and with 2 different guys...the first one was some guy i met on the internet about 24 AND the other guy i had sex with twice and he is 49 yrs old....i know there is tests to figure it out....but i dont know where to get that...at a hospital i guess....how do i tell my mom who the guy is anyway is what im asking...its either a 24 yr old or a 49 yr old....what should i do!!!!!???? please help... i will rate with anything

OMFG what the hell is wrong with you??? You had sex with a 24 year old and a 49 year old??!!! Take one of those tests that detirmine the father!! Next time think before you have sex with a 49, and 24 year old!! Also thats considered ILLEGSL because you are under the age of 18 and they are over that age!!! "Show me where yo head at," as a song goes.....

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Is it true that drinking a lot of milk can make boobs bigger?

No, the only way to do it is to put some weight on.... but thats not a good thing...

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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)

You pop it, then put toothpaste on it to reduce redness of the rest of the pimple.
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I look thru peoples columns and the have hyperlinks to other peoples pages in theire bio.
I tried requesting people and the hyperlinks arent there. How do i make the hyperlinks.

< A HREF="WEBSITE URL">TEXT< / A >
Delete all the spaces except the one between A and HREF. So there should be a space between them two, and everything else doesnt have a space.
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ok so im 5 5....5 6 and im 124 pounds i think im overweight but alot of my friends say im skinny and some of my guy friends who mess round and pic me up say im light but when i look in the mirror i dont see skinny i see fat
am i fat or overweight/healthy

No, thats a perfect weight for your height!!

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I have to analyze poems and write a biography on a poet and i signed up to do Dr. Seuss. the problem with that is I can't find the text anywhere online and i only have one book by him and i have to do 2. if anyone can find me a site with the book or wants to type one up, i'd love them forever!

Just go to a library and search for books in their library on their computers!! Here are some titles, "One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish", "The Cat in the Hat", "The Foot Book", "Fox in Socks", "Green Eggs and Ham", and "Oh the Places You'll Go."
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